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Bernadette K. Denoyer

1948 - 2019

Bernadette K. Denoyer obituary, 1948-2019, Ridgefield, CT

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Bernadette Denoyer Obituary

Bernadette K. Denoyer
Bernadette Kelly Denoyer, 70, of Ridgefield, passed away peacefully at her home on Monday morning, September 16, 2019. She was the loving wife to Mr. Bernard Denoyer of 47 years.
Brennie (as she was known to many) was born on September 22, 1948 in New Rochelle, a twin daughter of Bernadette and Edward Kelly of Larchmont, New York. One of seven children, she lived in Larchmont until attending college in Virginia. She spent many of her early years sailing with her siblings and friends on Long Island Sound out of Larchmont Yacht Club. She attended Holy Child Academy in Rye and Marymount College in Alexandria, Virginia. After college Brennie did a six-month merchandising internship in Paris, France, then worked for Young and Rubicam in New York and American Thread in Stamford, Connecticut.
In addition to her husband, Brennie is survived by her four brothers, Bill, Joe, Peter, and John Kelly; three children, Terry Denoyer of Mystic, Tim Denoyer of Columbus, Indiana and Kate Fitzpatrick of Ridgefield; and six grandchildren, Kelly, Nora and Ryan Fitzpatrick of Ridgefield, Gracen and Clara Denoyer of Columbus, Indiana and Frank Denoyer of Mystic.
A resident of Ridgefield for the past 44 years, Mrs. Denoyer was a parishioner of St. Mary's Church. She volunteered for many years at The Maritime Aquarium of Norwalk and also worked at Veterans Park Elementary School in Ridgefield. An avid gardener and dog lover, she enjoyed being outdoors and spending time with her children and grandchildren. Traveling often to her weekend home in Groton Long Point, Connecticut, she especially loved walking "by the water."
In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her identical twin sister, Barbara Funk of Annapolis, Maryland and her older sister Sheila Ihlefeld of Essex, Vermont.
Friends will be received on Thursday, September 19, 2019 from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Kane Funeral Home; 25 Catoonah Street, Ridgefield. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, September 20, 2019 at 1:15 p.m. at St. Mary's Church; 55 Catoonah Street, Ridgefield. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to T.J. Martell Foundation for Cancer Research - tjmartell.org; The Ridgefield Visiting Nurses Association RidgefieldVNA.org; or St. Edmund's Retreat - Endersisland.com.

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Published by The Ridgefield Press on Sep. 17, 2019.

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Kathleen Hume

September 11, 2025

Brennie, if you happen to be reading this from up in heaven, just know I think about you often. I have many of the hydrangea items in my house that always reminds me of you. You would be so happy and so proud of your children and your grandchildren.

Kathy

September 11, 2023

I miss you Brennie and think of you often.

Sherrill Stover

September 21, 2019

Deepest Sympathy and prayers to the Denoyer family.

Maryanne Weisz Sullivan

September 19, 2019

Bernie and Bobby I remember them so very well. Across Fountain Square we watched Dick Clark's American Bandstand during the 50s So sorry Bernard for your loss.

Dee Aspros

September 18, 2019

These thoughts comfort me...

I give you this one thought to keep
I am with you still I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow, I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the sweet uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone
I am with you still in each new dawn.

Native American Prayer

I will never forget you, Brennie. So many years, so many memories to treasure. xxxoooxxx Dee

September 18, 2019

'There is No Death
I am standing on the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength, and I stand and watch her until at length she is a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then someone at my side says, "There! She's gone!" Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side, and she is just as able to bear her load of living weight to her destined harbor.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says, There! She's gone! there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, "There she comes!
And Life sails on.

Thinking of you with our love, thoughts, and prayers.
Chris & Marie Jensen

Trixie Torres

September 18, 2019

Brennie was such an inspiration to me. The way she raised her children and lived her life to the fullest. I loved our long talks. She will be missed but not forgotten ❤

Pat Wooters Pedersen

September 17, 2019

Knowing Brennie my whole life, sailing together out of LYC, sharing a lifetime of friendship talking long distance constantly, being always welcome when I came home to CT. for a visit ,Groton Long Point walking on the beach eating those delicious lobster rolls, having Capt. Bernard take us on their boat for tours, wonderful visit to Adirondack mts to visit Upper Saranac Lake. So many memories true friends forever. Watch over me Brennie, until we meet again, I miss you but I am so happy you and Barbara are dancing down streets of gold you are truly a very beautiful person...love you always.
Pat Wooters Pedersen

Pat Wooters Pedersen

September 17, 2019

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

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