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Rhoda McFarland Obituary
Survived by her mother, Barbara L. Parish-Hamilton; and father, Hilton (Carolyn) Hamilton; three brothers, Hilton L. (Chiante) Hamilton, Maurice L. (Sue) Hamilton and Vincent (Dena) Hamilton; one sister, Chrystal (Duwayne) Poston of Austin, Texas; maternal grandmother, Lula M. Parish; aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins also survive; a fiance, Stewart Gibbs.
Visitation Saturday, 10 AM. Funeral Services will be Saturday, 11:00 AM at The Word of Life Christian Center. Pastors Tim and Adam Bagwell, officiating. Interment Hills of Rest Cemetery. Visitation Friday, 2-9 PM at the Word of Life Christian Center (1500 Cedarwood Drive, Crest Hill). Range Funeral Home
202 S Eastern Ave
Joliet, IL 60433
(815) 722-2215
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Memories and Condolences
for Rhoda McFarland
Maqrge Mostyn
February 2, 2009
So difficult to realize that a year has passed. Continued prayers,
Marge Mostyn
Marge Mostyn
March 16, 2008
So glad to see it on Most Wanted last night. Every day, I pray that this man will be found.
MM
Janice Moffett
March 7, 2008
May God be with you. Rhoda was a wonderful woman who has blessed everyone she's ever met. Know that she is on the Right Side of GOD Smiling down on you. My prayers are with you.
Marge Mostyn
March 6, 2008
To Rhoda's Family,
Continued prayers and thoughts of Rhoda and your family go your way as this first month has passed.
Hopefully, others will continue to let you know how much she was loved and missed and may they share some of their stories with you about her role in their lives.
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Veronica Moten & Family
March 1, 2008
Although no words however kind, can ease the loss you bear - May it bring a share of comfort to know that others care. We're keeping you all in our prayers. I just got thru talking to my brother, Michaeal Webb, and was saddened by the news. I pray that God comforts and consoles the family during this grievious time.
Valerie Rodriguez
February 29, 2008
To the Family of Rhoda,
My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I didn't know Rhoda, personally, but I feel like I did once I saw her beautiful smiling face on the news and in the papers. Her beautiful countenance resembled the face that everybody would know. I have been constantly praying. I know that God will heal your hurt and He certainly knows the pain. "God said, He'll never leave you nor forsake you" You can call him anytime, anywhere. He'll be there in the darkest Hour. There's not a Friend like the lowly Jesus. No not one. Be comforted in knowing that God is standing by your side.
"Nothing takes God by Surprise".
Praying your Strength in God!
Valerie Townsend - Rodriguez
Karimah O
February 27, 2008
After watching a news report on CNN today, I felt compelled to find out more about this lady, Rhoda. I live in Texas and I found a video tribute on You Tube that is absolutely fabulous and the musical accompaniment is very nice.
This video allowed me to see a small glimpse of a lady who by all accounts made life better for many. May the grace of God be with Rhoda's family and friends during this difficult and trying time. Keep the faith and continue to cherish memories of your daughter, sister, fiance, aunt and friend.
Peace and Blessings,
Beverly Owens
February 26, 2008
To the family and parents of Rhoda, may God Bless you greatly. I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Rhoda through my daughter Tawona Ross and grandchildren. She was a loving and caring person and always met you with a beautiful smile. Her courage and concern will never be forgotten.
Tawona Ross
February 21, 2008
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The memories of Rhoda are priceless. Her life will forever be remembered as our hearts are filled with joy. Rhoda a friend to the end who will never be forgotten.
John Rizzuto
February 19, 2008
Just heard the 911 tape. God bless you trying to save everyone until the end. I am sure God welcomed you lovingly into Heaven.
Ginny Stubblefield
February 18, 2008
To Rhonda's Family, I never knew Rhonda, but I'm told Rhonda was an Air Force Nurse. I'm so sorry I did not know her, as I'm a retired AF Nurse & live right here in IL. On behalf of the entire AF Nurse Corps, I send our sympathy. God Bless you all & you are in my prayers.
Love In Christ, Ginny Stubblefield
kenneth logan
February 17, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Kathleen Seabron
February 16, 2008
I am so very sorry for the loss of such a wonderful person and friend. My heart goes out to all of Rhoda's family at this time with hope for peace in the days ahead.
