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Harvey Fireside Obituary

HARVEY FRANCIS FIRESIDE
ITHACA, NEW YORK - Harvey Fireside died Friday, February 1, 2008, at his home in Ithaca, after a four-year battle with multiple myeloma.
He was born December 28, 1929 in Vienna, Austria. At the time of his birth, and until he came to America in 1940, his name was Heinz Wallner. His father had changed his name from Feuerzeug to a more neutral name. His mother, Franceska Wallner, died when he was five. His father, Norbert, and his stepmother, Sidy, also predeceased him.
In March 1938, when the Nazis took over Austria, Jewish citizens listened in horror as the streets were filled with cheering Viennese, many of them sporting gold Nazi emblems, identifying them as members of the once illegal Nazi party, now a badge of special import.
Eight months later, the full impact of the Nazi invasion became clear. On Kristalnacht," the Night of Broken Glass," Hitler Youth marched through Vienna smashing Jewish-owned shops and taking anything of value. Harvey's father owned a small photography studio. A Christian friend who was now a Nazi official called Norbert to come to his shop. When he got there, the place was looted, but the official had chased the thugs away, and allowed Norbert to take out one professional camera and a guest book. Within days, Harvey's family was forced from their home and resettled in the Jewish Ghetto with members of his stepmother's family.
Harvey's family frantically looked for a way to leave Vienna, and help came from Norbert's brother in Illinois. Harvey accompanied his father to the U.S. Consulate, where their fate would be sealed. The Consulate physician hesitated to approve Norbert because he had a limp, but Norbert noticed a brand new camera on the physician's desk and commented on its virtues, and by the time he explained to the physician how it worked, the doctor said, "You will have no trouble earning a living in America.
In April of 1940, Harvey, his father and stepmother left for America, and suddenly, Heinz Wallner became Harvey Fireside, the same last name as Norbert's brother.
In 1944 Harvey and his family moved to New Brunswick, New Jersey, where Harvey attended high school. He was valedictorian of the class of 1948, and went on to graduate magna cum laude from Harvard University, class of 1952. He earned an MA from Harvard in 1955, and a Ph.D., from the New School for Social Research in 1968.
In 1959, after a whirlwind romance of just ten weeks, he married Bryna J. (Levenberg) Fireside in New York City. By 1968, with two small children in tow, they left Greenwich Village for Ithaca, where Harvey accepted a teaching position with Ithaca College in the Politics Department. He later became the Charles A. Dana professor of politics. Harvey encouraged his students to take part in the Ithaca community by volunteering in a service organization of their choice. Many of his students volunteered at the Ithaca Youth Bureau, others at the Mental Health Association (of which Harvey served as president for several years). Harvey also encouraged his students to work in local and national political campaigns, several of whom campaigned for Matt McHugh for D.A. who became the first Democratic D.A. in Tompkins County since the Civil War. He retired from Ithaca College in 1996 where he was name professor emeritus.
If there is one thing that can be said of Harvey Fireside, it is that his was a life well lived, and one in which he sought no honors. In those early years at Ithaca College, Harvey and several of his colleagues organized a group of professors who were always available to the African American students who were being actively sought for admission to the college. He also joined others who were opposed to the Vietnam War, aligned himself with Father Daniel Berrigan, and helped students get conscious objector status.
In 1973, he formed the Ithaca chapter of Amnesty International. It has been helping political prisoners ever since.
Later, he joined the local Sanctuary Movement, which helped Salvadorans who were fleeing repression in El Salvador find sanctuary. Ithaca was named as a Sanctuary City by the Common Council. Fifteen years ago, when Harvey and his wife, Bryna, took a trip along the U.S-Mexican Border to visit sanctuaries there, they returned to Ithaca with a new understanding of the terrible problems faced by those who fled their homelands. After writing articles about the situation they found, Harvey conceived the idea of starting The Border Fund, which raised funds for places along the U.S. border that were providing sanctuary for victims of torture and repression.
In addition, Harvey and Bryna were founding members of Congregation Tikkun v'Or-The Ithaca Reform Temple. Each year the children of the religious school donated gently used toys and children's clothing to each of ten shelters, including one shelter in Buffalo. Additionally, through the Temple, Harvey organized a group of volunteers to plant flowers each spring in front of Southside Community Center. Neighbors responded by planting flowers in their own front yards, as well.
Then in 1994, with war raging in the former Yugoslavia, in which the hideous term, "ethnic cleansing" was used by the Serbs to destroy Bosnian Muslims, Harvey, with Bryna and many friends, organized a branch of the Bosnian Student Project to get at-risk college students scholarships at various area colleges. TC-3 immediately responded with an offer of a scholarship to a student from Sarajevo. The Bosnian Student Project raised money to support first one, then several more Bosnian students, who then earned degrees at Cornell, Ithaca College, SUNY Binghamton, Hartwick College, and others. These students did exceptionally well, and after graduation from various colleges, several were granted refugee status.
With that war over, no more students were arriving in the United States, but Harvey soon came up with a new idea. When a refugee from Burundi, now living in Ithaca, learned that a son believed to have been killed was alive in a refugee camp in Rwanda, and needed funds for DNA testing and airfare, Congregation Tikkun v'Or came to the rescue by offering the woman an interest-free loan, to be paid back as she could. It took two more years before the young man was able to come to Ithaca. Out of this act, The Eleanor Roosevelt Loan Fund was established to provide no-interest loans to immigrants and refugees in the Tompkins County area. Since 2000, over 100 small loans in amounts up to $1,500 have been made. The committee recently renamed the Fund, the Harvey Fireside Loan Fund. It is open to immigrants and refugees only.
Harvey is survived by his wife, Bryna, of 48 years; his children their spouses, Leela Ruth Fireside and Patrick Choiniere, Douglas Leonard Fireside and Laura Weeldryer, and Daniel Ephriam and Lisa Rivera; as well as six grandchildren, Ella Fireside, Sophie Fireside, Lucienne Fireside, Noah Choiniere, Ariela Choiniere and Ximena Fireside.
Funeral arrangements are being handled by Lansing Funeral Home. The funeral service will be held at 2 p.m. on Sunday, February 3, 2008, at Congregation Tikkun v'Or, 2550 North Triphammer Road, Ithaca. Internment will follow at Lakeview Cemetery. Shiva will be held at the home of Bryna Fireside Sunday evening beginning at 7 p.m. through Tuesday evening.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the library or rabbi fund of Congregation Tikkun v'Or or the charity of your choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Ithaca Journal on Feb. 2, 2008.

