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Thomas James "Tj" Frazier
1984 - 2025
BORN
1984
DIED
2025
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Thomas Frazier Obituary
April 13, 1984 - October 14, 2025
Thomas James Frazier, 41, passed away on October 14, 2025, in Lincoln, Nebraska.
Born on April 13, 1984, Thomas was a proud Nebraskan who attended Star and Barr Elementary Schools before graduating from Grand Island Senior High. He continued his education at Central Community College (C.C.C.).
Thomas served honorably in the U.S. Army for four years. His dedication to fellow veterans extended beyond his service - he was known for his generosity and commitment, including delivering free meals to veterans on Veterans Day.
A devoted husband and father, Thomas is survived by his wife Teresa; sons Payton and Hawkin; daughter Raven; mother Darcy; father Donnie; and brother Ronald. He was a loving and caring presence in their lives.
Thomas had a deep love for sports and found joy in coaching his children's teams. He also enjoyed playing golf and enthusiastically armchair quarterbacking Nebraska football games.
A committal service with military honors will be held at Omaha National Cemetery on October 29th at 1:30 p.m.
May his memory bring comfort to those who knew him.
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Vicki Hellbusch
Earlier today
My condolences to your family. I didn´t know TJ but knew Darcy. Prayers for your family.
Justin Zeleski
October 24, 2025
TJ was a great guy. I had only a relatively small number of encounters with him as he played in my brother band. However, every time I got to hang with him, or see him play, or go to a concert it was always cool. I always got to hear fun stories about him from my brother and his other friends. He was often thought of, spoken of, and remembered. When I was new to Omaha, he was the first guy I thought of going to a concert with in Lincoln. Gonna miss him. He was just a great guy. Peace out TJ.
Donna Cousins
October 24, 2025
My dearest Teresa. There are no words to say how very sorry I am over the loss of Tj! He will be so missed by all who knew him.
My love to you and the children!!
Patty Jo Braden
October 24, 2025
My heart felt sympathy
Larry Donln
October 24, 2025
My sincere condolences and prayers
Brenda Shipley
October 24, 2025
TJ always had a great smile and a welcoming personality. We enjoyed Husker Volleyball together along with Teresa and the kids. He is and will always be missed! Gone but Never Forgotten and In our Hearts Forever!! Hugs, Love Brenda
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