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Daniel Boeckman Obituary

CARTERVILLE - Daniel "Dan" Joseph Boeckman, 63, passed away on Wednesday, June 18, 2025.

Dan was the fifth and final addition to the Boeckman family when he was born on March 25, 1962, to C.B. "Beck" Boeckman and Martha "Nan" Hilburn Boeckman. As a teenager, Dan joined his parents as they relocated from Kansas City to the Lake of the Ozarks to run Empire Resort in their retirement. Although Dan's career would take him across the Midwest, his love of the Lake remained a constant throughout his life. The Big Niangua arm holds many wonderful memories of Dan for his friends and family.

Dan graduated from Camdenton High School in 1980. He went on to earn a degree in construction management from Pittsburg State University in Pittsburg, Kansas. Dan's career in construction took him from working the night shift supervising the construction of a Kansas City high-rise to overseeing state-of-the-art expansions for hospital systems in Missouri and Illinois. For the last 15 years, he was with SIH Memorial Hospital in Carbondale, Illinois, where he served as the corporate director of facilities.

In 1988, he met his future wife, Gail, in Springfield, Missouri, and asked her if she'd like to dance. They were joined in marriage on Sept. 1, 2001, at St. Anthony's Catholic Church in Camdenton, Missouri. A great joy of their shared life was adopting their son Deegan from China in 2002.

Dan's hobbies were united under one theme: allowing him to spend time with friends and family. He was always happy to entertain guests at the Lake. Dan owned and loved many boats throughout his life. Perhaps none more than his 36-foot wooden Chris-Craft, christened "GiGi," that features prominently in his nieces' and nephews' childhood memories of their beloved Uncle Danny. In many of those memories, he's fiddling with a temperamental engine.

He is remembered by his loved ones as perhaps the luckiest golfer on the planet. He famously scored a hole-in-one during a tournament shortly before traveling to adopt Deegan, and then won a Mustang at another tournament shortly thereafter (though it was deemed impractical for life with a toddler).

Dan is remembered for his kind and generous heart. Over the years, he was involved with Big Brothers Big Sisters, hosted an international exchange student from China, and was an active member and past president of both the Missouri and Southern Illinois Healthcare Engineering Society chapters.

Dan was preceded in death by his parents, Beck and Nan, and his beloved sister, Debra Boeckman.

He is survived by his devoted wife, Gail; son, Deegan; stepson, Sean Calhoun; his siblings and their spouses, Linda (Jim) Griffeth of Galveston, Texas, David (Linda) Boeckman of Camdenton, Missouri, and Mark (Kathy) Boeckman of Santa Clara, California; as well as many adoring nieces, nephews and in-laws.

Family and friends are encouraged to remember Dan when they're spending time by the water and when the Cardinals win. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society (www.cancer.org).

Services will be Aug. 2 in Camdenton, beginning with a visitation at 10 a.m. at St. Anthony's Catholic Church, 1874 N. Business Rt. 5, Camdenton, Missouri. Funeral mass will begin at 11 a.m., with inurnment at Hedges Cemetery Columbarium. A luncheon will follow. Friends and family are welcome for all.

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Published by The Southern Illinoisan on Jul. 24, 2025.

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Vanessa Lawrence

August 1, 2025

I did not know Dan very well but I didn´t have to to be able to say he was one of the kindest people I have ever met. He and his wife Gail, both kind hearted people. I guess it wasn´t met to be, but it would have been to my pleasure and honor to have been a close friend of Dan and his wife Gail. My condolences to you Gail, Deegan, and to all of Dan´s family and friends.

Tracy & Sean Herron

August 1, 2025

Dan was one of the best. So very generous and fun to be around. He will be missed by many. Lots of love for you all.

Linda Griffeth

July 27, 2025

To the best baby brother ever. Pray you are dancing in heaven with Debbie Big Sis

Ken and Mary Boeckman

July 27, 2025

Dan loved the lake and gave us many boat rides. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Brenda Beggs

July 26, 2025

I didn´t know your husband however i want to send you prayers and hugs during the time. I wish you and your son peace

Karen & Tim Profita

July 26, 2025

Dear Gail and Deegan, Although we didn´t know Dan, we feel like we did through all the fun stories told by the Williams´.
Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers!
Dan put up a valiant fight as we are sure he was trying to stay with you and Deegan as long as possible!!
May he rest in peace now.

Gale Hawk

July 26, 2025

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Kelly Lawrence

July 26, 2025

Dan, you will always hold a special place in my heart. You and Gail were such an important part in our trip to China to adopt our children. You were funny and kind and Gail loved you so very much. My heart breaks to hear of this news but you will always be part of my heart. God bless and rest in peace my friend.

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