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1924
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Toy Kay Obituary
October 17, 1924 - April 7, 2025
Olympia, Washington - On April 7, 2025, Toy Jean Kay, 100, of Olympia peacefully passed away surrounded by family. A celebration of life is planned for Sunday, May 18, 2025 from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at the Lacey Community Center, 6729 Pacific Ave SE, Lacey, Washington. Please see Toy's entire obituary at https://www.dignitymemorial.com/obituaries/tumwater-wa/toy-kay-12332604.
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Joan Knapp
May 23, 2025
Met Toy through Zonta in 1982. When Zonta allowed men to become members, Toy brought in 5 men over a fairly short period of time. Over the number of years she was active she brought in more members than anyone else I knew in the Olympia club. She always supported me and encouraged me to "move up" not only in the club but in the district & internationally. I served as district governor & elected to international nominating committee + being appointed PR&C chair. When my husband & I had dinner one time many years ago I admired her purple flowers (probably more blue than purple) in her garden. It was obviously spring then. She gave me a planting which I transplanted to my garden. They have multiplied over the years. Every spring when they bloom I always think of her. She was truly one absolutely amazing woman. I feel very blessed to have known her.
Catherine Foster
April 17, 2025
A gracious and lovely woman.
john bean
April 15, 2025
RIP Mrs. Kay, you were a grand lady that we all respected.......
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