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James Thomas "Tommy" Whitlock

James Thomas "Tommy" Whitlock obituary, Houston, Texas

James Whitlock Obituary

Houston, Texas - Tommy Whitlock, beloved husband, father, "Papa T," and friend, passed away on March 24, 2025. Tommy built his life in McAllen, Texas, where he cultivated lifelong friendships and a career in the produce industry.

Tommy shared 40 beautiful years of marriage with the love of his life, Cheri, a partnership full of unwavering support. As a father, he showed up with an unconditional and steady love. As "Papa T," Tommy didn't just spend time with his grandkids, he poured into their lives with intention, creating magic in everyday moments.

Honoring his wishes, a small celebration of life will be held with close family and friends. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to COTA for Weston, https://cota.org/cotaforweston/, in honor of his little sidekick.

Tommy's life was love in action. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Monitor on Mar. 29, 2025.

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Diana Ramirez

April 3, 2025

My hearts is saddened by your loss, and my thoughts are with you. I'd like to express our sincere condolences to you and your family.

lonnie e shafer

March 30, 2025

i feel i lost a partner. A great loss for all of us and much love from me, my friend .condolances to the the whole family

Hayden

March 30, 2025

Know of my great love of and respect for Tommy. He was such a good man and made every life he touched a little better. I love these words from a prayer I know, "Life is changed, not ended. When our earthly body lies in death, we gain an everlasting dwelling place in heaven ". I am keeping ALL of you in my thoughts and prayers. May he now rest from his labors in the loving arms of God. I will miss him greatly.

Jennifer Gross

March 30, 2025

I am so heartbroken for my sweet cousin to have been taken from us so early and suddenly. God bless Cherie and their children and grandchildren and his sisters, and may He grant them peace and comfort in this very sad time, as they remember him.

Moises Martinez

March 30, 2025

Our Condolences to all the family and friends. You will be missed. Great memories from Jr high,till now.
Moises & Melba Martinez

Debbie Martin Kuehn

March 30, 2025

I knew Tommy from my husband Karl kuehn, who worked with him at Rio Rico, he thought the world of him, always bragged on his knowledge and dedication to his work. Thoughts and prayers to Tommys family, he will certainly be missed.

Dewayne Finn

March 29, 2025

This is just super sad news. I remember meeting Tommy in typing class at PSJA. Then later interacting with him in the produce business. What a good guy he was. God speed Tommy

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