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Patrick Henson Obituary
Pat "The Mailman" Henson, beloved son, father, boyfriend, brother, nephew, cousin, and grandson, passed away suddenly on November 5, 2010. He was born in Tacoma, WA on November 13, 1982 to Vernon and Bette (Palmer) Henson, as their precious miracle. He loved his life in and around Olympia, and was a graduate of Tumwater High School and Centralia Community College.
Pat was a fun loving, free-spirited friend to all. He will be remembered for his bright smile and infectious laugh. He loved to go four wheeling with friends at the Oregon Sand Dunes, and even tried skydiving. He enjoyed working on projects like his 2002 Chevy Camaro. He delivered mail throughout the city, but was especially loved and will be missed by friends on his downtown route.
Pat was a championship bowler who competed in leagues from the age of 12. At 16, he bowled his first 300 game in a state tournament. He went on to bowl in leagues with his father and his friends and continued to win tournaments around the state.
Pat was preceded in death by his twin sisters Diana and Deborah, brother Christopher, and sister Pamela. He is survived by his parents, brother Michael, one year old son Kaeden, girlfriend Jena Brocious, grandmother Wasalea Henson of Homedale, ID, and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.
A celebration of his life will be held on Sunday, November 14 at Mills and Mills, 5725 Littlerock Rd. SW in Tumwater, with a viewing from 10:00 a.m to 1:00 p.m. and funeral service at 2:00 p.m., followed by a reception at the funeral home.
The family would like to thank the Lacey paramedics and the St. Peter's Hospital Emergency Room staff for doing all they could to save Pat. Donations may be made in the name of Kaeden Henson to the Olympia Credit Union, PO Box 7549, Olympia, WA 98507.
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Memories and Condolences
for Patrick Henson
kaeden
April 15, 2025
IM 16 now BTW miss ya dad
Dora Torres
November 19, 2010
Vern I am so sorry I just heard. I cannot find the right words to express my sorrow for you. I will keep you in my prayers.
November 15, 2010
I met Pat only a couple of times a few years ago while subbing at the downtown post office. He came and rescued me from the dark on a route that I had never been on and happily helped me deliver mail until 9pm at night. I think I may have also had the pleasure of bowling with Pat 10+years ago. In the brief moments that I met him I could feel he had such a strong spirit. The good ones are always taken so soon. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and his precious son. ~Tonya
Kim
November 14, 2010
I will miss that laugh and sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers are with the Henson family.
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Bruce Townshend
November 13, 2010
I was proud to have worked with him, honored when he thanked me for my military service, and truly privileged to have known him. His laugh, smile and kind heart are qualities that everyone loved. To the Henson family and to the whole team in the Olympia Post Office I offer my prayers and my deepest condolences.
November 13, 2010
we will miss that smile ' thoughts and prayers for the henson family
Mail Carriers at the Lacey Post Office
November 12, 2010
On behalf of the mail carriers at the Lacey Post Office, Patrick will be truely missed. We are saddened by the loss of our co-worker. Our thoughts and prayers to Vern, Kaeden and all of Patrick's family. God Bless.
Jodi Lee
November 12, 2010
I am so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. I did not know him as well as I should have. I do remember him to be a very pleasant person.
My thoughts and prayers are will the Henson family.
Kathy Davis
November 11, 2010
Search Light Moms wants to tell you how sorry we are for the passing of your Patrick. If there is anything that we can do for you please let us know. We as mothers understand the day to day pain as we search for answers.
Love and Blessings,
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Richard Montemarano
November 11, 2010
Pat,
Buddy! Friend! Family! You were my rock. A man that anyone could turn to. Always there to fashion a smile. You will forever be in my heart. Pat, you were a brother to me. You were the greatest friend I could ever ask for. You blessed my life in so many ways. You could light a room with your contagious smile and that unforgettable giggle. Pat you will be missed so much!!!!
Lynette Gallyer
November 11, 2010
Pat will always live on in my heart. He was the highlight of my day when he delivered mail to the hotel. I will always remember the friendship he offered to everyone who crossed his path. I miss him so much. My thoughts go out to his parents and brother Michael. I know how close you were. Pat talked about you all the time.
Marie R. Ames
November 11, 2010
I will always remember Pat's smile while he worked in his case. He was one of the happiest person I knew. He will truely be missed by all.
November 11, 2010
When I think of Pat, I think of twinkling eyes and a wide smile. He always cheered my day whenever I saw him. My prayers are with his family.
Cheryl Soo
Kim McFadden
November 11, 2010
May Pat's laughter forever echo in the hearts of those that love him.
Jeanne Carras
November 11, 2010
Pat was a bright spot in our day when he delivered our mail. We at Bonaventure will miss him so bad. I am sorry to say I do understand how you feel - I experienced the loss of my daughter 18 years ago. I know there are no words to make it better, just know I am thinking of you & the loss of your beloved son.
