Robert Petrillose Obituary

ROBERT C. PETRILLOSE, SR.
Passed away in Elmira, NY on Monday, December 8, 2008 after a long and courageous battle with Parkinson's disease. Bob was born November 17, 1931. He was the son of the late John W. Petrillose, Sr. and Ruth Goff Petrillose. He was a life-long resident of Ithaca, New York until his retirement in September, 2000. Since that time, he and his wife, Sharon Follett Petrillose have lived in Elmira, New York.
Bob was known to most Cornellians as "Hot Truck Bob". For 40 years he owned and operated The Hot Truck where he served hot subs from his Stewart Avenue location, seven nights a week from 10:00 p.m. until as late as 5:00 in the morning. Bob started his career as a young boy in the family restaurant, Johnny's Big Red Grill in Ithaca where he was the chef and manager until its closing in 1981. In 1960 he started his pizza truck business while continuing his work at Johnny's. There was a truck parked across the street from Bob that served cold subs and Bob's truck which served hot subs became known as the Hot Truck (the birthplace of French-bread pizza). He custom prepared hot sandwiches with names like Suicide©, MBC©, PMP©, the Shaggy and a variety of other creative names. All subs were made to order on Ithaca Bakery's French bread with Bob's famous meatballs and ground sausage. The subs were as basic or abundant as the customer desired. Bob had an amazing work ethic, in four decades he missed only a handful of nights. The Cornell students trusted him as a confidant, and he would listen as they chatted about their personal lives, commenting, joking and offering advice - all while a crowd of customers patiently waited outside - the lucky ones were able to jostle their way in for a prized place inside the truck. Bob had the ability to remember the orders, listen to the ever present blaring radio (tuned in to WVBR), deal with the late-night rowdy customers and those that just wanted to talk, all while remaining calm in the midst of constant chaos.
After closing up in the pre-dawn hours, he would return to his former home of 35 years, located at 166 Pleasant Grove Road in Ithaca, NY. There he prided himself on immediately cleaning his truck and scrubbing his pans until they shone. As the sun was breaking over the horizon, Bob would be calling it a night, finally able to rest, feeling content with his night's efforts. After a few hours of sleep he would wake and start grinding cheese, processing sausage and preparing vast quantities of meatballs for his late night subs. He truly loved his work and his customers. In his spare moments, Bob enjoyed working on his collection of antique cars and cruising Cayuga Lake on his old wooden Chris Craft cruiser.
In the late 1990's Bob was proud and humbled to be inducted into the Quill & Dagger Society at Cornell University. Membership into this organization has been called "the highest non-scholastic honor within the reach of undergraduates at Cornell University. The Quill & Dagger recognizes exemplary undergraduates of Cornell University who have shown leadership, character and dedication to service" Bob was one of just a few non-Cornell graduates to receive this honor.
Bob is survived by his wife of 57 years Sharon Follett Petrillose, sister Connie Yochum of Avalon, NJ and brother John (Barbara) Petrillose of Sun City, FL. They have three children, Robert Petrillose, Jr. (Mimi Welliver) of Elmira, NY, Renée Petrillose (Dr. Gonzalo Rivera) of Bryan, Texas, Sharon Mueller (Michael) of Elmira, NY. Grandchildren: Lindsay, Mardi and Christopher Petrillose, Katherine and Sgt. Morgan J. Ainslie, Nicholas Rivera, Garrett, Emma and Alexander Mueller; Great-grandchildren Brian and Giselli De Oliviera and many nieces and nephews.
His family extends their thanks to his thousands of customers, one who expressed it best when he said of Hot Truck Bob: "He's been the only person that I've known for all four years that I've been here. Friends come in and out of your life but you know that Bob's just going to be there."
Friends are invited to McInerny Funeral Home, corner of Water and Walnut Sts., Elmira on Friday, December 12, 2008 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. Bob's funeral service will be held Saturday, December 13, 2008 at 10:00 a.m. at First Presbyterian Church, 1054 W. Clinton Street, Elmira, with Reverend Betsey Crimmins officiating. Interment will follow at 12:00 noon in Pleasant Grove Cemetery, Ithaca.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions be made to a scholarship established in Bob's name at the Cornell University School of Hotel Administration C/O The Robert C. Petrillose Scholarship Fund, Tompkins Trust Company, Attention Sue Lason, PO Box 460, Ithaca, NY 14851.
Additionally, a memorial service is being planned at Sage Chapel on the Cornell Campus at a future date. For updates regarding this, please e-mail [email protected]. There will be a website posted at www.hottruckbob.com within the next few days.

Published by Ithaca Journal from Dec. 10 to Dec. 11, 2008.
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I'm sorry to know Uncle Bobby is gone. I always loved going to Johnny's for dinner and then dessert at their house.

Pamela Follett

December 29, 2008

Sharon, you and Bob were a large part of my Cornell experience. It is difficult not to cry as I type. Bob was kind to all, led by example, and had an unforgetable smile. We are all saddened. We have lost a friend, Cornell has lost a favorite son, and Stewart Avenue will never be the same. Peace.