Gwendolyn White
February 16, 2008
To the family and parents of Rhoda, I want you to know that you are not alone in the grief you are feeling. I too know what you are going through and what you will go through in the coming weeks and months ahead. You will have many question as to why? You will have many things to get ready or go through and that should be done in time. Sometimes it just can’t be faced and that’s ok, for you will know when the time is right for you. There are no right or wrong ways to grieve, it’s an individual journey that unfortunately we now have to take. I ask that God give the comfort, strength and courage that you are going to need. You can cry, vent, or just talk as only another person who has been where you are can really know what you are going through. May God continue to be with you and heal you.
Gwen White, Robert Whitlow & Family!!
Sylvia Barnett
February 15, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Elaine Donald (Bew)
February 14, 2008
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. May your memories bring you comfort.
Maria
February 14, 2008
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Date: 11 Feb 2008 17:05:52 -0600
Subject: Guest Book for Rhoda C. McFarland (Hamilton)
Message: I am Maria Reinsch(Costa)Rita
my sister was a classmate of
Rhoda's back @ St.Joseph
School. I remember Rhoda to
always having a smile on her
face.I am so sorry for your
loss and the loss of everyone
that knew her.She truly was
one of a kind and i guess it
was time for her to make God
smile.My prayers are with you
and your family. God Bless
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susan zimmer
February 13, 2008
I did not know Rhoda personally, but I did shop at lane bryant several times and she did take care of me. She was a very beautiful person and my heart goes out to her family, My thoughts and prayers are with her family at this very difficult time. May Rhoda rest in peace.
STACEY SIMPSON
February 13, 2008
TO MRS BARB I WANT TO SEND MY CONDOLENCES TO YOU ON YOUR LOSS OF MS. RHODA I STILL SEE HER FACE AND A WONDERFUL SMILE THAT SHE WAS WELL KNOWN FOR SHE WAS ALWAYS TRYING TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN EVERYONE. I MISS HER SO MUCH BUT I KNOW SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW.I AM AT A LOSS FOR WORDS BECAUSE I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE IS GONE. MY FAMILY SENDS THEIR LOVE AND PRAYERS FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND AS THE DAYS GO BY THE HURT AND THE PAIN WILL SLOWLY FADE WISHING YOU THE BEST AT YOUR TIME OF SORROW
Judi Meier
February 13, 2008
May God be with the family and give you strength to deal with what has happened as only He can.
A NICOR sister - Judi
Selene Williams
February 13, 2008
To the families of Rhoda Mcfarland,
A very pleasnt, kind and sweet person to see and talk to. She will be greatly missed. She was an angel to everyone on earth, now she's the angel in the sky still watching and praying for all of us. My condolences and prayers.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
Kyndria Carter (Edwards)
February 13, 2008
Rhoda, you know you were loved by so many and the Celebration of Your Life service was an uplifting service, one that reminded us of what you stood for and the way you died will not over shadow how you lived. I love you like a Sister and you will always be special to me and the rest of my family. I will honor you by daily seeking out what my Purpose & Destiny in life is and I will even more, allow God to lead my life and make sure I continue to live the life God planned for me. You constantly told all of us that, your words will not fall to the ground because we know those words came from our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ. You spoke them as He gave them to you.
Thank you Rhoda!
Ms. Barb & Family, you will be in my prayers.
Malinda Taylor
February 12, 2008
My prayers go out to Rhoda's family. Just know that she will always be with you and you will see her again. Ask the Lord for help in this time of need and it will be done. I may be related to the Hamilton's and would like to know if anyone remembers Roena Campbell? Her mother's maiden name was Hamilton. Roena married Matthew Russell. They were from Mississippi. Roena is my paternal grandmother. One of her sons, Ivory, is my father. Please contact me at your convenience by email: [email protected] or at (614)443-8237.