Deborah Larkin-Morgan
November 11, 2010
Pat is an amazing Soul!!! He touched so many lives. When delivering the mail he made sure he took a moment of his day to share the love he had for his Family and made it a point to ask about my day. We had many wonderful conversations. He always wore a smile on his face and had optimism in his words . My thoughts and Prayers are with Pat and his Family. Sincerely Deborah Larkin-Morgan
Sarah Henningfield
November 11, 2010
Patty- My heart aches for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers to your precious baby boy. Until we meet again love...
Steven Haworth
November 11, 2010
I used to tell Pat he was my brother from another mother. Pat was a friend at work, at the bowling alley and always. He would do anything to help and just to talk to him I would feel at ease no matter the subject. I love ya man and always will in my heart and soul. Pat will be missed but never forgotten!
Robert Jacobsen
November 11, 2010
The bible says that there is a time for everything but, this does not feel like the right time to be saying goodbye to such an amazing person. Pat, you will be missed by everyone whose life you impacted so greatly, our only comfort comes in knowing we will see you again someday in heaven. Rest in peace.Our prayers are with your family.
Dennis Parker
November 11, 2010
"your life was well lived, respected, honored, and loved" although you pass on from this life into the unknown. That life which you had here on this earth will go on in the hearts of all the people you touched, loved and laughed with. we all love and miss you Pat, no matter if we just met you yesterday or lived a lifetime together.
Julie Fairbanks
November 10, 2010
Pat was a true blessing to us at the Post Office. His smile was so special and he was always up. Our hearts are broken during this time. My prayers are for his family. Pat was an amazing son
Julie Fairbanks
November 10, 2010
Pat was an amazing young man. You never heard a bad thing come from him. He would help you if he could. He always smiled and was kind to everyone. His smile was such a gift. Us employees at the Post have a lost an amazing co-worker and friend most of all FRIEND. It has been and always will be a wonderful blessing and honor having Pat in our lives. GOD BLESS!!!
Angela Lilly-Ducey
November 10, 2010
RIP Pat, You will be missed by many. You always had a smile on your face and your a great person. I have known you for many years and it came to a end to soon. Your family and friends are in my prayers. God Bless
November 10, 2010
Pat:, You will be remembered by us as one of the family. You were always there when one of us needed a hand with anything. You were always welcome in our home. We will miss your smile so much. You were far to good of person to be taken away from us all. We all love and miss you greatly. the Smith family
Theresa Anderson
November 10, 2010
We will miss your happy smile! Our thoughts and prayers to the family! From the Pizzazz ladies.
Sadie (Miller) Hill
November 10, 2010
My brother and I attended elementary thru high school with Pat. I remember him always being easy to get along with and a big smile on his face.
As the parent of a young child; his passing has really impacted me. This tragedy has reminded me to slow down and appreciate the little things.
My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends during this difficult time. I wish you strength and peace. RIP Pat
Cathy Tobeck
November 10, 2010
I only met Pat a few times, but he was always smiling and seemed to be so happy... I know that everyone who knew him loved him dearly and he will be missed. I will say that I am glad that I got to meet him. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
November 10, 2010
Patrick you will be missed so much. Your infectious laugh was one of the many things I enjoyed and will remember. I believe you are in heaven and happier than ever. We will see you again, your family is in my prayers. K. Longnecker
Angie Lilly-Ducey
November 10, 2010
I am really sorry for your loss, I went to school with Pat for many years. He was funny and always had a smile on his face, He was fun to be around. My prayers go out to his family,friends, And His girlfriend and Son. He will truely be missed by many. RIP Pat Henson..
The Ask-Shea Family
November 10, 2010
Our deepest sympathies to the Henson family during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts & prayers.
Lisa Hall
November 10, 2010
I know that I speak for so many people who were blessed to get to know Pat. He was such a great guy. He was always smiling, telling stories of his lady and sweet baby. I am so very sad for your loss. My heart goes out to you all.
November 10, 2010
Pat was always a bright light whenever he entered our office to deliver mail. We will miss him. Our most heartfelt condolence to Pat's family.
The Olympia Downtown Association.
Christene Allen (Vogel)
November 10, 2010
I am very sorry about your loss. My brother, cousin and I all bowled with pat and mike. He was a sweatheart and very loveable. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. RIP PAT!!
anonomous
November 10, 2010
I know many people who were friends of Pat's but unfortunately did not have the pleasure of meeting him. My deepest thoughts are with all Pat's friends and family. I am so sorry for you loss.
Brent Pearson
November 10, 2010
I didn't know Pat as well I would like to have (I guess I figured there'd always be time), but always enjoyed bowling with him... he always had the funniest shirts and a big contagious smile go with them. My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time of sadness. God bless you all.
November 10, 2010
So very sorry for your loss. My husband bowled with him and we heard the news of your loss on Tuesday night at bowling. Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family and friends.
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