David Stuhlmiller

December 25, 2008

Dear Sharon and Family,

I am so sorry to hear about Bob's passing. It is hard to express how difficult it was to hear this news. Words can not express how grateful I am that you allowed me to stay in your apartment my final year at Cornell. It gave me a unique appreciation of the amount of care and work went into the Hot Truck everyday, more than most employees and customers. He really loved the students and coming to work every night. He would not have gone through all that work (you too, Sharon), if that wasn't the case. It came out in every sandwich that came out of the oven. It was truly an honor to work beside him.

It is so wonderful to have something like this guest book to see how many people's lives were touched by Bob's life.

Unfortunately, I was out of the country when Bob passed, and word arrived too late, or I would have been at the service.

If there is anything I can do, do not hesitate to contact me. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Erik Briggs

Erik Briggs

December 19, 2008

Dear Sharon & Family,

Not a return visit for reunion or recruiting Chem. Engineering seniors was ever complete without a visit to Bob and to get a Sui or TMBC while in town. Some of my fondest memories of Cornell revolved around the late night tradition observed several times a week, especially during my Junior year when I lived on Utica St downtown and made sure to pass the truck for a snack on my way back home from a long night studying at Olin Hall. Bob's encouragement got me through the doldrums many a time when I thought it was too much sacrifice and his wisdom about the value of hard work were both keys to getting through tough times. Unfortunately, my career took me to the West Coast and I was unable to see Bob before he retired. I said a prayer for him when I learned of his passing and offer my deepest sympathy to you all.

Rob Monson

December 18, 2008

Dear Sharon and family,
We are thinking of all of you at this difficult time and you have our prayers for comfort.
Our memories of the Petrillose family go back to Slaterville Rd. when our children played together and of the Congregational church when we were all active there.
May God give you strength through this holiday season.
Sincerely,

Kay and George ross

December 17, 2008

I often tell friends about the best sandwich ever, the Triple Suicide. I was introduced to this masterpiece in 1966 and it kept me fueled off and on for the next 10 years. I am filled with good memories of Cornell but the Bob’s Hot Truck has always been one of the first and best things I remember. I can’t imagine studying for finals without the Hot Truck. An era has passed. Long live the memory of Hot Truck Bob.

Richard ("Rick") Hambly

December 15, 2008

Bob: I send you a wish for each of the 100+ Suis, BMCs, and PMPs I had as a freshman 1970-71, and I send all my wishes to you in heaven, which is where you must be since you are surely a saint! -- Al Givray

Albert Givray

December 15, 2008

I never started frequenting the Hot Truck until my Junior Year in 1988, and became a "Regular" during my Senior Year. Bob was one of the FRIENDLIEST people I have ever met in my life, and it was a pleasure getting to know him beyond just ordering my PMP G&G; I was also fortunate to get to know him well enough to be able to warm up in his truck a few times. He will be missed, but his LEGACY at Cornell will live on forever.

Trevor Steer

December 15, 2008

It wasn't just the food. It was the man; his work ethic, his kindness, his demeanor, the way he treated everyone. His strength of character and the manner in which he treated his fellows is a testament to his upbringing, his family and friends. He taught me the value of work, the power of a smile and a friendly "hello", and the lasting impression that courtesy and graciousness has on a soul. Few are the people such as Bob. You will live on in the thousands who you so likewise touched and transformed. Thank you Bob.

Joe Gray, M.D. '87

December 13, 2008

Some of the fondest memories of my seven years at Cornell (1971-1978) were the late nights I spent in the front of the Hot Truck talking to Bob while he prepared my 1/2 Sui (extra sauce) and all of the other subs I used to pick up for my hallmates in U Hall 5. No matter how busy it was, Bob always took the time to chat and ask how things were going. Whenever I returned to Ithaca for reunions or recruiting at the Law School and stopped by the Hot Truck, Bob would remember me as the guy who took 10 Full Sui's home frozen during the intersession of my freshman year because the thought of a month without one was too much to bear (my parents loved them too). I introduced my oldest son, Jonathan (Cornell 2006), to Bob and the Hot Truck when he was less than 2 years old and he still remembers that first Sui eaten in the bathroom of our hotel room so that we wouldn't wake his mother. Bob was a true Cornell legend who probably left a profound impression on more Cornell students than almost any other person they may have encountered during their time "far above Cayuga's waters." He will be sorely missed.

Robert Walder

December 12, 2008

Dear Sharon and family, I have just read the preceeding 9 pages of praises of Bob and sympathy for you and your family, which I and my husband, Art, join in. The well-written long and detailed obituary brought back so many fond memories, Johnny's Big Red Grill where we first met, and the Hot Truck, and Bob's sweet and friendly personality. The house at 166 Pleasant Grove Road will always be the "Petrillose House" for us. And I agree that a monument should be erected to Bob and the Hot Truck on the corner of Waite Avenue and Thurston Avenue. So glad that Sharon and all 3 children are fine, and productive! May God Bless your family and give you peace, knowing that the angels are now enjoying his MBCs and PMPs, etc.

