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Joy Conley Obituary

WEST FRANKFORT - Joy Elizabeth Conley, 2, ascended to Heaven at 9:15 a.m. Wednesday, Jan. 1, 2014, at Children's Hospital in St. Louis, while cradled in her daddy's arms.

Joy was born to Justin and Nikki (Butler) Conley on Jan. 16, 2011, in Mount Vernon.

She was diagnosed with Leukemia at the age of 5 1/2 months. She underwent two bone marrow transplants, one from her sister. She smiled through it all and had everyone she met wrapped around her finger in no time. She was an amazing two-year-old … sassy and smiling, loving and laughing, patient and fearless. She lived out her name daily.

She will be missed by those she left behind including her father and mother, Justin and Nikki Conley and siblings, Kelsey, Noah, Hannah, and Providence of Macedonia; her grandparents, Rob and Peggy Stanley of West Frankfort, and Frank and Barbara Butler of Macedonia; her uncles, aunts and cousins, Travis and Shauna Curry with Gavin and Emma of Johnston City, and Jason and Jennifer Butler with Sabrina and Riley of Mari-etta, Ga.; her great-grandmother, Mary Ramsey "G-ma Doll" of West Frankfort; and countless others that loved her dearly.

The family expresses, "Yet, we know we will see her again in the arms of our Lord Jesus Christ."

Services will be at 11 a.m. today, Jan. 4, in Second Baptist Church in West Frankfort, with Dr. Brett Beasley officiating. Burial will follow at IOOF Cemetery in Dalhgren. Visitation will be from 9 to 11 a.m. today, Jan. 4, at the church.

Memorials may be made to Children's Hospital in St. Louis or Friends of Kids with Cancer.

Union Funeral Home in West Frankfort is in charge of arrangements.

Online condolences may be made at www.unionfh.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Southern Illinoisan from Jan. 3 to Jan. 4, 2014.

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A Mom

January 18, 2014

I am sorry to hear that your precious child has died. There is not much I can say that will take away the way that you are feeling right now. But I do know that God can help. At Psalm 56:8 David pleaded to God: "Do put my tears in your skin bottle. Are they not in your book? Like David I know that God is aware of your pain and what you are going through emotionally. He will continue to give you what you need to live each day without Joy.

E.W.

January 15, 2014

To lose a child is very difficult but just knowing that other cares may gives some comfort

E.W.

January 15, 2014

To lose a child is very difficult but just knowing that other cares may gives some comfort

Gerald Butler

January 5, 2014

For the little bundle of "Joy" your are Loved so much and will be missed. Love, your Cousins Gerald, Terri, Maegan, Raechel, Angela, Mara, and Daniel Butler.

Heather Gossett

January 4, 2014

God bless you and you are in my prayers. I am so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter.

January 4, 2014

So Sorry God has another little angel He received mine in 1962 Love you all Uncle John & Aunt Sarah

January 4, 2014

Our hearts go out to your family. Our prayers & Love to you.

Reggie & Paula

Mike & Jennifer Eader

January 4, 2014

Justin , Nikki & family -- our thoughts are certainly with you all today & in the days ahead ! We are lifting you all up in prayer as we have been.. We are so encouraged to know that as Christians we will see her again one day ! May Gods comfort be with you today & always ! Mike , Jennifer & Michaela Eader

Tia Dunaway

January 4, 2014

We have been praying for your family and will continue to do so! May God's comfort overwhelm you today and in the days to come.

Paula Gossett

January 4, 2014

Praying the Lord grants you His comfort, peace, and strength today and in the days to come. Love, Paula and John

Mike & Marilyn Anderson

January 4, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May God's grace be with you all during this difficult time.

Joseph&Welheminah Mahlaola

January 4, 2014

Been praying for the Conleys especially swEet Joy ever since doug &Debbie told us about baby Joy. Getting to meet the family especially sweet Joy in August was an honor, from that time onwards when we prayed we could see her pretty face in the back of our minds. May the you find comfort in the LORD who is in control. Love from South Africa

Judi Markwell

January 4, 2014

What an inspiration and a fighter was your precious little girl. "Joy" she gave and "Joy" she has now received. With my heartfelt sympathy to all of you.

Debbie Crawford

January 3, 2014

In her father's arms
Joy lets go
to another Father waiting
In heaven much praising
By faith and ONE DAY sight.
Praying comfort and strength for you all,
Debbie & Doug

Karen Cheatham

January 3, 2014

Iam so sorry of the lost of your Precious Little Angel. She has been a very strong fighter and she has touch so many people. We love her and miss her sadly. I am Keira Jo Allsopp grandma Karen. Have follow her every since met her with Shelly & Keira. May God Bless Your Whole Family.

Fonda Stout-Frantz

January 3, 2014

So sorry for your loss..I dont know you or your family but I feel close to yall as my son Brandon has keep me posted on lil Joy.. My prayer is for Gods conforting hands an prayers to guide you an your family through this journey.. May you find peace in his words an love.. Lil Joy is resting in his arms.. God Bless You an your family.. Your all in my prayers...

Sue Holtz

January 3, 2014

Peggy, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time. God will take care of her now, she is in his hands and no more pain.

Kris Berry Nance

January 3, 2014

Peggy, I am so deeply sorry for your heartbreaking loss. May you find peace and comfort amidst your sorrow. My love and prayers are with all of you.

January 3, 2014

My prayers go out to you for your loss. May you feel God's peace surround you.

Gayla Kain

January 3, 2014

Baby Joy, you are now laying in the arms of our Lord Jesus Christ. What a wonderful place to be!

Doris Hirtz

January 3, 2014

Little Joy, you are now safe at home with Jesus and no more pain. My deepest sympathy to your Mom, Dad and siblings. I will think of you daily.

Cindy McCluskey

January 3, 2014

Peggy, I am so very sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family right now. The loss of child is so difficult and no words can really be said, but Heaven has gained a beautiful little angel. You are all in my thoughts.

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