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Betty Spilger Obituary
April 8, 1934 - February 11, 2025
Betty, of Grand Island, passed away Tuesday, February 11, 2025.
Services will be Friday, February 14, 2025, at the Berean Bible Church in Grand Island with Pastor Jim Reynolds officiating. Visitation will be at 10 a.m., at the church followed by the funeral at 11 a.m. A private burial will take place later at the G.I. City Cemetery.
Betty was born April 8, 1934, at Farwell to Wilfred and Isabelle (Chalupsky) Safarik. She was raised on the family farm north of Farwell and attended rural School District 52. She also attended Farwell High School for two years before attending St. Paul High School where she graduated in 1951.
On October 8, 1966, she was united in marriage to Gilbert Spilger. They lived in St. Paul before moving to Grand Island in 1968. They had one son, Jarrod.
From 1951 until her son was born in 1971, Betty worked for the Howard-Greeley Rural Public Power District in St. Paul. From 1983 to 1996, she was a lunchroom aide at West Lawn Elementary School.
Betty enjoyed participating in ministries at the Evangelical Free Church and Berean Bible Church, family gatherings, reading, crossword puzzles, and traveling, especially to Canada and Alaska.
She is survived by her husband, Gilbert; son, Jarrod (Krystal) Spilger of Grand Island; sister, Noreen Malone of Lincoln; brother, Rick (Elaine) Safarik of Farwell; and numerous nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents; sister and brother-in-law, Shirley and John Jarzynka; and brother-in-law, Jim Malone.
Memorials are suggested to the family for later designation. Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.apfelfuneralhome.com.
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Corey Ziola
February 13, 2025
Jarrod, sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of your Mom when we were growing up.
Jennifer (Schmidt) Cady
February 13, 2025
Jarrod, sorry to hear about your Mom. I have such fond memories of your family at all our concerts.
Brad Fried
February 13, 2025
Sorry for the loss of Betty. She was a dear friend and I will miss her smile and visits. My thoughts are with Gilbert and family.
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