MAURICE HAMILTON
February 11, 2008
MY FAMILY AND I ( HAMILTON AND PARISH FAMILY), WOULD LIKE TO THANK ALL WHO WROTE TO US IN ARE TIME OF NEED. WE WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU ALL. JUST KEEP GOD 1ST AND THE REST WILL FOLLOW. WE ALL KNOW WHERE ARE SMILING ANGEL IS AND THAT WHERE RHODA WANT TO BE. HEAVEN. SO, THANKS AND GOD BLESS
Maria Reinsch
February 11, 2008
Rhoda I remember you with the great big sincere smile on your face just as so many people have written as well. Laughter and smiles is the greatest gift to give someone and you have given it in abundance.I guess it was time for you to share this gift with God.All who knew Rhoda should feel blessed to have received her smiling face.Thank you Rhoda for being an exceptional human being.God Bless and rest in peace.
Kelly
February 11, 2008
To the family and friends of Rhonda, may you find the comfort of God's love to get you through this difficult time. South Bend, IN has you in our prayers.
Nora Cortez
February 11, 2008
To the Hamilton family & Rhoda's fiance, my prayers are with you to help you through your grief. I knew Rhoda from Living Faith Church, last time I spoke with her was at Wal-mart, she shared Princess Unveiled obviously something dear to her heart. She had high expectations for this ministry to take off. I know that her hopes will be realized in this ministry. She always had a smile on her face and I know she had a big heart, she will be missed but I know that she is walking streets of gold at this moment. If you could see her now.
Karyn Grace
February 11, 2008
I have fond memories of learning to play basketball from Rhoda at St. Joe's. Barb, Hilton(son), Maurice and family please know that our prayers are with your family. From The Grace Family;
John, Marge, Karyn & Kevin
Jacquetta Duncan
February 10, 2008
To Barb and family,
I want to say that Jacquetta Duncan and family sends the condolensces to you and your family.Rhoda touched me and my family's life in so many ways. It's still seem so sur-real to me. We love her and will miss her greatly. To Queen Rhoda From Jacqasia and Malasia say hi and they know you are up there with God and the other loved ones we lost looking down us and being our guardian angel.You always took the time to watch over your princess and now God's watching over his. We want to thank you for make us a part of your family. We love and will miss you always you can never be replaced in our hearts.To Mrs. Barb and family and Rhoda La'Donte, Nicholas, And Dominic say they love you and will miss you as well. Thank you for being such a great friend. From the Duncan Family.
MELISSA SAUNDERS
February 10, 2008
FOR THE BATTLE IS NOT YOURS,IT'S THE LORDS.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL,AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
Helen
February 10, 2008
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Jean Ferraro
February 9, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss. I shopped frequently at LB and just loved Rhoda. She was always so helpful and caring to everyone. My heart mourns her loss and the loss of the others. Your family will forever be in my prayers.
Barbara Dortch
February 9, 2008
Hilton and Chiante and Family, I can not know the sorrow and pain of your loss as you feel it, but I do again send my sincerest regrets and condolensces to you all.
Love you , Aunt Bobbie.
February 9, 2008
Dear Friends and family of Rhoda McFarland: I was a frequent shopper at the Lane Bryant that Rhoda managed. It was always a joy when Rhoda was there. I know that more than I would ask for her by name when they came in. I cannot tell you how many times she helped myself, my daughter, and my family and friends in the store, and even on many occasions on the phone. She was always there to help. I am so glad that she was also a believer and is in a much more wonderful place, than in this Babylon world of ours. I will miss her "larger than life" smile and will keep you and your families in my prayers. A "sister" in Mokena
Laura Lee
February 9, 2008
I am very sad about Rhoda's shortened life. But I know that GOD is smiling because His daughter is home with HIM. We should celebrate her life. She has touched so many and I will never forget her.
Thia
February 9, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I was a regular customer at that store. I didn't know much about Rhoda's history but reading it the past few days makes a lot of sense. She was and is an angel, having such an ethereal quality about her, I am sure she was there comforting the others during this unimaginable tragedy.
Ricky Guerrero
February 9, 2008
I will miss you Rhoda.My prayers are with you and your family.
Amy Johns
February 9, 2008
What a strong, courageous, and Beautiful woman. Our hearts are with you during this time of mourning. I am so very sorry for your loss. Always know deep in your hearts, that Rhoda will look down at you and everyone else who she inspired, and she will know how very loved she was.