Betty Muka

December 12, 2008

Bob has been a life long friend and also was an usher in my wedding in 1951. We have managed to stay in touch through the years and I am truly saddened to hear of Bob's passing. My deepest sympathy goes out to Sharon and his entire family. Thoughts of Bob invoke many fond times and memories. On the humorous side and, for the record, by the age of 12 he was able to tear the clutch and/or transmission out of his father's car due to driver abuse. I think the main reason he did it was so that he could back the car up to the restaurant, jack it up, and repair it just for fun. He found out that driving a standard transmission at 70 mph and dropping it into low gear resulted in a minor explosion of some kind! Bob, thanks for the memories!
Rest in peace, my friend. Skip Wilcox

Read Wilcox

December 12, 2008

Dear Sharon and family. Sorry to hear that Bob had passed away. What an amazing legacy he left behind. His humanity touched tens of thousands of Cornellians. I will never forget him and his Hot Truck as a big part of my Cornell experience.

Paul Breitenbach

December 12, 2008

I am saddened by this announcement. I cherished going to Bob's Hot Tructkas a freshman on West Campus. It helped me get through the times.

Peter Metz

December 12, 2008

An true culinary ICON of Ithaca and Cornell has driven his Hot Truck off campus for the last time. For those who sampled his fare, the memories will live on. Long Live the Triple Sui!!!!!!!

ALAN D ROBLEE

December 12, 2008

Bob was my father while at Cornell, dispensing my weekly allowance and giving me advice on my marriage to Judy -something he could see coming long before I could. What started out as the ability to wait patiently with older ATO's in the front of the truck with police and firemen became a four year long conversation with Bob. Honing my math skills on a brown paper bag and keeping him busy and on target with the orders was absolutley exciting and fulfilling. Raking leaves at his house with Sharon and the Corgi's, making meatballs and doing the prep work, I was always imagining that this was what it would be like to be close family with my Italian cousins. I think Bob taught me alot about how to welcome people, how to remember people, and how to treat people - always. Solid, reliable, rare, kind courteous, dignified, fair, warm, and loveable. A great man. Sharon, I make my girls MBC's in the broiler and tell them stories about you and Bob, the value of hard work and a dollar, and cold nights on the Cornell campus. I am ready to go back to work for him now! Thank you.

David and Judy Doyno

December 12, 2008

I was there with the Cayuga Heights Fire Department on his last night working the truck - always a memory - its not the same without him.

Joe Lisi

December 12, 2008

My condolences to the Petrillose family. Bob was not only a beloved Cornell institution, he was a culinary artist. But most importantly, he was a kind and caring human being. In my dozens of late night trips to the "Hot Truck" between 1982 and 1986, in varying states of sobriety, I never once remember him not smiling or treating anyone discourteously. He will be fondly remembered and missed by the great multitude of his customers and friends.

Charles Horowitz

December 12, 2008

Bob,
I can still see the smile on your face and your calm disposition while the immediate world around you was crazy. You had the ability to know which of your many customers (friends) needed that extra nod or attention at the right moment when they were down. The warmth of your smiles allowed everyone to know that everything was going to be alright. You made everyone welcome in your world and we are so lucky to have been touched by your presence and your wonderful food! We grieve with with your family and friends and thank you for the wonderful memories while at Cornell. You have always been a foundation of our memories of Cornell! Thank you!
John Klein '87

John Klein

December 12, 2008

Bob was a poet. Who else would have thought of "Grease and Garden"? I'll never forget how he would always let people stand inside his truck on very cold or rainy nights, entertaining with stories as he fed the hungry masses. He touched thousands of lives during his tenure at Cornell. The campus will never be the same without him. I hope the university dedicates a memorial marker to him on the site of his famed Hot Truck location.

Tom Cooney

December 12, 2008

May God bless all of the Petrillose family. I worked for 2 years with Bob on some of those long and cold Ithaca nights and will always remember his gentle smile and genuine hospitality to whomever he met. He had a special place in the the PHI PSI heart and we all loved him. May God Hold Him in the Palm of His Hands.

Ed Requet, '89

December 12, 2008

My sympathies to the Petrillose family. Bob was a happy face, always willing to listen and chat. Bob's nephew, Flip, and I were friends in high school and Bob always remembered me and would catch me up on the family news. He touched my life and will be remembered with fondness.

Margaret Nagel Gnegy

December 11, 2008

It is with shaking hands and tearing eyes that I sign this guest book. I have had the honor of knowing Bob since 1992. Soon after eating my first sandwich, I starting working with Bob. I felt the magic instantly: and after working with Bob for 7 years and opening the PMP: Original French Bread Pizza in Allston, MA; I can honestly say that the secret ingredient in Bob's creations was 'love' with oregano on top. It was obvious that he cared for every one he served, and he lived to make someone smile after eating one of his masterpieces. I remember the day, he turned my bride from a vegetarian to a meatball lover. His smile was so pure and genuine, he could warm the coldest Ithaca night.

My condolences go out to the entire family and all who had the honor of knowing him. His friendship and mentorship has forever changed my life. I still catch myself, telling Bob stories to my three children.

So, hear is an open invitation to all: I still live in Ithaca. If you plan to visit the area, please drop me a line if you want to share a memory or two. Lets write them down and preserve the magic that once blessed our campus.

All my best, to all of you!

Erik Lehmann

December 11, 2008

Karen Pichel

December 11, 2008

Dear Bob,

Your hospitality, and that of your family, is warmly remembered by this Cornell alum. You will be missed.

