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David Lappe Obituary
David was born July 22, 1974, in Chester, the son of David A. Lappe Sr. and Betty (Hornbostel) Lappe Sr.
He worked in maintenance at Southern Precision Sand Company in Cutler.
David was of Lutheran faith.
He loved hunting, fishing and spending time outdoors.
David is survived by two children, Kayla Lappe of New Athens, and Owen Lappe of Freeburg; his parents, David Sr. and Betty Lappe of Steeleville; brothers, Kevin (Michiye) Lappe of Big Cabin, Okla., and Scott (Tammy) Lappe of New Athens; sisters, Karrie Lappe (Rick Quigley) of New Athens, and Shelly (Ken) Shevlin of Freeburg; six nephews and two nieces, whom he loved very dearly; and several relatives and friends.
David was preceded in death by one daughter, McKenzie; and his grandparents, John and Helen Lappe and Herman and Anna Hornbostel.
Services will be at 11 a.m. Monday, Feb. 28, in Immanuel Lutheran Church, West Point in Campbell Hill, with the Rev. Tim B. Zechiel officiating. Burial will be in Immanuel Lutheran Cemetery, West Point in Campbell Hill. Visitation will be from 5 to 8 p.m. Sunday at Wilson's Funeral Home, from 7:30 to 9 a.m. Monday at the church, and from 10 to 11 a.m. today at the funeral home in Steeleville. Memorials may be made to a fund for his children.
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Memories and Condolences
for David Lappe
mary elizabeth nyb
February 23, 2021
Missing you. What I wonder who you would be and what you would be up to today. The things I can be sure of is that you would be kind, sweet and always with that darling smile I will always remember so fondly as we got through art class together and lots of parties together - you were such a great friend and buddy to me - You are missed.
Joshua Swan
February 24, 2012
I love you my man. I will never forget you and I will do everything I can to keep your spirit alive.
Joshua Swan
July 22, 2011
Happy Birthday Bro. I think about you everyday. I love you and miss you. You are one of my favorite people!
,
March 25, 2011
Matt Helms
March 3, 2011
Lappe Family, I am sorry to hear of the loss of David. There are so many fond childhood memories that I have with David as a part of them...little league baseball games, going to WWF wresting matches at the Kiel, baling hay on the farm and eating late night dinners at Goodall's (Gary's). David always brought energy and laughter to the occassion.
March 2, 2011
David I am going to miss you so much. I love you man. Your memory and spirit will be with me the rest of my life. That's a fact.
Shelly Lappe-Shevlin
March 1, 2011
Dear Brother David: I will miss you terribly but I find comfort in knowing you are in a better place. I prayed to God all day Friday, Saturday and Sunday to just send me a penny to let me know you are in Heaven. Guess what? On Monday, before the funeral, I walked into the Church to gather with the family. I had plenty of seats to choose from but chose to sit in the pew. I picked up the prayer book that was lying where I was about to sit. To my surprise, I found not one, but two pennies in the corner of the pew. Now this was no coincidence!!! I know these were "Pennies from Heaven"!!!! Today the sun is shining and I know you're watching over your friends and family (if that's possible since there are so many). You were the most loving and giving person I know(not to mention the funniest person I have ever known). I will always cherish our deer hunting adventures - you would be cleaning my deer at midnight while I was sleeping inside the trailer. You always went the extra mile to make deer hunting a pleasurable experience. I remember several occasions when you told me "I don't care if I get a deer or not, I just want you to get one". I only hunted for five years before I ever got one, and that was only because Owen was my good luck charm. Remember this past hunting season when you asked me to take Kayla hunting and to do whatever it takes to get her excited about the outdoors? Kayla was so excited she fell asleep in the middle of hunting. I came back to the trailer and we shared a laugh that Kayla will only love the outdoors if there is a mall she can shop at. All joking aside, I love you sooooo much and will do everything I possibly can to guide Kayla and Owen in the right direction. Our family has always been exceptionally close but I know this will make us even closer. We have been sitting around these past few days exchanging "David stories". We laugh, we cry, we sigh, and we ask "what if"? The only thing I'm sure of is that you are at peace and I will miss you dearly. Little brother, you have always been more than just a little brother - you were my friend. So long for now but we will meet again. Rest in Peace!!!!!
lynn lappe
March 1, 2011
we had to say good by to you today,but it is not good by forever for we will see you again someday.we loved you very much.Even though you are no longer with us, you will always be alive in our hearts forever.
