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John James Picanza III
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John Picanza Obituary
January 11, 1944 – September 24, 2025
John James Picanza III passed away peacefully on Sept. 24, 2025, at the age of 81. Born and raised in Norwalk, he established himself as a general contractor with a sterling reputation. John met the love of his life, Carol, at a young age. The couple married on Sept 1, 1961, and raised two children. He has resided in Old Saybrook for the last 23 years.
John had a deep appreciation for the outdoors. He enjoyed fishing and was an avid golfer. His strong faith and devotion to God were central to his life. As one of Jehovah's Witnesses, he served as an elder in his congregations for many years.
John was predeceased by sister Joan and brother Robert. He is survived by his beloved wife of 64 years, Carol; his two children: John Picanza IV (Louise) and Christina Picanza, his granddaughter Allison Provost (Jordan), his brother William Picanza, and his niece, nephews and their families.
He is remembered for his work ethic, faith, and the lasting impact he made on his family and community. His trademark phrase "Happy Schmiling" will always be in our hearts.
A memorial service will be held on Oct 18, 2025, at 1:00 p.m. at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses, 179 Grove Beach Ave North, Westbrook, CT 06498. A videoconference connection via Zoom is available. Meeting ID: 876 7862 1384 Password: 521188
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Worldwide Work on donate.jw.org.
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Anna gribosky krekoska
Yesterday
Carol, so sad to read of john´s passing. U and i went brien mcmahon together. Seems like yesterday.
Old saybrook is a nice town. Our kids live in madison, guilford and trumbull. My husband and i are married 58 yrs, , have 10 grandkids, praise God.
We moved to The Villages, FL 5 yrs ago. Love the warm weather. We go to the Polka Club here....and one lady looks just like you!
I will pray for u in your sorrow. How great you were married 64 yr....God is so good. Anna gribosky krekoska
Joan Seaman
September 30, 2025
Dear Carol and family. So shocked and sad to hear of Johns passing.
Joan, Joe Seaman
Jon Bussing
September 29, 2025
Uncle John, thank you for your love and kindness throughout the years! Thank you for the great memories! Rest in peace. Love you.
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