The Johns Family (Manteno, Illinois)
Howard & Doris Dodd
February 9, 2008
Our prayers and thoughts are with you in your time of grief
Karen barajas
February 9, 2008
My deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family and friends of Rhoda.My prayers are with you.
Beverly Bridges & Family
February 9, 2008
Dear Barb and family. This is a time for all to come together and keeping the faith...I know that it is hard but Rhoda is in paradise now and that is the most precious gift that God has given to her and the others that were taken from us so suddenly. My love and prayers are with you and your family, and the others. May God wrap his loving arms around all of you in this very hard time. Beverly Bridges
Kenya Edwards
February 8, 2008
God looked around his Garden and found an empty place.
He then looked down upon his earth and saw your loving face.
He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest.
His Garden must be beautiful, he always takes the best.
He knew that you were suffering, he knew you were in pain.
And knew that you would never get well on earth again.
He saw your path was difficult, he closed you tired eyes,
He whispered to you "Peace be Thine" and gave you wings to fly.
When we saw you sleeping so calm and free of pain,
We would not wish you back to earth to suffer once again.
You've left us precious memories, your love will be our guide,
You live on through your children, you're always by our side.
It broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you on the day God called you home
Kim
February 8, 2008
I was a frequent shopper at LB in Tinley Park and part of the reason I drove out there was because of the staff. Rhoda led a fantastic team of women and I feel like I have truly lost a friend. I remember one specific conversation she and I had with another customer about how she had found "Mr. Right" and that you just need to be patient. What a beautiful woman. My heart mourns and my prayers are with each of you.
Kim Fuhr
February 8, 2008
I consider myself blessed to have known Rhoda. She was a beautiful woman of God and someone that I loved, admired and looked up to dearly. I know she is in a better place now as she is watching over all of us being our guardian angel. I will never forget the memories I have of Rhoda-especially her big smile, big & warm hugs and loving personality. Miss Barb and family have been in my thoughts and prayers during this time. I love you Rhoda...we miss you!
Carol Gardner(Halfman)
February 8, 2008
Dear Hamilton Family,
I have many fond memories of Rhoda as a classmate at St. Joe's and LTHS. I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of your tragic loss. Please accept that she is home with the Lord now and you will be reunited one day. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cassandra Shelton
February 8, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Sheri
February 8, 2008
If you could see me now, I'm walking streets of gold.
If you could see me now, I'm standing strong and whole.
If you could see me now, you'd know I've seen His face.
If you could see me now, you'd know the pain is erased.
You wouldn't want me to ever leave this place,
If you could only see me now.
Rest in Peace, Rhoda
Stacey Lovstad
February 8, 2008
Barb and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Gwendolyn McFarland-Muldrew
February 8, 2008
Dear McFarland Family:
My prayers goes out to you for your loss of Rhoda. I am so hurt by this because you may be a cousin of ours because my maiden name is also McFarland. I have received so many calls about your daughter that I must find out. Please contact me at your convenience at (810) 230-0154. May God bless and keep you all.
Arethia Millsap-Whiteside
February 8, 2008
May God's ever unchanging hand always encompass your grieving hearts
a friend
February 8, 2008
I was a frequent customer at Rhoda's store, and remember her fondly. Although I did not know her on a personal level, I did want to take this time to extend my deepest sympathies to all to just let you know how very sorry I am for your loss. May God's grace comfort you during this difficult time.
charollette (mcdonald) Williams
February 8, 2008
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Parrish,Hamilton,Mcfarland families Rhoda was a sweet person as I could remember as young children. And it carried over in her adulthood.Family keep the Faith.
Rhonda Griffin
February 8, 2008
To the Hamilton family my prayers and thoughts are with you, and may God keep you at such a time as this and remember earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal, the human part of will miss her dearly it greives us to lose a loved one but always remember and have joy in knowing Rhoda has gone on to be with the Lord. God bless each and everyone of you and forever keep you.
Shawna Adusei
February 8, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Martin
February 8, 2008
I am so sorry for what has happened. Please accept my condolences. Like many people across the state, I am keeping all families affected in thought & prayer. May God give you peace and calm assurance at this very difficult and trying time.
Emily Love
February 8, 2008
My deepest heart felt sympathy to the family. A woman who touch so many life's and gave so much of her self and time to others. She accomplished more in her life time then most. Her warm smile and her love will remain in our hearts.
