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Janet Clare Ament Kay

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HERRIN - Janet Clare Ament Kay, 68, passed away at 4:50 p.m. Thursday, Dec. 13, 2007, in Herrin Hospital.

Janet was born April 20, 1939, in Herrin to Carlyle and Mae Kelly (Pace) Ament.

She worked many years at Herrin Hospital as a licensed practical nurse at various hospitals and nursing homes and for Dr. Fine in Herrin. She obtained her master's in social work from Southern Illinois University Carbondale and worked many years as an aftercare specialist and answered the telephones after hours at Johnson-Hughes and Mitchell-Hughes Funeral Homes.

Janet maintained the relationships she made with her "ladies" in her support groups throughout the years at the funeral homes and Herrin First Presbyterian. She enjoyed raising Shih Tzu dogs and spending time with her family.

Survivors include sons, Dennis Kay of Herrin, David Kay and wife, Lori, of Chattanooga, Tenn., and Daniel Kay and wife, Mary Beth, of Herrin; daughter, Diane Kay of Herrin; six grandchildren; brother and sister-in-law, Arthur and Wanieta Ament of Rushville; niece, Kristen Bruns and husband, Bryan, of Frankfort; nephew, Steven Ament and wife, Kristi, of Rushville; cousins, Mildred Oldani of Herrin, Bob Oldani of Herrin and John Biggs of Oklahoma City; and an uncle, Lowell Biggs of Marion.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

A memorial service will be at 3 p.m. Monday, Dec. 17, 2007, in Johnson-Hughes Funeral Home in Herrin, with Brother Zane Neely officiating. Visitation will be from 1 to 3 p.m. Monday at the funeral home.

Janet's wishes were to be cremated and placed with her family in East Lawn Memorial Gardens in Herrin.

For more information or to sign the memorial guest register, visit www.hughes funeralhomes.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Southern Illinoisan from Dec. 15 to Dec. 16, 2007.

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Kim (DeFrank) McCann

December 17, 2007

Although I never got to meet her, I know the wonderful things that Janet did to help get our mother through my dad's passing many years ago. Your family will be in my prayers.

Deana (DeFrank) Smith

December 17, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of Janet's passing. She was a good friend to my mother - Lois DeFrank - when we lost dad several years ago.

I know she will be missed by a great many people in southern Illinois. She has truly touched a lot of hearts. Mine included!

Godspeed.

Lois DeFrank

December 17, 2007

I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing - Janet was a good friend, and there for me many times when needed.

She will be missed!

Bernard Paul

December 16, 2007

Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your beautiful mother. She was an unbeatable, unforgettable spirit and will be sorely missed by all who knew her.

Tom Fowler

December 16, 2007

Diane, I am so sorry for your loss. Janet and I had a wonderful working relationship and she always made me smile

Mary Wells

December 16, 2007

Janet, My beloved best friend. No words can express my sorrow in losing you. All the many years we spent loving each other and loving the beloved Shih Tzu. You shared my views on raising this special bred. No one has ever touch my heart in the way you did. They say we all have a gift to share - this was yours. Your beautiful voice and loving heart. I don't know how I will fill our special times together. I am truly heart broken as I am sure everyone you ever touched is feeling the same. I will wait until we meet again my dear friend. I love and miss you

John,Kim&Tawnie Renfro

December 16, 2007

Dennis and family.Im sorry to here about your mom.She was a good woman from what I remember of her from john a logan. We will miss her.

Lorraine Cronin Phillips

December 15, 2007

Sorry for your loss.

Christi Gunnin

December 15, 2007

Dearest Diane, Dennis, Daniel and David,
I'm still in a state of shock. Janet and I have been best friends for thirty years and God knows I'm going to miss her so much. Know that if you need anything, please don't hesitate to call. I still hear her laughter from just days ago. And then I cry again. God needed another angel and he took the bright star from among us to shine on high. She will be so missed.
Always in my heart,
~Christi

Jeanna Gunnin-Holland

December 15, 2007

I enjoyed your company all the years I knew you. Your laughter was a blessing in Mom and Dad's life, and for years, you were my 'Aunt' Jan, though blood never bound us. I'll miss our conversations over the phone about everything and nothing. Most of all, I'll miss you. Those left behind: I wish I could say something to soothe the pain away, but I know there are no words. All I can offer is my support, and hopeful wishes that you all make it through this okay.

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