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David Vetare Obituary
With profound sadness, we announce the passing of David Vetare, 55, of Shelton, CT, formerly of Norwalk, CT. David died unexpectedly on December 2, 2024, due to stress related heart complications.
He is survived by his best friend, soulmate, and beloved wife, Dana Vetare, and their cherished companion, Rocco. He also leaves behind his (step)daughter, Mackenzie Millier, and her husband, Hunter, of New Hampshire, and their son, Sawyer. David is further survived by his brothers, Richard Vetare and his wife Marsha of Monroe, CT, and Scott Vetare and his wife Lynn of Norwalk, CT; nephews Michael and Steven Vetare; and niece Shelby Vetare. He was predeceased by his parents, Richard Sr. and Nancy Vetare
David graduated from Brien McMahon High School in 1987. For 32 years, David served the Norwalk Police Department with unwavering dedication and a genuine compassion that touched countless lives. He was not just a respected officer; he was a pillar of his community, known for his kindness and unwavering commitment to justice. Throughout his career he received many accolades and recognitions for the lives he served and saved.
David was an avid lover of the Raiders and the Yankees and was never happier that when he was at his second home in South Carolina sitting on the beach with a bourbon and cigar.
Even though Dave endured many traumas and tragedies in his life, he was always a beacon of light for his friends that where going through tough times, knowing they could always reach out to him. He will be greatly missed by his many friends who could always count on him for his support. While the pain of his sudden loss is immense, we find solace in the memories of his vibrant life and the positive impact he had on so many.
Due to his his wishes and those of his family services will be held by invitation only and once they are determined notifications will be made . Please feel free to reach out to the family for any further information.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to an animal rescue organization in his name – a gesture that reflects David's compassionate heart and love for animals.
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Kim Scarano
February 17, 2025
I am incredibly shocked to hear about Dave´s passing. My sincerest condolences to all of his loved ones. He will be truly missed.
Kosmas K.
January 1, 2025
You will be missed. Rest in peace and will meet again.
Angel Cosme
December 15, 2024
You are going to be missed my friend, but I still hold all the great memories we shared together at the Raiders games. Thank you!
Debbie Spinola
December 15, 2024
Dana ,so very sorry sending my condolences to you all.
Janice Sanderson
December 14, 2024
So sorry, Dana, to hear of Dave´s passing. I didn´t know his service was today, I would have been there today. Thinking of you.
Lucy Peterson
December 13, 2024
I am so deeply sorry to hear of David´s passing. I was a very good friend to his mom and worked with her and knew all the stories of the family which she loved so much. My deepest condolences to the Vetare family. He was very special. Fondly Lucy Peterson
Robert Paulin
December 13, 2024
I played Touch Football with Dave many years ago, a fierce competitor on the field, so sorry to hear of his passing, may he RIP
Mildred Dumont ( MiMi )
December 12, 2024
In loving memory of a wonderful person. Condolences to his family and friends another good guy gone too soon R.I.P Dave :(
Corinne and Mark Re
December 12, 2024
Sincere thoughts and prayers Scott to you and the family
Phylis Byington
December 12, 2024
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. R.I.P. Dave I will miss you .
Robert Buono
December 11, 2024
Dana Danny and Terry so sorry about Davids passing May he RIP
God bless BOB and Lynn Buono
John lysobey
December 11, 2024
Was a neighbor to Dave and watched him grow and become the man he was. Worked with him for years and was well aware of his dedication to the City of Norwalk. A good man gone way to early My condolences and wish that he may Rest In Peace
Joe Gaita
December 10, 2024
Our deepest condolences to you and your family, dave was a great friend for many years, we worked at stew Leonard´s security, lots of fun and lots of memories, every time we would see each others or talk on the phone he would be so upbeat with a great attitude, if there was something bothering him, you would never know it, but he always asked how my family and I were doing, he will, be missed,
Our thoughts and prayers to you all, God bless you and family
Jim Mayer
December 10, 2024
So shocked and saddened to hear of Dave's passing. Wishing peace to his entire family at this difficult time.
Judy Tower
December 10, 2024
Condolences to his family and friends another good guy gone too soon
Vicky O´Connor
December 10, 2024
Dearest Rich and Marsha-Sending sincere condolences and prayers for the passing of your brother David. May you find comfort and peace with the love of friends and family. With deepest sympathy
Joe Hayes
December 10, 2024
So sorry gonna miss you buddy .
Tony Bossone
December 10, 2024
My Sincere condolence To The Family On Your loss...May he RIP
Rosalba Gordon
December 10, 2024
To Rit and the Vetare family, may you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you.
Ken Lametta
December 10, 2024
Richie/Scott,
I am shocked and saddened by the sudden loss of Dave. Just spoke to him a while back. Dave was a great kid ALWAYS. Never without a smile. Friday night arms were our first words when we bumped into each other Lol. Please find peace going forward with the memories tucked deep.
Kenny
Gary and Diane Bradley
December 9, 2024
We are so very sorry to hear about David. He was a fine man. May he R.I.P.
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