Thank you for allowing me to thaw a bit on many a snowy night in the cab of the truck while you worked on my PMP ...or when I was flush, my sandwich of choice, a Kenny G&G, Hot & Heavy.

I recall your welcoming nod and smile. Your impressive dexterity trimming off bits of burned crust off a sandwich before sliding it into it brown bag, with love.

But most of all, I recall, in the Thanksgiving of 1988, you welcomed me into your home to share your dinner with your family. I was thousands of miles from my family for the holiday and a friend of mine (your long standing employee Ken M) asked if he could bring me along. Prior to that, you really didn’t know me, but that didn’t matter. It was obvious there were no strangers at the Petrillose table. I’ve been a life long fan of your fare, but that meal was by far the most memorable of all those you cooked for me.

Rest in Peace, Bob.

Jake Schaible

December 11, 2008

Bob worked hard to offer up some of the best food available anywhere. He took pride in his product and he valued his customers. He was the consumate small business owner; an amazing success story in my book.

Bill Miller

December 11, 2008

So sorry to hear this news. I was one of Bob's best customers while a student at Cornell especially during finals. My mom would send me money for the ‘hot truck’. He was truly a Cornell institution and will be missed. My condolences to his family.

Valisha Graves

December 11, 2008

Dear Sharon and family. Sorry to hear that Bob had passed away. My friendship with Bob started as a teenager when I used to hang around Bartholf's gas station that was next to Johnny's Big Red. Best wishes to all.

Bob & Pat Crowley

December 11, 2008

My condolences to the Petrillose family. Bob was a bright spot in my Cornell experience - always there with a tasty snack and, more importantly, a smile and a bit of advice when I really needed them. Most of my favorite Cornell memories include "Hot Truck Bob." I'm glad to have had the chance to know him, and he will be missed.

Brooke Foucault Welles '01

December 11, 2008

We knew the Petrillose family from church, where Joyce had children and grandchildren in Sunday School, when Sharon also taught there. Ross knew Bob from the cart as well!
He will be missed. We ask God's help and blessings for Sharon and the rest of the family.

Ross and Joyce Gerbasi

December 11, 2008

My sympathies go out to the Petrillose family and the whole Cornell community. My freshman year was spent in UHall 3 which was excellently positioned directly next to Bob and the hot truck. I could go on and on about how there is no sandwich in the world better than a MobyD G&G but anyone reading this already knows that whatever your favorite Hot Truck item was it was the best sandwich in the world.

Beyond the unique and spectacular sandwiches I need to note how remarkable a person Bob was. His patience, good humor and memory were nothing short of spectacular. So many of my happiest memories of Cornell will always include Bob and his sandwiches that defy description to anyone not initiated to their greatness.

Rob Axelrod

December 11, 2008

My condolences to the Petrillose family and the entire Cornell community that knew Bob. I had the pleasure of working in the Hot Truck over my tenure on campus from 1992-1996. I was introduced to the Hot Truck on my first night on campus (my RA worked in the truck) and shortly thereafter I was working 1 shift per week. Later in my college career I would work the coveted Sunday evening shift. I spent many hours chatting with Bob over the years. We talked about so many things and I learned so much from Bob. He and my grandfather both went into business in 1960 (McDonald's for my family). I also learned to enjoy listening to sports on the radio. During those Sunday night shifts we would listen to NFL and MLB games. I had the honor and privilege to work in the "New Hot Truck" it's first night on campus. My Cornell experience was made so much better from my time working with and getting to know Bob. I will miss him!

Michael Dukart

December 11, 2008

Bob will be greatly missed. My friends and I used to trek over from IC even in the dead of winter just to hang out with Bob in the truck while we waited patiently for our little piece of heaven to come out of the oven. He always remembered us despite the thousands he served and always had a smile and a story to tell. Thanks for everything Bob. My condolences to the Petrillose family.

Jason Wentworth

December 11, 2008

Living on West Campus three of my four years, I will always remember my almost-nightly evening treks to the Hot Truck and conversations with Bob. The next day, I would walk up the hill to classes, never quite relinquishing the extra calories from my previous night's "Andy Hot." I still carry around Bob in my belly to this day and will always be a fond memory of my days at Cornell. This past summer as I took my wife to Cornell for my reunion and her first visit, we ate at the truck which was dutifully parked on the Arts Quad. The new owner is fine, but the memories of Bob's time with truck are joyful and enduring.

Bob, I'll miss you.

Andy Goode '88

December 11, 2008

What a wonderful person-kind, generous, and always in a good mood. So many fond memories of standing out late waiting for a sandwich. Saturday dinners with the truck at Phi Psi and going to visit Shoe, E Ford, Pew, and Mosher at the truck. Thanks Bob for taking care of so many young students for so many years. Your family has been a part of the fabric of the Ithaca community and Cornell for many years. I still have my menu from 1984, and I am proud that our four kids know EXACTLY what "hot truck" is! Long live the tuna surprise, RoRo G&G, and the off the menue "brooksie". God bless the Petrillose family!