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Robert Totah

December 9, 2022

What a life story. I had the honor of taken one of Harvey's courses in the late 70's. Every time i hear of amnesty international i think of him. My belated condolences. May he r.i.p Robert Totah

Harvey and Bryna with Gloria & Don Koch at our marriage; May 17, 2002

Gloria and Don Koch

February 22, 2008

Dear Bryna,
Don and I have fond memories of time spent with you and Harvey. Your spirit will continue to live in us forever. Your home was always open to us for Seders, Thanksgiving and informal visits which we so much enjoyed.
Attached you will find a picture taken by Judge Marjorie Olds who officiated at our marriage which you helped us arrange.
Our thoughts are with you, Leela, Doug and Dan.
We love you,

Norma Helsper

February 16, 2008

Dear Dan,,
My condolences on the loss of your father. Ann Peters told me about the inspiring service, which I missed due to a migraine. I am so sorry to have missed seeing you and Lisa, and meeting your daughter! Please extend my sympathy to your mother and the rest of your family.
Un abrazo,

Norma Helsper

February 9, 2008

Dear Bryna, Leela, Doug, Dan and your spouses and children/grandchildren. Murray and I wish you our deepest sympathy at the loss of this wonderful human being, who did so much for the world, and me. He and you, Bryna, were a constant inspiration to me to think about how I could do more for others. We are so lucky to have known and loved him. Love, Lore Baer and Murray Azaria

Eva Bregman

February 7, 2008

Bryna and family: What a lovely , kind and wonderful man Harvey was. It is such a loss. I was hoping to meet him soon at "Brotchen" which he told me about. I am thinking of you and feel with you so very deeply.