Mary Elizabeth Beary
March 1, 2011
Dear Lappe Family & Loved Ones, I am incredibly disheartened & in shock at the loss of Dave. I am sorry to have just learned & to have missed his services. He & I went to High School together & made fast friends with similar senses of humor & the love of pranks. He used to come over senior year (92) & have me do his art sketches - :) Dave was a LIGHT everywhere he went, no person was not his friend - he was special, unique & brought something no one else could. I am so saddened by his loss. I remember almost falling out of my chair at lunch one day when he was voted class president ~ as he was class clown, really! His heart really was full of love and good humor, I will miss him & it is hard to have this news. To his parents; You raised an incredible boy into a great young man who brought so much GOOD to so many people. Rest assured in this. May God hold him, and ALL of you, in the palm of his Hand. To his children; Please remember this, while there is nothing harder than losing your parent (I lost my Dad, too..) He truly is ALWAYS WITH YOU. And not just in your hearts and your memories - he is closer than you think - Heaven really isnt all THAT far away. You can talk to him, and believe me, he will know. And you will know exactly what he would reply to you, what he would say, if he would laugh, or even not want you to do something.. This stays with you forever - CHERISH it. In doing this you are honoring your Dad & living out his legacy ~ your special gift of your Dad will always, always be with you, even though he is not here for you to see. Mine is, I still hear his lectures! And I still know the moments in my life when I know he would be most proud of me. Love never, ever dies - especially between parents and their children. I hope you all find comfort, peace, & acceptance at some point along this bumpy road of loss. I am very sorry for this loss. While nothing can replace - you have MUCH to hold onto. Dave certainly was one for making memories - without even knowing it :) ALL good things to you and yours and may God Bless you, hold you, keep you, and forever smile on you. All My Love, Mary Elizabeth Beary
David (Henry) Knollhoff
February 28, 2011
While it has been since the end of grade school that I last saw David, he still has a special place in many of my childhood memories. I extend my deepest condolences to his entire family, and pray that God provides comfort to you all in this time of need.
Sara Glasscock
February 28, 2011
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel about Davids death. I do remember many, many great times with David. He was always the life of the party, always making people laugh. One of my favorite memories was going to his favorite fishing spot, where we used to jump the fence. Although I'm not big into fishing, I think it was one of my favoite memories because he loved it so much. His humor was the reason so many of us loved him so much. "To be the man, you've got to beat the man"
Kim Werner-Higgins
February 28, 2011
Trying to keep up with you as a child was almost impossible, but I tried. Growing up, we got into alot of mischief and I usually got caught(with the exception of us almost burning your parents garage down, we both got it then,lol).You will be missed but will live on forever in countless stories, pictures and memories with all of us.
To the Lappe family, you were my home away from mine. Thank you for all of your kindness through the years to me and my family. Your good sweet nature has shown through right on down the generation. May you find peace.
theresa collingsworth-schanz
February 27, 2011
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Rita Baker
February 27, 2011
Dave and Betty and Family, it is with deepest sympathy that I'm writing this. It is hard to believe that David could be gone. He was always so vibrant and full of life. He will always hold a special place in my heart. My prayers are with you all, Rita Baker
Corliss Boyce
February 27, 2011
Dave, Betty, and family, I am sincerely sorry to hear of the passing of David. He was always a joy to be around and was always making us laugh. David you may be gone from our lives but you will always be in our hearts.
