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BENNIE LEE HENSLEY PALMER obituary, McAllen, TX

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BENNIE PALMER Obituary

BENNIE LEE HENSLEY PALMER Devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and respected produce industry veteran Bennie Lee Hensley Palmer, a resident of Alamo Country Club, died peacefully surrounded by family and friends following a brief illness on February 2, 2013, at Rio Grande Regional Hospital. Born October 21, 1925, in Amity, AR, to Oscar and Willie Lee Hensley, she grew up near Texarkana, AR, and came to the Valley in 1954 as a civilian employee with the U.S. Air Force to help in the reactivation of Moore Air Base. Soon after, she met and married the love of her life, J. Forrest Palmer of San Juan, and for almost 50 years until his death in 2003, worked with him to raise four children, farm and, among other things, build J.F. Palmer & Sons Produce and its well-known "Mister P" onion brand. Preceded in death by her beloved grandson Brian Palmer, she's survived by her daughter Jane Alexander, of Barrington, IL, sons Dan, of Palm Springs, CA, Gary (Gina) and Mike (Stefani) of McAllen; grandchildren Lucas (Tyler) Alexander, Kevin (Kelli) Palmer, Clara and Billy (Alyssa) Garza, Cameryn Winn, and Stephan, Erin and Sean Palmer; great-grandchildren Jackson Alexander, Kearstin, Gavin and Mason Palmer, William Garza, Jr., and Dustin and Charli Palmer; and a host of loving nieces, nephews, friends and business associates across the U.S. and Mexico. Visitation will be from 5-8 p.m., Tuesday, February 5, at Kreidler Funeral Home in McAllen. Sign the guest book at www.themonitor.com/obituaries

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Published by The Monitor on Feb. 4, 2013.

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Martha Martinez Garza

January 30, 2025

I cannot believe she is gone. She still lives in my heart as a loving grandmother to all the kids.

Tanya Goodwyn Leonard

February 11, 2013

Just heard that Mrs. P passed away. I'm so sorry & will be praying for all.
XOXO,
Tanya Goodwyn Leonard

February 7, 2013

GARY & MIKE, WE ARE DEEPLY SADDEN BY THE
LOSS OF MRS. PALMER. SHE WAS SUCH A GREAT
BUSINESS WOMAN WHO ALWAYS HAD A SMILE.
WE KNOW YOU WILL MISS HER.
MAY THE LORDS PEACE BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILIES.

IRMA VILLARREAL, ARMANDO FLORES & ARTURO FLORES

Todd Humphreys

February 7, 2013

What a great Lady. I know she will be missed by many.

Audrey Jones & Keith Hackland

February 6, 2013

Mike, Gary, Janie: Our sympathies. So sorry to lose Bennie. She was such wonderful lady, one of a kind. Bless her and bless you.

Gina Galvagni I

February 5, 2013

Dearest Mike & Stef, please accept my deepest sympathy for the passing of your beloved mother. I know how hard this is, as I lost my Daddy in June.
May God bless you and yours and may your mama rest in peace.

Johnny Morin and family

February 5, 2013

Our deepest and sincere condolences go out to your family....

Billie Sue Swanson

February 5, 2013

Gary, Mike, and all the family, so sorry for you loss. You will be in our prayers.

David & Suzanne DeBerry

February 5, 2013

How fortunate you were to have her, and I was to know her. Top notch produce gal like they don't make any more. God bless you guys.

LESLEY RIDDLE/JONES

February 5, 2013

MIKE AND GARY--MY MOM LET ME KNOW YOUR MOM HAD PASSED AWAY, BECAUSE SHE KNEW I WOULD WANT TO KNOW. I WAS REALLY SORRY TO HEAR. I KNOW IT WILL BE VERY HARD FOR YOU TWO TO GET THROUOGH THIS. SHE WAS A VERY STRONG, LOVING AND DEDICATED MOTHER AND I KNOW SHE LOVED BOTH OF YOU VERY MUC.

THELMA GUZMAN

February 5, 2013

MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES TO THE PALMER FAMILY, MAY SHE R.I.P. MIKE AND GARY SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

Cal and Lynn Clark

February 5, 2013

Our most sincere sympathy to the Palmer family. We know that Bennie will be missed by many. She was a good neighbor to us, it will be sad not to see her out and about and always ready for a friendly neighbor chat. May your memories of her shine through your sorrow. Sincerely, Cal and Lynn Clark

Eddie and Barbara Seals

February 5, 2013

In loving memory of a wonderful person.

Mrs. Palmer, we will love you and miss you forever.

February 5, 2013

Gary & Mike,
So sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. She was a great lady and we know you will miss her. We loved her.
Alan & Mardelle Fitzgerald

Blanca / Leo

February 4, 2013

Our hearts go out to the Palmer Family and condolence's to all, she will be greatly missed by all who Loved and respected her By the owners and staff here at Rosita's Restaurant.

Tommy & Cheri Whitlock

February 4, 2013

God Bless the Palmer Family, long life friends.

MARSHALL MYERS

February 4, 2013

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Donna Randall

February 4, 2013

Death brings a wound time cannot heal;
Love brings memories nothing can steal.

At this time of sorrow and loss, many are thinking of you. May loving thoughts and prayers bring you confort in this time of grief. Please know how very much we care.
With loving sympathy, the Randall Family ~

Jeannette Blanchette

February 4, 2013

So sorry to hear of your loss. May the good Lord comfort you at this time and always.

north san juan center

February 4, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Dale and Sharon DeBerry

February 4, 2013

We are so sorry to hear about Bennie. She was a wonderful person.

Judson Eby

February 4, 2013

Sorry to Hear about your loss your Mom was a good woman. I enjoyed eating lunch with her and Gary before I left the Valley. My Dad had known her for many many years. God Bless

Martha Garza

February 4, 2013

May you rest in Peace Bennie. My thoughts and prayers are with your loved ones.

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