Sara Bernal

February 6, 2008

Bryna, Danny & family,

What a remarkable and inspiring person he was! What a remarkable and inspiring family you are!

My thoughts have been with you very often in recent days and weeks. My mom & I both feel wrong about being so far away.

Love,
Sara Bernal

JOE BLOOMFIELD

February 4, 2008

BRYNA AND FAMILY. FROM THE COUSINS IN NJ OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY ON YOUR LOSS

LINDA SCHADLE

February 4, 2008

BRYNA SORRY FOR YOUR LOST. IT WAS VERY NICE WORKING FOR YOU,EVEN IF IT WAS ONLY A FEW TIMES.YOU BOTH ARE VERY WONDERFUL PEOPLE. IF YOU NEED ANYTHING PLEASE CALL 229-3080

Andrew Gooding

February 4, 2008

Bryna, I'm so sorry to hear about Harvey. My parents had kept me updated, but getting Daniel's message was a shock.

I remember best going to Valentine Place with Ed and Geoff to play/eat/make trouble with Doug and Daniel.

Take care of yourself.

-- Andrew

Mary Jane Hetzlein

February 4, 2008

I'll keep you all in my prayers.

Lynn DeCourcey, Ithaca College, B.A. Politics 1988

February 4, 2008

My condolences to the Fireside Family.
I took several classes with Professor Fireside while at Ithaca College and he left a lasting impression on me. He has truly made the world a better place to live.

Tony Gaenslen

February 4, 2008

Dear Bryna, Doug, Leila, Danny:

Harvey was one of the finest people I have ever known. It was a privilege to be his friend. I will treasure all my memories of Harvey, from his first appearance as a witness in the Sambo case to my last, precious visits with him in early January. Annie and I were so sorry to miss the sevice; we were thinking of you, and our hearts were with you. We love you all. Tony and Annie

Hanan Zaman

February 3, 2008

Dear Bryna and Family,

You and Harvey hold a very special place in my heart. Thank you for being there and for giving me a very practical education; one that has helped me to be there for others.
Harvey has always been one of my favorite teachers. I feel deeply blessed to know him and you, and am honored that I was able to be a part of his life and yours.
I have, as you may know, come to an understanding of death as not a death per se, but a transition from one form of being to another. I see Harvey healthy and happy, now able to live without pain or difficulty. I see him as the beautiful being of light that he has always been in his physical body, hovering over all of you and wishing you well.
May we all see him again when we cross over to the Other Side. I would like to be there to give you all big hugs!!!

With Great Love and Gratitude,

Hanan

Jonathan Kurlander

February 3, 2008

Dear Bryna, Doug, Danny and Leela, I have always been a big fan of the Firesides, with some of my fondest memories at East Hill and playing on Valentine Place. I am so sorry to read of Harvey's passing. He was a good man and leaves behind a great legacy of his family and the many others he cared about. I hope your many fond memories will help ease your sadness.

John Wolff

February 2, 2008

Harvey lived to make the world a better place, and he had the talent and energy to do so. He has been an inspiration to me, and has made me mindful of what is important in life. I shall miss him.

Doug HOSTETTER

February 2, 2008

Thank
you for your efforts to help students from Bosnia in the Bosnian
Student Project. Your efforts will always be rememberred.

Chuck Bury

February 2, 2008

Thank you for your work toward peace and freedom.

William Sundell

February 2, 2008

My condolences to Bryna and family.
I enjoyed the one visit to your home when a lecture was given of one of the fundraising sessions.
May the Sovereign bless and place Harvey in good deed.

Wm Sundell

Nancy Goody

February 2, 2008

Dear Bryna and family,

What a loss for you and all of us. Harvey was such a hero and role model for so many of us.

I am so glad we had his energy and vision to found the temple.

The hand of his work touched many people and many organizations.

Gregg and I are grateful that we got to visit with you this past summer.

B'shalom,
Nancy Goody and Gregg Bell

Sandy Miley

February 2, 2008

I knew and admired Mr. Fireside only through the Ithaca Journal until today when I read of his remarkable life. A life well-lived is almost an understatement in his case. My sincere sympathy to his family who have been left a legacy of which to be so proud, and I am sure, wonderful memories.

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