Chet Osadchey '88

December 11, 2008

sorry first notice did not show up....
many years ago i worked for brother john later became a postal
special delivery man and stoped
many nights at bob's wagon after delivery to girls SORORITY ...later deliver to dryden road and Johnny's resturant ..
mother and father plus bob were
a nice place to deliver mail TO...
MANY FOND MEMORIES ...
I ALSO WORKED FOR BOB'S BROTHER ...JOHN & BARBARA AT
AURORA & BUFFALO STREETS
MAY GOD BLESS HIM AND KEEP HIM....HIS PARENTS WOULD BE PROUD...SINCERELY
JIM MCCARTHY

JIM MCCARTHY

December 11, 2008

I didn't have enough money to go to the truck very often during my freshman year in the dorms in 1962, or when I lived on Catherine Street in '63. It was a surreal experience to see the lighted truck on the dark deserted street, as in a Hopper painting. Bob's truck was a beacon of warmth and anticipated goodness in the freezing gloom.
Bob wasn't busy in those days, and the truck stood by itself in the dark much of the time. I don't recall any other trucks around, although the Dairy D--- was there once in a while.

Paul Luisada '66

December 10, 2008

My condolences to the Petrillose family on their loss. I was a (too) frequent customer of The Truck in 1982-1986 when I was a Cornell Undergraduate living on West Campus. I have spent the time since trying to make my own PMPs and WGCs to remind me of those days, and they never, EVER are even close to being as good. Bob was a great cook, and a wonderful guy, always kind and patient even with rowdy college kids early in the morning. He was a great guy, and we depended on him, and he never let us down. He will be missed and remembered by the many, many people he served.

John Kaprielian

December 10, 2008

How many people can claim to have this type of influence with something as simple as a sandwich and a smile? What a tremendous legacy!! I still can't explain to my children how good a PMP was at 3am. Thank you!

Sue "Townsend" Cuccurullo '83

December 10, 2008

It's strange, but for some reason, all my memories of Bob, as are many others here, seem to be from the winters. The long lines, the numb fingers, Bob's charitable ear, understanding heart, and the stories he shared when he had the time - I remember Bob once told me of the great panty raid that occured on North Campus during the '50s. It was a great story! And this young immigrant from Ohio had no idea what a "panty raid" could be. One of my finest lessons at Cornell, and it was a lot cheaper.
My condolences to the Petrillose family - thank you for sharing him with us for so many years.

Zaid Sidi

December 10, 2008

Hot Truck is one of my fondest memories of Cornell. I've lived in five cities and three countries since leaving Cornell, and I have not found anything that satisfies the late night munchies like a WGC.

I did not know Bob well; I only knew that he would be there. A might good man who lived a mighty good life.

Laban Yu

December 10, 2008

To the Petrillose Family,

I have wonderful memories of Cornell and I always include stories about The Hot Truck. It never mattered what kind of night it was - whether it was a cold, rainy, icy or beautifully clear, one could always count on Bob being there for us. He will continue to be with us in our memories.

Thank you...and I'll take a sui without mushrooms please...
Rich (Q&D '73)

Rich Saltz

December 10, 2008

As a member of ATO, we had "back door access" to the hot truck and were always welcomed by Bob with a smile! I long for a MBC GnG!! He was always smiling and in a great mood. My condolences go out to his family, as I am sure he will be terribly missed. He is truly a Cornell icon!

Scott Burnam '91

December 10, 2008

I, and several of my roommates (all '88) worked in the truck, and some remained close with Bob. The Hot Truck is always one of the first points of connection when Cornellians meet one another, and EVERYONE has truck-related stories to tell. For me, as for countless others, Bob was an important, happy, and unforgettable part of my time at Cornell. I will always remember him and speak fondly of him and his truck.

Eric Gorovitz

December 10, 2008

I'm not a Cornell graduate. I'm a friend of the family. My mom and Bob's wife Sharon grew up together. Years and years ago we went to visit Sharon and Bob, and we got to stay up late to go to the Hot Truck. While my mom and Sharon shared memories of which freshman hall they lived in at Cornell and other things, I watched Bob cook in the Hot Truck. I savored my first and only PMP... the Poor Man's Pizza. I was probably 14 years old... and I'll never forgot it. I can picture the truck and street just as if I was there right now! I didn't go to Cornell (I went to Hobart and Willliam Smith in Geneva, where there wasn't a Hot Truck... sigh)... but I am glad I got to experience Bob, the Hot Truck, the PMP... and my Buffalo China dishes from Johnny's Big Red Grill. Bob and Sharon and other members of their family attended my wedding 10 years ago, and I'll never ever forget them. My thoughts are with "Aunt" Sharon, Sherrie and all the rest of the Petrillose family.

Elizabeth (Buffy) Rakas

December 10, 2008

Thank you all for the wonderful memories of my dad. Here is a Hot Truck Photo to remember him by.

Bob Petrillose (Jr.)

December 10, 2008

Dear Sharon & family, Jim and I are so very saddened to learn of Bob's death. Bob was a fine man and a friend to all. This guest book is certainly proof of how loved he was. Our prayers and our thoughts are with each of you at this time of such great sorrow. May God be with you. Shirley & Jim Herson

Shirley & Jim Herson

December 10, 2008

The PMPs were delicious and the conversation with Bob always pleasant. Bob and his Hot Truck were an important part of my college education and helped through the tougher times at Cornell. Although I never saw Bob anywhere else other than Hot Truck, he filled an important place in my life. Rest in Peace Bob, and my condolences to your family.

