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Jeffrey Ruedinger Obituary

Jeffrey R. Ruedinger

Oshkosh, WI - Jeffrey R. Ruedinger, age 59, of Oshkosh, passed away unexpectedly at his home on April 16, 2019. He was born in Oshkosh on April 20, 1959 a son of the late Raymond and Beverly (Kumbier) Ruedinger. Jeff greatly enjoying farming and agricultural activities on his farm. He also enjoyed his computer and Tuesdays playing cards with the guys! He will be sadly missed.

He is survived by three sisters, Renee Ruedinger of Oshkosh; Marcia (David) Kromm of Waunakee and Brenda (Paul) Christman of Oshkosh. He is further survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends. Jeff was preceded in death by his parents.

A memorial service celebrating his life will be held on Friday, April 26, 2019 at 12 noon in the Fiss & Bills-Poklasny Funeral Home, 865 S. Westhaven Drive. A time of visitation will be held at the funeral home from 11 a.m. until the time of service. A memorial fund will be established.

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Published by Oshkosh Northwestern on Apr. 21, 2019.

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Nancy

April 15, 2021

I can't believe that it has already been 2 years. I think of you everyday and am so grateful for being able to live in your home. I picked some of your..Moms flowers for you yesterday. I will always love you.

Geoff Kuhnz

July 7, 2019

Jeff was a wonderful neighbor, friend and farming mentor to us for the last 20 years. Never one to complain, his unflappable good humor was a joy to experience. Knowledgeable about everything and expert at diverse subjects like computers, electronics and farming, his advice and counsel were unselfishly shared with us on many, many occasions.

We know he enjoyed his fun but he had more Boy Scout traits than many Boy Scouts: honest, trustworthy, fair, considerate, understanding, generous, dependable, and above all, kind to his mother! We, and many others, will miss him tremendously.

Geoff and Cindy

David Costello

April 25, 2019

Meet Jeff at Neenah Foundry in the late seventies. We worked hard and partied even harder. So many good memories from those days. RIP. Your friend David.

Stan&Chris Potratz

April 25, 2019

The best man at my wedding 30 years ago, Jeff was so nice, so funny, seems like yesterday... True friends are the ones who never leave your heart, even if they leave your life for a while. Even after years apart, you pick up with them right where you left off, and even if they die they're never dead in your heart. So shocked and sad to hear of my old friend's passing. Great adventures and memories to look back on though, some nice pictures too...

Nancy Parsons

April 24, 2019

I'm still in shock over Jeff's passing. Our relationship was my life back then. I wish i would have stopped when I drove by the farm and saw him working out front of his house last summer. If only to tell him how much he and his family influenced my life. I don't know if I will ever stop crying. I know I will never stop loving him.
To his 3 beautiful sisters, I'm sorry you lost you brother. I remember how he loved you and would have done anything for you back then. Our memories will stay with me until i die. I hope I get a chance to say hello to him then. Rest in Peace Jeffrey Ray.
Love, Nancy

Steve Kumbier

April 24, 2019

I'm still struggling to grasp the fact that Jeff passed away. As far back as I can remember Jeff was a cousin that I always looked forward to spending time with. When we were young the holidays were always special because I knew we would be at the farm. As time passed and life became busier the opportunities to get together became less. Yet when Jeff and I would run into each other the talks would always drift back to the times when we were kids. So many wonderful memories of Jeff. My deepest and sincere sympathy to Renee, Marcia and Brenda for the loss of your brother. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone in this time of mourning. Through the mist of the pain and sorrow there is comfort knowing Jeff is at peace. Steve

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Lisa

April 22, 2019

You'll forever hold a special place in my heart JR

Lisa Purdy

April 22, 2019

My heart broke when I heard the news of Jeff's passing. It's been many years, but he will always be a part of me. I just received an Easter card from a relative that included a photo of Jeff and I. I'm very sad to know that he is gone. My deepest sympathy and all my love, Lisa

George (Jr.) Bongert

April 21, 2019

My very deepest and most heartfelt condolences to the Family of Jeffrey Ruedinger. Although I did not know Jeffrey personally, we are related, since my Grandmother on my Father's side of the Family was a Ruedinger. It's a long story, as my Dad had many Ruedinger relatives, so that places me in the Ruedinger relation. May God our Heavenly Father comfort Jeffrey's Family in this difficult time, and may Jeffrey forever Rest In Peace. Jeffrey's Family is in my prayers.

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