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Eleanor Orr Obituary

Eleanor L. Orr

(nee Fratia)

Age 98, of Joliet, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 30, 2020 at her late residence. She was born and raised in Dwight, IL, the last surviving daughter of Frank and Maria (D'Agastino) Fratia. Eleanor attended the College of St. Francis in Joliet until she moved to Pasadena, California while her husband Jim attended the University of Southern California. They returned to Joliet following his graduation to raise a family and be close to her sisters. She resided in Joliet for 70 years, mainly in the St. Patrick's Neighborhood, Woodlawn Terrace and the Timbers Assisted Living Residence in Shorewood. Eleanor was a member of St. Patrick Catholic Church, serving her church as secretary/bookkeeper for 43 years, a Eucharistic Minister and lector. She was also a member of the Council of Catholic Women. Eleanor was a talented seamstress and loved traveling with her husband, Jim.

She is survived by her son, Terry (Jill) Orr of St. Louis, MO; two daughters, Sheila (Paul) Caliban of Cumming, GA and Mary Margaret Valentino of Joliet; 10 grandchildren, Megan (Rick) Davis, Andrew (Abby) Orr, Colin Orr, Caitlin (Jason) Courson, Hayley Caliban, Bret (Liz) Caliban, Alexandra Caliban, Raymond "Bo" (Erin) Valentino, Elizabeth (Steve) Ficek and Gina Valentino; 12 great-grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her loving husband, James; her parents; seven sisters, including her twin sister, Ellen Buffo (August 10, 2020) and two brothers.

Visitation for Eleanor L. Orr will be Saturday, October 3, 2020 at the Fred C. Dames Funeral Home, 3200 Black Rd. (at Essington Rd.), Joliet at 9:30 a.m. until time of prayer service at 10:45 a.m. The funeral procession will continue to St. Patrick Catholic church, 710 W. Marion St., Joliet where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:30 a.m. In accordance with the Illinois guidelines, a 50 person capacity will be followed at both locations. Face masks are required and social distancing will be observed. Enshrinement will follow at Resurrection Mausoleum in Romeoville. In lieu of flowers, memorials in Eleanor's name to Joliet Area Community Hospice or the Blessed Virgin Mary Grotto Fund at St. Patrick Catholic Church would be appreciated. For more information, please call 815-741-5500 or visit her Memorial Tribute at www.fredcdames.com where you may send an online condolence or share a favorite memory.

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Published by Herald-News from Oct. 2 to Oct. 3, 2020.

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Bruce Schiefelbein

October 2, 2020

My condolences to Mary, Bo, Beth, Gina, Sheila, Terry and the entire family. Eleanor was such a sweet person - a kind woman who raised three wonderful children. She lived her life in a way that set an example for all who knew her - a good, honest, loving and caring person whose faith in our Lord was unwavering. Thank you, Eleanor, for the love and memories. May God rest your soul and be with you forever.

Patricia Terlep Desiderio

October 2, 2020

My deepest sympathy on the death of your beautiful Mother. She was so sweet, the perfect person to help the parishioners of St Patrick's.

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Fred C. Dames Funeral Home and Crematory - Joliet Chapel

3200 Black at Essington Roads, Joliet, IL 60431

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Fred C. Dames Funeral Home and Crematory - Joliet Chapel

3200 Black at Essington Roads, Joliet, IL 60431

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Mass of Christian Burial

11:30 a.m.

St. Patrick Catholic Church

710 W. Marion St., Joliet, IL

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