Chris Johnson

December 10, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.Bob was an institution.Like everyone else that ever experienced "the Truck" it is something in life that many won't ever forget.The Petrillose Family has touched all Ithacans one way or another, Johnny's, the Cozy Corner,Bob's Truck. My sympathy to the entire Petrillose Family.

Robert Kane

December 10, 2008

Aunt Sharon, Bobbie,Renee and Sharon, You are in my prayers. Fond memories of times at Pleasant Grove Rd. Love, Cousin Lynn

Emlynn Hamlin

December 10, 2008

The profound and amazing effect Bob has had on his customers is truly a tribute and credit to his character, values, work ethic, and humanity. We Hot Truck patrons remember him fondly and will indeed miss him. Many of us could not have survived the rigors of Cornell without the simple pleasure and escape he and his sandwiches provided. Best wishes to his family and friends.

Doug Pascale '91

December 10, 2008

We all loved you, Bob. You kept us warm on the coldest of Ithaca's nights, helped fuel our long hours of late night cram sessions, and were always dependable for an afterhours feast. Your work ethic was awe-inspiring and your heart was solid gold. We all owe you for our many successes both in and out of school. Thanks for the memories. We'll miss you dearly.
-Ted Utz, ABEN '99

Ted Utz

December 10, 2008

Bob knew that I liked fresh hot peppers, so during the spring semester of 1975, Bob promised to grow them fresh in his garden at home. I thought it was a very nice thing to say, but I didn't expect hold him to his promise, and indeed, I was sure he would forget.
Sure enough, in the fall, Bob saw my head bobbing behind a bunch of students at the front window. "Hey kid", he shouted, "I got your hot peppers!" I was stunned. He didn't even know my name, and yet he remembered his commitment to me. I was very touched by his kindness, and I have not shared that story with anyone for 31 years.

Randall Nixon

December 10, 2008

I send my most sincere condolences to everyone in Bob's family. The entries here are very thoughtful. May you find comfort in how Bob touched so many peoples lives. I wish you all peace and good health. All my best, Sherri

Sherri (Petrillose) Lipson

December 10, 2008

The Hot Truck was a regular destination for me during evening study breaks in 1965-66 when I lived in UH 5. I always regarded Bob to be a near miracle of patience and good humor, as the scene in front of the truck was usually hectic.

My condolences go out to Bob's family. I hope you take some comfort in knowing that thousands of Cornellians are sadder this week to hear of his passing.

Will Emmons

December 10, 2008

Bob was a thoughtful, kind and fun man. I had the pleasure of working with him for three years (1984-1987) and enjoyed every minute of it. Bob's work ethic, honesty and commitment to quality influence my life to this day. To his family, please accept my heartfelt condolences on your loss.

Eric Ford

December 10, 2008

At an institution that is supposed to shape our minds and touch our lives in profound ways, here's a man whose work ethic, friendliness, and sense of community taught us more than any class ever could. Thank you, Bob!

Paul '91

December 10, 2008

Through four years on West Campus, first in U Hall 4, and then a bit down Stewart from the Truck at Phi Sig, I spent countless nights at or in the truck with Bob. After late night intramural hockey games, while pulling all-nighters, after coming home from a party somewhere, or just about any time, you KNEW Bob was there, and had a great sandwich, and a quick wit to make you feel good. I continued to visit with Bob when back for reunions, when the sight of the Hot Truck on the Arts Quad would bring real joy. Bob -- thanks for the friendship. Cornell will miss you.

Doug Johnson '78

December 10, 2008

I am deeply saddened to hear of Bob's passing. I had the good fortune to enjoy the fruits of his labor on many occasions during my time at Cornell. In fact, I called Bob many years later to place an order for a rehearsal dinner that was attended by many other admirers of Bob's work. Bob graciously offered to let me pick up the subs at his home and even froze them so that they would keep on the long drive. They were a big hit as much for the memories of Bob in the Hot Truck that they aroused as the unequaled quality of the culinary experience. Bob was indeed a true gentleman.

Michael Cooke

December 10, 2008

So sorry that a legend has passed. Who can ever forget their first SUI or PMP. Late nights after a fraternity party with your friends...simple pleasures and great times.

Eleanor Ochotny

December 10, 2008

I did not know Bob well, but Sharon was my namesake and a sorority sister of Mibs. So, it was always fun to see them both at reunion and reconnect. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family, Sharon!

Love - - Don and Mibs Follett

Don Follett

December 10, 2008

I was a physics and math major from 1969-73 and went to either Uris or Clark evey night . . . most of the time with a sub from the Hot Truck. it was my pleasure to have those subs, and they gave me great happiness. So tasty! RIP Bob Petrillose, and I hope the tradition continues in your name.