Rosalind Renee Harris-Wakefield
February 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Chambrous & Rowena Myers
February 8, 2008
Trina Parish (Williams) & Family,
We are deeply saddned by your lost but it is God's gain. Know that earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal.
Traci Bagley
February 8, 2008
Miss me a little and not too long, And not with your head bowed low. Remember the love we all shared. Miss me , but let me go.When you are lonely and sick at heart, go to the family and friends we know, And bury you sorrows in doing good deeds. Miss me, but let me go. To the family and friends of Rhoda, a lovely lady with a heart of gold and smile that made everyone smile. She will be sorely missed and I know she will be watching over us all, not wanting anyone to be sad, for she is Home now and we will all join her and rejoice.
Aisha Hendrix
February 8, 2008
God only takes the best! My prayers are with you.
Jen Rubino
February 8, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I was a frequent shopper at the Lane Bryant that Rhoda Managed. I would often see Rhoda and ask her opion. She helped me several times and was always wonderful. She was good at what she did and had a big heart. I recently got married and Rhoda had asked me to bring in my pictures. I didn't get the chance to do that, but just by that request alone, you could tell Rhoda was a wonderful God centered woman. I feel at ease knowing she is walking the streets of gold with our Lord.
Florence Ortega
February 8, 2008
To the parents, family and friends. Our heart goes out to you in memories of Rhoda. We want you to know that the Ortega family (Florence, Chelin, Deidra and Michael Ortega) would like to let you know how very much we love you and so does Jesus! Rhonda was like my adopted daughter, she was such a joy to know. And will be greatly missed; she was a wonderful, loving and greatly blessed child of God. So, many people have been blessed thru her Ministry. May God continue to keep you and your love ones in perfect peace!
Glenn and Judy Sandberg
February 8, 2008
Maurice and family,
We are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and our prayers are with you and your family.
Daryl Parsons
February 8, 2008
My sincere sympathy to the family of Miss Rhoda. She was a caring, compassionate, wonderful woman who showed God's light brightly. She has left a legacy which will live on. My prayers to you. May the Lord, the God of all comfort, bring you comfort during this most difficult time.
Shirley Caruth
February 8, 2008
Rhoda was and now is an angel. Her radiant smile lite a many lives. I believe she is smiling down on us. She is in care of Gods hands. She was blessed. Condolence to her family and Friends.
Rowena Myers (Range)
February 8, 2008
To the Family of Rhoda McFarland,
This was an Unexpected, Horrible death but just know that she is finally at rest. While she was here on this earth she completed the Lords work. It is well with her SOUL that she finally reached her GOAL. I know that many tears have been shed but the Master knew what lied ahead. Remember what Rhoda Meant, Gave and the ENCOURAGING WORDS TOO! Because What she had was GENUINE and TRUE! Know WHO (Jesus) she stood FOR because now she is at his (Jesus) door.
Rusha Jones-Brooks
February 8, 2008
To the Parish/Hamilton family. May the love of family and friends be a source of comfort to you in this time of sorrow. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
The Coleman Family
February 8, 2008
To the Hamilton family: Pastor Rhoda is a beautiful angel in the city of God now. We pray Gods peace and strength for your family in the days to come
Felinda Holmes
February 8, 2008
I pray that God will send his comforting spirit to all of you during this difficult time.
Felinda Holmes
Tammy McNeal-O'Neal
February 8, 2008
To the Hamilton family; Jesus said, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted". Call upon the name of Jesus our Lord and Savior and he will comfort you. The Word of God says, "to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord". Be confident in knowing that Rhoda is present with the Lord. With your faith in God, may you face this valley knowing that even when the days ahead seem dreadful, be encouraged that Jesus provides an oasis of grace in this desert of grief. Her smile will never be forgotten and she will be missed by all. We all thank God for blessing us with the gift of Rhoda... May God bless you with his love, peace, grace and mercy.
Wanda Wright
February 8, 2008
From childhood days playing outside her grandparents home with her younger sis & cousins Rhoda was the over-seer. Making sure we didn't get into trouble. Mr. Parish did not play! Looking back, its awesome how God placed the gift of pastoring upon her even then.
