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Anna Thayer Obituary

Anna Mae Thayer

nee Lazar

Anna Mae "Ann" Thayer - (nee Lazar ) passed away on October 30, 2019, peacefully and surrounded by family while at Presence St. Joseph Medical Center following a brief hospitalization. Age 85.

Ann was known for her fierce love of family, absolute and unwavering faith, warm and welcoming personality, and undeniably delicious food. She never knew an enemy and within minutes made you feel as if you had known her for years. She was one of a kind. She worked at St. Joes Hospital as a pulmonary function technician as well as in public relations for McDonalds before her most well-known "career" with her son Rick in the restaurant business. Her soups were a staple to native Jolietans.

Ann is survived by her children, Ellen (Jim) McAsey, Annette (John) Scully, Peggy (John) Hausser, Rick (Danna) Thayer, Tom Thayer and foster daughter JoBelle Yonely; grandchildren Chris (Patrick) Smith, Jim (Ammie) McAsey, Craig (Emily) McAsey, Brett (Amanda) Boyter, Justin (Lisa) Boyter, Dane Thayer, Britt (Jason) Florin, Annie (Joe) Tumpis; great-grandchildren Mike and Tom Smith, Claire and Caroline McAsey, Carson and Taylor Boyter, John Henry Florin; sisters-in-law Karen Thayer, Diane (Lee) Goodenough, Mary Lazar, Judy Thayer; and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

Preceded in death by her husband of 67 years, Dick, parents Peter and Helen Lazar; brothers Art Lazar, Peter Lazar; sisters Helen (Bud) Gasparich, Veronica (Mike) Gerberi; brother-in-law Doug Thayer.

The family is extremely grateful to the doctors and nurses at Presence St. Josephs who gave Ann such wonderful and compassionate care. The family also thanks Dr. Patel and staff who gave Ann not only medical care, but also a very cherished friendship for many years.

A Memorial Mass will be held at the Cathedral of St. Raymond Nonnatus Saturday, November 30, 2019. A Memorial visitation will be held at the Cathedral from 9:00 A.M until time of Mass at 10:30 A.M. In lieu of flowers donations in Ann's name may be made to Joliet Area Hospice.

For information call (815) 744-0022 or visit www.CHSFUNERAL.com.

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Published by Herald-News on Nov. 10, 2019.

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Surbrina Glenn

August 22, 2021

Annette my heart goes out to you and family. I am so very sorry for your loss. I pray the Lord's strength for you and your family.

ann and george troha

November 29, 2019

Rest in peace.Ann. You were a delight to know over the years. Our condolences to the family.

November 17, 2019

Our condolences on the loss of your mother, she was a fine lady. We always made a point of having lunch at the restaurant when we got back into town to visit. We will miss her.

Bob and Melody Russ
Land O Lakes, Fl.

November 15, 2019

To the Entire Thayer Family,
Our deepest sympathy on the great loss of such an amazing woman. May God bless her in her eternal life with Him.
Lori Rogers Koppelmann and Deanne Nonnie Stanton

Mrs. Sheila Sasso

November 14, 2019

A fine lady who welcomed me to the Joliet area many years ago when I was a newlywed. She could always be counted on for her generosity AND for the excellent dishes she prepared for everyone to enjoy. It was a pleasure to know her and her family and I will treasure the memories. Sincere sympathy to all.

Kathleen French

November 14, 2019

My deepest sympathies to the Thayer family and especially to my former St Ray's classmate, Ellen. Your mom was a sweet woman and will be missed. God bless you and your family.

Georgene Venske

November 12, 2019

Condolences to the family.

November 12, 2019

Dear Thayer Family,
Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear mother. She was truly an inspiration to us all! May loving memories always live in your heart. Much love and prayers are coming your way!!
Our love, sympathy, & friendship,
Pete & Dee Abate

Gregory Morin

November 12, 2019

My sincere condolences to the Thayer Family. Ann was a gift and friend to us all . She will be greatly missed. God's peace in the months to come.

Carmella Boucher

November 12, 2019

My condolences to the Thayer family. Anna Mae will be remembered for so many things that she gave to the whole city. She will be missed.

John Ragusa

November 11, 2019

THE ENTIRE THAYER FAMILY OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCE AND PRAYERS. YOUR MOM WAS THE BEST. ALWAYS OFFERING MORE SOUP. ALWAYS TOOK CARE OF ME WITH LIVER AND ONIONS WHEN OUR FRIDAY LUNCHES AT THAYER/S .
JOHN & BONNIE RAGUSA
SCOTTSDALE,AZ.

Tom Watson

November 11, 2019

Rick, Tom and Thayer Family,
We are deeply saddened to learn of your mother's passing. She was truly a wonderful lady. The wonderful memories that all of you have of her, will help ease the pain of her loss. She will now be with the love of her life, your dad, in heaven. We wish to express our most sincere condolences, and will keep all of you in our prayers.
Tom and Nita Watson
Mesa, AZ

David Isabelli

November 10, 2019

Rick and Tom, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Praying the Holy Spirit of Jesus comfort you in this time!

KEVIN REARDON

November 10, 2019

WHAT CAN ANYONE SAY ABOUT ANN THAT HAS NOT ALREADY BEEN SAID....SHE WAS A SAINT WHO WALKED AMOUNG US.... TO HAVE KNOWN ANN WAS A HONOR AND PRIVILEGE SHE WILL BE MISSED...........

Michelle Smith and Family

November 10, 2019

Being "neighbors" on Kelly Ave. meant that we always got to see your mom. She was always so concerned with everyone. Once when my son was a little guy, I went to pick up some soup and she asked where he was since he was usually with me. I told her he was sick and she said, "a boy needs to build up his strength after being sick." She gave me an extra cup of her chicken noodle and told me to take it to him and make sure he ate it all up. That was your mom. Never too busy to take care of someone. He still has the stuffed animal she gave him when he was four - he's now fifteen. May your family receive God's blessings and comfort in this difficult time. Knowing your mom was both an honor and a privilege.

November 10, 2019

Ann, you will be missed.

Mike Kelly

November 5, 2019

Tom, Rick and the entire Thayer family, God Bless you all. The Joliet community has lost an amazing, wonderful lady. It was always fun to stop by the restaurant for lunch and get a very nice welcome from Ann. Most times for me included an big hug. I like so many, considered Ann a friend. She was always so gracious. She took so much pride in her soups and of the wonderful food. Ann thank you for all the good memories and hospitality. God Bless !!

Michelle Salazar

November 4, 2019

Your mom was a very sweet person.
She always had a smile on her face when I would see her at Sams Club.
I will truly miss seeing her.
My heart goes out to the family and friends.
You have a beautiful Angel watching over you.

Kathleen French

November 3, 2019

My deepest condolences on the loss of your mother, Ann. I especially wish to send these to my St Ray's classmate Ellen McAsey. Your mom was a very dynamic person and I remember enjoying meals at the restaurant on Jefferson St when she ran it. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless.

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