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Jeanette Whitcher Obituary

Jeanette Mattson Whitcher October 19, 1927 August 3, 2018 Jeanette was born into a fishing family. Her parents, Joseph George Mattson and Helena Frances Bronson were ocean fishing when "George" piloted their boat to the Quileute Reservation at LaPush, Washington. There Jeanette was born in the Indian agent's house. Times were difficult for the young couple. They followed the salmon runs from California to Alaska; making homes for their children on boats, in fishing tent camps, and in numerous port towns along the West Coast. George died in a fishing accident crossing the river bar at Newport, Oregon in 1943. By that time Helena had moved with her two youngest, Jeanette and Donald, to Alaska where Helena worked for the railroad. A star student at Anchorage High, Jeanette was awarded a full scholarship to University of Washington. The year was 1945. With the advent of WWII, Anchorage was flooded with soldiers. Despite Helena's efforts to restrict her daughter's exposure to the men, she met and fell in love with a young airplane mechanic, Ladd Lee Whitcher. Jeanette and Ladd married in December 1945. The University rescinded her scholarship. Jeanette and Ladd spent the first months of married life living with his parents in Kearney, Nebraska. Their first baby, Helena Frances Whitcher, was born and died there at the age of six weeks. Jeanette dreamed of returning to the West Coast, to Anchorage. But when Ladd landed a job with Bell Telephone in Olympia, Washington, they jumped at the chance. There in 1947 they bought a small house built on pilings in Puget Sound - beneath a steep bluff (200 stairs up to the carport) and above the tide that ebbed and flowed under the pilings. Here they raised four children. When the eldest was nine, a chimney fire destroyed the house and the family rebuilt uphill next to the city street. In Olympia Jeanette found the liberal, forward-looking community that she sought. She joined other women in founding community mental health services and the Olympia Unitarian Fellowship. She became president of the local parent/teacher association. An active member of the American Association of University Women and a charter subscriber to Ms. Magazine, Jeanette was a strong advocate for women's equity. Jeanette was instrumental in bringing AAUW's Expanding Your Horizons program to Thurston County. The program encourages girls to see themselves as future scientists, engineers, mathematicians, and computer specialists through fun activities and mentoring. The girl who started school by skipping first grade, never gave up on her education. With four children in public school and working full-time, Jeanette returned to college. In nine years between 1965 and 1975, Jeanette completed three degrees: Data Processing (Olympia Vocational-Technical Institute), Bachelor in Liberal Studies (University of Oklahoma) and Master of Librarianship (University of Washington). Jeanette's professional career began in 1965 when she was hired by the Washington State Library and began designing data processing applications - pioneering computer implementation at the State Library. Steadily moving up the career ladder from Programmer I to Programmer II to Computer Systems Analyst II at the State Library, Jeanette planned and developed the base catalog for the Timberland Library Demonstration. This Library Demonstration unified the libraries of a five-county area folding their collections into a single system that is known today as Timberland Regional Library. She retired from the Department of Information Services in 1989. Jeanette would always rather act than complain. Faith in action was a central credo of her Humanist faith. Action meant first of all, love of family. Her home was a welcoming center for her children, grandchildren and their friends, as well as for her friends and colleagues. Ladd and Jeanette's New Year's Eve parties were legendary - the ultimate social gathering among their circle of friends. She fostered three high school students for whom life at home was no longer an option. Grandchildren brought endless joy to her life. Next, stepping beyond her own circle, Jeanette became a political activist. Her imperative was to work for good and do her best to enrich the earth rather than destroy it. She organized local election campaigns, attended protests, campaigned for elimination of the death penalty, demonstrated for racial justice, and advocated for women's rights. Three of her great-grandsons are already ringing doorbells for progressive candidates. Ladd died in 2001. Jeanette outlived all her siblings, Evelyn West, Helen Yocum, George Mattson and Donald Mattson. She is survived by her children, John Lee Whitcher (Susan), Celia Joy Whitcher-Tobin (Gary), Mark Charles Whitcher, and Linda Jeanne Whitcher (Greg); ten grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren. A memorial will be held November 17, 2018 at Olympia Unitarian Universalist Congregation, Olympia Washington.

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Published by The Olympian on Aug. 19, 2018.

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"Autumn Gold" would be the song I would dedicate to Jeanette Whitcher and her Family (brief Sound Clip at www.GoldCupMusic.com)

Gretchen Christopher

November 17, 2018

Gretchen Christopher

November 17, 2018

Just before 5AM, Saturday, November 17, as I try to find the hour at which today's Memorial Service for Jeanette Whitcher will be held, my tears are flowing as I again read her obituary.

Jeanette and Ladd Whicher's names are familiar to me in association with my parents, Helen & Ian Christopher, the four of them being among the co-founders of the Olympia Unitarian Fellowship, in the 1950s, as I recall. Now, the brick & mortar presence of the Olympia Unitarian-Universalist Church is within walking distance of my house, in West Olympia, where the warm smile of Jeanette Whitcher greeted me there on occasions when our paths crossed. But it was not until I read her obituary that I became aware of the extent of her life and accomplishments: A great life and great accomplishments.

What a fine person: Jeanette Whitcher. I cannot believe that there are no other Tributes or Remembrances of her, published here; so I will write my own, even though the first draft disappeared as I was about to post it, when Safari suddenly quit, deleting my hour of writing in remembrance of Jeanette Whitcher. (Maybe that's what happened to other people's attempts.) I'll not repeat it all. Suffice to say that it is my great regret that we did not know each other better, even though we shared many of the same values, I see now; and we lived only a few blocks apart, for the past 45 years.

In her Obituary, I read, "Ladd and Jeanette's New Year's Eve parties were legendary - the ultimate social gathering among their circle of friends." What a treat it would have been to walk from my house to theirs, to ring in the New Year, without the risk of driving among drinking drivers. (I so appreciated such an invitation from another of our neighbors for that occasion.)

Nowhere can I find the hour at which Jeanette Whitcher's memorial service will take place, but I would like to pay my respects for this remarkable woman, remarkable person, who contributed so much to our community and whom I, for one, already sorely miss. Thank you Jeanette Whitcher for your remarkably productive and meaningful life - so worth celebrating.

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