Kathy Olesko

December 10, 2008

I met Bob and John and Ruth often during a long span in Ithaca (1969-81), and the Hot Truck was an obligatory stop whenever I came back to visit, until its sad demise. Like another signer, I've never been able to duplicate my HT favorite (Triple Sui)--and no one from Ithaca ever duplicated Bob's unfailing personal warmth. Amazingly, he would remember me & details of past visits for decades. In the deep winter nights after Risley Messiahs, he created an island of light and warmth that will linger long as long as my memory will hold it.

Guy Wells

December 10, 2008

I remember standing inside the truck one night during a reunion. An alum popped his head in and asked if Bob remembered him. Bob began with recalling the alum's favorite sandwich, then his graduation year, and then his name...all of this for someone he had not seen in 20 years.
The truck was warm inside, made warmer by Bob himself. He always said that love went into each sandwich. I believed him then, and I believe him still.

Bucky Fay

December 10, 2008

I too am deeply saddened by Bob's passing. He was a constant in our lives, especially during my freshman year at Cornell ('71).
Bob never knew my name. But when I revisted his truck in the early '80s (5+ years after I graduated), he looked at me, thought for a moment, and said "Steak sandwich with mushrooms!" Bling! What a memory, and what a guy!
He will be sorely missed.

Denny Spicher

December 10, 2008

I remember Bob well, the late night companion. He was a unique treasure. During 1974-6, 1978-85 and 1987-93 while on multiple CU "journeys", during many a snow storm, his light in the distance guided you and promised warmth and friendship.

Jeffrey Wimsatt

December 10, 2008

Bob was always a friendly guy, always smiling at 2 am, even though he was very busy. When I came to Cornell as a pre-frosh, friends took me to hot truck - that may be what sold me on Cornell!

Nicole Paccione-Gerbe '95, DVM ,99

December 10, 2008

One of the fondest memories of my years at Cornell was the time I spent chatting with Bob when I visited the truck (almost nightly it seemed). I have a signed copy of his menu that I have kept all these years - I got it from him on a post-graduation visit when he informed me that 'my sub' had an actual name and a place in his menu!

Bob was a special man with a great big heart; he was a shining example for me of what being a great person in this world means. He will be in my memories forever - my condolences to his family and friends and to his extended family that all of us who passed 'through' the truck feel like we are a part of.

Gene Kim

December 10, 2008

Sharon: I was very sorry to read of your husband's passing. I always enjoyed visiting with both of you when you came to my desk some years ago at the Carey-McKinney office. My sincere sympathy to you and your family.

Martha Walker

December 10, 2008

JIM MCCARTHY

December 10, 2008

Reading about Hot Truck in Cornell's incoming student bulletin, my mouth watered for a PMP long before I first set foot on campus.

Ned Shalanski

December 10, 2008

I first had the pleasure of dining at the Hot Truck and meeting Bob in the autumn of 1981. I never knew him well, but what struck me early on (in addition to how incredibly delightful a Double PMP w/ sausage could be at 2 in the morning) was that Bob not only always warmly greeted the students, but that he remembered so many of us--even when we had gone a long time between visits. The last time I saw him was during a visit to Cornell in late August of 1998, and he was just as warm and friendly as he had been when we first met 17 years earlier. First and foremost, he was a kind and decent man who was really a blessing to so many of us. I offer condolences to Sharon and the rest of her family, and thank them for their generosity in sharing Bob with us for so many years.

Sincerely,
Fred Ferrara, Class of 1985

Fred Ferrara

December 10, 2008

Thanks for this note. My midnight runs from the U-Hall and then 6 South Ave. For a PMP often kept me going. He'll rejoice in a better place.
One of my fondest memories.

Jim Gibbons

December 10, 2008

My Uncle Bob was a quiet and unassuming man, but the words written in this guest book reflect how such a man can affect so many lives. My best memory is sitting on the counter in Johnny's Big Red Grill, as a small child, watching him handle all those orders of pasta. He will truly be missed.

Jan Harris

December 10, 2008

I've known many hundreds of people in my life, and I can count on two hands the number of them who have always had a smile and a kind word for me no matter what; Bob was one of them. He never made us feel like we were customers and he was a business; we were all his friends, and he was feeding us food so wonderful we were not only willing to pay for it, we were willing to wait on line in the cold or the snow for an hour and a half. Standing in one of the coveted few spots inside the truck was a privilege and a pleasure, as Bob was never too busy to chat while he worked.

Cornell quite simply would not have been the same without Bob, and as much as I miss Cornell, I feel a special emptiness knowing that Bob is gone forever. I hope you know how many thousands of people loved him. My thoughts are with your whole family.

Jeff Anbinder

December 10, 2008

I nearly bought his 64 Studebaker upon leaving the graduate school in 1973 but somebody beat me to it. It was in cherry condition.

harold seifried

December 10, 2008

How sad I am today. I have such fond memories of my too many nights awaiting a PMP with mush in the freezing cold. How many new friends I made while on line...I can still taste the PMP's 25 years after leaving my apartment on Stewart Ave...Bob you will be sorely missed. I hope your legacy lives on.
Barry Cohen, M.D., Washington DC

barry cohen, md

December 10, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Bob and my thoughts and prayers are with his family. The smells of the truck were second to none and it is one of my fondest memories of Cornell. Thank you Bob.

Jim Wallmann

December 10, 2008

I am sorry to hear the news. I remember enjoying several excellent meals from Bob's truck. and I am glad that he gained so much personal satisfaction from his business.