Rhoda's spirit of joy will always be remembered in my heart. Especially when I was shopping recently at the store we joked about how fine the new LB jeans made us look. :o)
To the Parish & Hamilton families God bless you and may he keep you.
Wanda (Thompson)Wright
Charles Thompson
Priscilla Thompson
Shannon Piecuch
February 8, 2008
I had the privilege of serving with Pastor Rhoda Mc Farland at Embassy Christian Center in Joliet, IL and through the administrative process at Embassy Nation Church in Austin, Texas. I know that the world has sent and angel home. This was a woman of compassion, excellence, honor, and love. She had a passion for life and for people. Her desire was see people reach their fullest potential and she had a voice of encouragement and hope. She gave peace to those who had none and comfort for those who were in pain. My greatest inspiration is that she has left a legacy behind her of those that her life has touched and those she has imparted to that they give life to the next generation.
My deepest heartfelt sympathy and prayers go to Barb and the whole extended family and those who new her intimately as friends. We were all so greatly blessed with what Rhoda has left with us..the gift of life. She lived life fully and beautifully.
I will miss this one-deeply.
Kimberly Vidales
February 8, 2008
My Condolences to the family of Rhoda. May the Lord be with you and keep you all in this most difficult time. May your hearts be filled with many wonderful memories. I will keep your family as well as the other victims and their families in my prayers.
God Bless You All,
Octavia Summlion
February 8, 2008
To the family: I just wanted to say to you be strong for one another. I remeber whenever I would be in trouble or Miss Rhoda would save me from my mom. Ahe would always have the look like you better get it together before I do it for you and to top it off with the famous wink and her smile. That let me know that she really did care for the younger children, and no matter what she was doing whenever some one needed her she was right there and thats what made her so special to me and all the other teenagers at the time so I have nothing but good memories to think about when I hear her name.
Emily Love
February 8, 2008
My deepest and heart felt sympathy to the family. Rhoda was a woman that touch so many life's and accomplished so much, in the 42 years that God loaned her to us.
Her smile and her love she had for people will always remain in our hearts.
Janet Arthur
February 8, 2008
Our Prayers go out to the Family Of Rhoda, We will always remember Rhoda as part of our Family. She was near and dear to us. She was a mentor to many when she attended 2nd Baptist Church, including our daughter and Grandaughter, Cicly and we meet up with her agian while attending Embassy when it was located on Richard Street, again there she was a great positive influence. You just loved being around her. We Love Her and will miss her.
Christian Clark and Janet Arthur
Connie Dillon
February 8, 2008
Barbara and family. Words cannot express how I feel regarding your loss of Rhoda. Rhoda was such a wonderful and joyous young lady. Always had a beautiful smile on her face when she greeted you.
Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. Take peace in knowing that Rhoda is with the Lord.
Lisa Moulton
February 8, 2008
To Barbara and my family the Hamilton's I am saddened by the loss of Rhoda and there are really no words to say except that I recommend you to Jesus who is the only one who can heal this hurt and if you lean on Him he will sustain you and get you through in the days yet to come. God is faithful and He will take the pain away if you just roll it over on Him. I briefly met her at a baby shower but never knew her like some of you did but I do know her mom is one of the sweetest people I've ever met and my heart really goes out to you Barb as well as Hilton and the siblings. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Carlene Griffin
February 8, 2008
My prayers are with you all doing this difficult time. May God Comfort you at this time of sorrow.
Carol Murin
February 8, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to grade school with Rhoda and remember her very fondly, she was a wonderful person. May God comfort you in your grief.
Stephanie Bell
February 8, 2008
To the Hamilton Family, I am very
sorry for your loss, words can't
express, Rhoda will be missed. I
remember going to vacation bible
school @Second Baptist Church many
years ago, and many years later while attending The Embassy. She/I
worked closely together planning
Pastor Dinners/ New Membership lunches, we both enjoyed cooking
so it was great planning the menu
with her.
Chantay & Devin Dawson
February 8, 2008
Barbara and Family And Ms. Lula
I extend my arms, my heart and all the love that I have for your family to engulf you with the strength and the courage,to let God do his work without question.I know it seems hard now but that pain will turn into something much more beautiful than hurt.My family and I send our condolences,and may God bless each and every one of you through this troubling time.
