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Bill Wright
December 30, 2013
I enjoyed working closely with Ken from 1960 to 1963 when I was Personnel Assistant in Headquarters, WSP.
Ruth Ishihara
December 20, 2013
Kevin, David, and families, my condolences on the passing of your Father. He was such a nice man and will be missed by many.
December 20, 2013
Kevin, David, and families, My condolences on the passing of your Father. He was such a nice man and will be missed by many.
Tracey Hansen
December 18, 2013
Dear Kevin and David and assorted family,
You probably don't remember me, nor would I expect you to. My name is Tracey Hansen and I cared for your father at Olympics West during his last year and a half there. I worked the evening shift, not that it's of consequence. I know in the days past and the days to come you will have a lot of people approach you, in whatever means they chose, to tell you of how great they grieve for your loss and how much your father meant to them. I also know that they will all blend together in a manner of speaking, too many condolences to keep track of in such a state as I am sure you find yourselves in. That is not to say that they mean any less, or are any less appreciated. It's just too many to take in all at once I am sure. With regards to that I almost didn't write this letter to you. I couldn't, however, help myself as your father meant that much to me.
I didn't know your father for very long. I started my employment at Olympics West November of 2011. That is simply a year and a half of time that I was blessed with his friendship. I remember the first time I met your father. He was sitting in his recliner, with a big smile on his face, as I was introduced to him. I remember very clearly thinking that this was the nicest I had ever been received by a resident, though this is far from my first facility. Very quickly I became dedicated towards the goal of your father talking to me, really having a conversation with me. I had a soft spot, I believe, that at first started with him and my fiancé (now husband) both serving their country in the Navy. I think the moment I knew that my efforts were noticed and rewarded by your father was when he asked me three months in to providing care for him, thus three months after the first time I told him my boyfriend was in the navy, what his rate was. I was incredibly touched and I knew in that moment that this man would mean a great deal to me.
I could go on and on about my memories of him but I want to share only a select few. I'm not sure why, but I feel the need to let you know that he was a blessing to all around him and truly honored us with his presence. I know that this is selfish by nature, you being the last people in the entire universe that need to be told of how remarkable of a man he is. But I can't help myself so I hope that you will excuse me in this intrusion.
Your father would brighten my worst of days in his own, gentle way. Whether it was patting my head like a father would in times when I felt downcast or his smile that let me know that he had been observing and knew that what I needed was just a smile from someone. I remember the first time my husband and I were parted for the holidays. I was upset, clearly, and it was his (my now husbands) birthday. I could not stop thinking about how sad I was that we were separated for it and how I wished that he was at least available by email, though he was on alert and would not receive any till much more time had passed. You dad knew that I was under the weather and as I helped him get ready for bed I remember him looking at me and giving me a small smile. He told me that my husband was a lucky man. My heart stopped for a minute, as I hadn't told him that he was gone but I truly believe that observant, thoughtful, caring man knew. And I knew in that moment I loved him, the same type of love that I had for my own grandfather. It was clear to me that this man was brought into my life for a reason and that I should be nothing if not grateful for it. To tell you the truth I was humbled by it.
I also remember his understanding concern of our needs. Perhaps it wasn't all of our needs, but I like to think it was. You father, upon seeing me with my support boot after I hurt my ankle, gave me a clever smirk and said “Nice shoes.” I think, or I chose to believe, that he knew I would have been embarrassed had he asked after me in actual concern. Instead he made me laugh, and laugh, and laugh. It was the perfect response and in that moment I could not have love him more. He spent the next few weeks asking if I was ok whenever I was providing any sort of physical care but in that moment he made me feel comfortable acknowledging my injury with him. In no way did he make me feel like I was injured; instead he instilled within me a feeling of temporary weakness that he and I both knew with be overcome.
Your father taught me of his love of music very early on. His constant demand, and I mean demand, that I sing for him made me feel self conscious at first but quickly I realized that his love of music was what led this and I felt truly honored to have him ask for it. He would ask me to sing for him during whatever, and I mean whatever, ADL I was assisting him with at the moment. I soon began to feel that part of my care for him was to sing for him. I remember very clearly how happy it made him and I reveled at how easy a pleasure it was to give to him. Your father had that quality; the ability to make one feel amazing though their actual skill might be mediocre.
I suppose to sum this up, though I could go on for hours (and will in the privacy of my own head) about what an amazing man he was I should say these things:
1. I never felt like I was working when I was helping your father.
2. The moments I spent with him, whether at my facility or Mother Josephs, were some of the best I have known.
3. The amount of pride and love he had in his eyes when he spoke of you simply struck me speechless. Your father truly thought the world of you two and I am likely to lean on his side as I have yet to meet anyone as caring and involved as you were both.
It was an honor to know your father and your family. Thank you for sharing him with us and know that wherever he was, he was beloved and will truly never be forgotten by anyone. I loved your father and I am not ashamed of it. I wish you all the best in the world and know that you are not alone in your mourning of him.
With every warmest regard I could now or ever possibly muster,
Tracey Hansen
P.S. – If you ever need anything at all, even if it's just a good recipe for lemon meringue pie, please don't hesitate to ask me at [email protected]
December 16, 2013
How I loved my very special Uncle from the time I was a little girl when he came home from the Navy in his uniform looking so handsome and always smiling and on thru the years. As a young Mom he always welcomed my children and me, he brought my Mom out to the east coast so she could celebrate the holidays with us, he helped me move Mom from her 60 yr. home to Olympics West in Tumwater. Uncle Kenny always made my sister and I feel at home while we were visiting our Mom. When we could not be there, he visited her regularly, always bringing ice cream or something special. He made many trips to Leavenworth to see her when it became necessary for her to receive more care. When able, I have visited Uncle Kenny and when he could talk he always told me "I love You." Later, he said the same thing to me with his smiles. Uncle Kenny is the best example of a man, husband, father, grandfather, uncle one could ever imagine or want. Thanks for being you, Uncle Kenny. I will love you forever.
Your niece, Joanne (Ostman) Gormel
Lisa (Nielson) Henry
December 16, 2013
One of my earliest memories is ice skating/riding on a toboggan out on the lake behind their house one year when it froze solid. I will always remember your dad with a smile on his face. No matter what the circumstances, he always managed a smile and a chuckle. I will miss seeing him around when I visit.
December 16, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear about your father. Ken will be missed by all.
Larry Nielson
Preston Beegle
December 15, 2013
Dear Thompson Family,
I wanted to let you know how very sorry I am to hear of the loss of Ken. I first met Ken when I was hired as a State Patrol Cadet in early 1974. At the time he was the Manager of what was known as ARD (accident records).
He was the kindest man and when our paths would cross regularly he always was so pleasant to visit with. We would sometimes share our experience about serving in the military,Ken with the Navy and mine with the Army having served in Vietnam. I went onto serve 27+ years as a Trooper retiring in 2001. I got to meet his son Kevin and both of them were very nice people. Again my sadness for your entire family during this time.
Be assured Ken is now with his Lord and having the time of his life.
My family prayers will be with you.
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