Jack/Anna Marie Crowe
February 27, 2011
Betty and family shocked to hear the sad news about your loss.May God give you
strength to carry on.
Todd & Leslie Rivera
February 27, 2011
We are deeply sadened by the passing of Dave. He was such a great friend and we havehad many wonderful memories. We are so honored to have had Dave in our wedding and to share so many fun times. Please know that you all our in our heart & prayers. R.I.P. Dave, we love you and will miss your smiling face.
Mike & Sherry Lappe
February 27, 2011
You are all in our hearts and our prayers. My God be with all of you and give you strength in your time of sorrow. David was the most fun loving guy you could ever know. He will be greatly missed. Rest in peace David.
Reda Lappe Family
February 27, 2011
Sorry for ur loss we will be prayin for you all. It's always difficult to deal with these sort of things. Stay strong and we love you.
Karen G.
February 27, 2011
I'm so sorry for your loss. I knew David in grade and high School, he was always a good friend.
Sarah Quigley
February 27, 2011
Dear Tormentor of My Youth,
You always had the last laugh. I never thought that I’d be thankful for all the pranks you pulled on me, (from the fake My Size Barbie to the weed eater incident), they give us something to laugh about during the times we need it the most. Beyond your unusual sense of humor, you have given our family other priceless gifts that we will cherish forever. I will always look after Kayla and Owen for you.
kayla
February 27, 2011
Dad,i love you soo much and will miss you
im glad we had so many good time together
r.i.p dad i love you
kayla
February 27, 2011
Dad,i lvoe you soo much and i will miss you soo much!im glad we had so many good times together
r.i.p dad i love you<3
Jennifer Hoffman
February 27, 2011
Scott and Tammy, Karrie and Rick-
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of David. You are in our thoughts and thinking of you all and your entire family. ANYTHING you guys need we are here for you.
Love and Friendship,
Marc and Jennifer Hoffman
Karrie
February 27, 2011
Not sure what to say David. But one thing is for sure I love you and will miss you. Thank goodness you gave us plenty of laughs otherwise I don't think it would be possible to get through this. Love Ya, Your Big Sister Karrie
Chris Gaby
February 27, 2011
Very sad to hear the news.We had some great times 4 wheeling in steeleville years ago. Always made me laugh. Im sure he will be missed.
Sarah Quigley
February 27, 2011
Dear Tormentor of My Youth,
You always had the last laugh. I never thought that I’d be thankful for all the pranks you pulled on me, (from the fake My Size Barbie to the weed eater incident), they give us something to laugh about during the times we need it the most. Beyond your unusual sense of humor, you have given our family other priceless gifts that we will cherish forever. I will always look after Kayla and Owen for you.
February 27, 2011
lynn&dan lappe
February 27, 2011
may you be at peace
lynn&dan lappe
February 27, 2011
we loved very much ,and you will always remain in our hearts. God bless the family we will be keeping all of you in our prayers we love you.
Chris Bartlett
February 27, 2011
So sorry for your loss...David was a great guy....my prayers are with you & your family in your time of need...
February 27, 2011
Shelly,
Words cannot express how sorry I am for you and your entire family. I'm lucky I got to meet David, he was an amazing person.
Brooke Harmony
Jim & Tami Walton-Cogdill
February 27, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jenni Phelps
February 27, 2011
I am in total shock this morning. The Lappe family has my deepest sympathy. May the Lord be with you in this time of need.
God Bless,
Jenni (Barkau)Phelps
Brett Wilcoxson
February 27, 2011
Rest in Peace, David. When I think of how we sat in your basement on Rogers Drive and played Atari as boys, and how you ALWAYS had a Kool-Aid stain on your upper lip as we rode our bikes up and down the street, it is terribly difficult, and painful, to believe you are truly gone. You will always exist in my fondest memories of childhood. To David's family, please accept my sincerest condolences. Warmest regards from your neighbor of many years.
February 26, 2011
We are so Sorry for Your Loss!! David will be miss very much!
Always the life of the party!
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