Daniel Brown
February 8, 2008
Rhoda was a joyous person. She was a positive influence on anyone who knew her. Thank you Rhoda. My condolences to her family. God bless and comfort each of you.
Jerrie & Family Davis
February 8, 2008
To all of us that knew Pastor Rhoda new one of God's angels. God sent her to show us the true meaning of Love. I can recall when I first realized this.
I had been sick and off work, times were hard for my family. When one night there was a knock on my door. When I went to answer the door there was know one there. The only thing at the door was several boxes and bags of groceries. I asked my neighbor is she has seen anyone at my door she sad no. So when my husband came home from work, I told him what had happen. We knew that it had to be an angel from God because only God knew what we were going through. Then at one Wednesday Night serivce Pastor Rhoda told a story about delivering groceries to a family and that they had know idea it was her. She said that she placed the groceries on the porch knock on the door and ran back to her van. She wondered it the family ever got them. I began to cry because I knew that she was truly the angel that God had sent to our door. We informed her that we did get the groceries and she just laugh because she often wonder about it.
All of us that knew Pastor Rhoda knew a true ANGEL OF GOD.
My family prayers are with you at this time of mourning.
Gina Crawford
February 8, 2008
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Hamilton family.
Curt and Gina Crawford
San Mateo, Ca.
Shirley House
February 7, 2008
Barbara & Family
May God keep you and comfort you in loss of your love one.
Shirley (Hayes) House & Family
charollette MCDONALD Williams
February 7, 2008
To the entire hamilton,Mafarland families,Parrish also look to the Heavens for comfort.Rhoda was an angel on earth, know she an angel up above.Family be strong, Rhoda has made it.
February 7, 2008
To the Hamilton Family,
I am so sorry for loss. Rhoda will be missed by many. She has touched so many lives, and given so much of herself. My you find happiness in the memories you have with her. I love Rhoda.
Roz Robinson
February 7, 2008
I only knew Rhoda for a short time and from the first day she held a special place in my heart. I will always remember her joyful spirit and beautiful smile. One could never forget such a beautiful spirit. My thoughts and prayers are with the Hamilton family at this time of great loss.
Venita April
February 7, 2008
My deepest condolences to the Parrish & Hamilton Family. May God continue to give you strenght as you mourn the lost of a beautiful,
faithful, wonderful servant. (Rhoda)
You are in my prayers and my heart.
Regards,
Tina D Smith
February 7, 2008
I'm sorry for your loss. May God lift you and your family up in time of this need. I will continue to pray for your family.
Maurice Gwin
February 7, 2008
My Deepest Sympathy to Rhoda's family. A beautiful person, a beautiful heart, and oh what a beautiful smile that was enough to brighten anyones day !!
Maxine Sawyer
February 7, 2008
I know that you are looking down on all of us with that big smile. You will be missed but not forgotten.
vicki spencer
February 7, 2008
hi barb i am so sorry for your lost and my heart goes out to you and your family.
god is with you during your sad times and i want you to know that i am thinking of you and you are in my thoughts and prayers. god bless
vicki co-worker
Bev Kuykendall-Barfield
February 7, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Andrea
February 7, 2008
To all who knew and loved Rhoda, let us be so thankful for the brief time that we had the privilege and the blessing of being touched by her beauty. Our grief and loss can be overcome only by the legacy of a truly Christ-like woman who improved every life she touched. Rhoda taught my son at 4 yrs old at church,and has always had a special smile and hug for him. Stephen has always loved "Miss Rhoda"! We are comforted that she is with our Father and that we will see her again.
Barbara Lanier
February 7, 2008
To the family and love ones of Rhoda, you are in my prayers and thoughts daily. The first time I met Rhoda she struck me as a strong, sweet and sincere woman. She always impressed me as having this inner knowledge of something no one else knew. She will truly be missed.
DOUGLAS SAMUELS.SR
February 7, 2008
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THIS TIME OF SORROW. THAT ALL.
DOUGLAS SAMUELS.SR
February 7, 2008
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN THIS TIME OF SORROW. THAT ALL.
Nicole Gates-Hulbert & Family
February 7, 2008
Rhoda touched many lives through her own. May God be with the family! She will be missed!
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