--Bill Levinson
M.S. '81, M.Eng. '82

William Levinson

December 10, 2008

My deepest condolences go out to all of Hot Truck Bob's family and friends.

Maura Caddell, CU "Hotelie" '84 - '88

December 10, 2008

Of all of my Cornell memories, the Hot Truck stands very near the top. I remember standing in the snow and ice of many a bitter Ithaca winter night waiting patiently for my piping hot PMP to be handed out the window of the Hot Truck. The long nights of studying (and the occasional all-nighter) were made far more bearable by Bob's magical ovens. He will be missed, but not forgotten.

Todd Spindler '80

December 10, 2008

I lived on Stewart Ave in U Hall 4 my freshman year when I first met Bob and had an MBC or a PMP in the early hours of the morning. I later moved to 934 Stewart Ave. for the next 3 years, but still went to the Hot Truck! The Hot Truck was a tradition on Stewart Ave., and an institution part of a Cornell experience.

My sympathies go out to Sharon and the family.

Marilyn Arnold, BS '76, MPS (Hotel) '90

Marilyn Arnold

December 10, 2008

To Bob's Family,
Bob will always be remembered as a kind and generous man who, in the midst of the insanity of student life, brought a certain calmness to it all. His work ethic has been an inspiration to all who knew him.

Ron Freudenheim

December 10, 2008

What a wonderful person. What a wonderful family. I wish we could have Bob and the rest of the family back in the old days at Johnny's. Bob will be missed by all. Thank you for being my friend

John Driscoll

December 10, 2008

I was so sad to hear of Bob's passing! I was a Cornell student from 1996-2000, and spent many nights hanging out with Bob in the Hot Truck. As late as it got, he always had a huge smile on his face and an ear listening regardless of how busy he was! He was an unforgettable part of my Cornell experience, and I've never had anything as good as the PMP with meatballs! He will truly be missed.

Shelby Younge

December 10, 2008

I am truly saddened by his passing. He was such an icon on Cornell's campus, and he will be missed. It has been quite a while since I have had anything from The Hot Truck, and I miss it tremendously. I have the menu from '98 hidden away somewhere.

Thank you Bob for all of your work, dedication, and friendship.

Roy

December 10, 2008

It has been 24 years since I was last in Ithaca, but I still think of Bob and his Hot Truck. My condolences to Bob's family and friends.

Rand Pendleton

December 10, 2008

Mr. Petrillose was my landlord for two years in the late 1970's, but what I really remember him for is the Hot Truck food. I have tried for over 30 years to make PMPs, but they never taste quite right! He was a nice man and part of many fond memories of life in Ithaca. He made my life better in small yet enduring ways. Along with my sympathy, I send to his family my gratitude for sharing him with all of us for so long.

Marie Hagen

December 10, 2008

Bob and the Hot Truck are my fondest memories of Cornell (1965-1971). He sustained me for the seven years I was there, not just the food, but the friendship. Like the imaginary Cheers, the Hot Truck was a real place where Bob knew your name. When I came back to Ithaca years later, he may not have remembered my name, but he was the same old Bob, and we could still talk. I'll miss him. Godspeed, Bob.

Don Verdiani

December 10, 2008

To this day, I can close my eyes and smell the fresh bread emanating from the Hot Truck. Taste that first bite of toasted bread with the perfect amount of crunch. Feel the smooth, warm cheese between my teeth. The gorges, the bell tower, and the Hot Truck. That is the list. That is Cornell.

We loved you Bob.

Lane Blumenfeld

December 10, 2008

Here is one more Cornell graduate who loved visiting Bob at the truck. My sincere condolences to Bob's family.
Mickey Fenzel, '71, Ph.D. 88

Mickey Fenzel

December 10, 2008

Of all the Cornell traditions, there has been nothing more constant or unifying about than the Hot Truck experience. Thanks for the many late night bonding sessions for students on the snowy steps, after party, or pre-prelim times, and years of delicious enjoyment and memories.

Karen Weinreich Weiss '89

December 10, 2008

My condolences to Sharon and Bob's family.

Michael Pichel

December 10, 2008

Bob, Mimi and Family,
I was shocked and saddened to read of your Father's passing. Please accept my deepest sympathy. He was a great man, an innovator and a visionary. Although I hadn't seen him in quite some time, I remember the great times on Logan St. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Tommy Bennett

December 10, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Bob. I had the pleasure of working with Bob for over 10 years as his food salesperson for Sysco Foods. Unlike all of the other restaurants that I would handle the Hot Truck was unique as I would go to Bob and Sharon's house every week to take his order. While we sipped gingerale and talked about life, somehow the order got done! One of my fondest memories was when Bob came home with his new Hot Truck and we stood outside with hairdryers peeling off the Matco Tool Letters to prepare it for its transition. Bob was one of the kindest men I have ever met and I consider it an honor that I was able to know him both personally and professionally. We will all miss you Bob!

valerie bradley

December 10, 2008

I am sorry to hear of the passing of Bob, he was one of a kind in the Ithaca area.He will be remembered by many..God bless the family during this time of sadness..

Pixi Lott

December 10, 2008

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