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"Autumn Gold" would be the song I would dedicate to Jeanette Whitcher and her Family (brief Sound Clip at www.GoldCupMusic.com)
Gretchen Christopher
November 17, 2018
Gretchen Christopher
November 17, 2018
Just before 5AM, Saturday, November 17, as I try to find the hour at which today's Memorial Service for Jeanette Whitcher will be held, my tears are flowing as I again read her obituary.
Jeanette and Ladd Whicher's names are familiar to me in association with my parents, Helen & Ian Christopher, the four of them being among the co-founders of the Olympia Unitarian Fellowship, in the 1950s, as I recall. Now, the brick & mortar presence of the Olympia Unitarian-Universalist Church is within walking distance of my house, in West Olympia, where the warm smile of Jeanette Whitcher greeted me there on occasions when our paths crossed. But it was not until I read her obituary that I became aware of the extent of her life and accomplishments: A great life and great accomplishments.
What a fine person: Jeanette Whitcher. I cannot believe that there are no other Tributes or Remembrances of her, published here; so I will write my own, even though the first draft disappeared as I was about to post it, when Safari suddenly quit, deleting my hour of writing in remembrance of Jeanette Whitcher. (Maybe that's what happened to other people's attempts.) I'll not repeat it all. Suffice to say that it is my great regret that we did not know each other better, even though we shared many of the same values, I see now; and we lived only a few blocks apart, for the past 45 years.
In her Obituary, I read, "Ladd and Jeanette's New Year's Eve parties were legendary - the ultimate social gathering among their circle of friends." What a treat it would have been to walk from my house to theirs, to ring in the New Year, without the risk of driving among drinking drivers. (I so appreciated such an invitation from another of our neighbors for that occasion.)
Nowhere can I find the hour at which Jeanette Whitcher's memorial service will take place, but I would like to pay my respects for this remarkable woman, remarkable person, who contributed so much to our community and whom I, for one, already sorely miss. Thank you Jeanette Whitcher for your remarkably productive and meaningful life - so worth celebrating.
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