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A.J. "Abraham Jordan" Coleman III obituary, Decatur, AL

A.J. Coleman Obituary

Abraham Jordan 'A.J.' Coleman III

Decatur

Abraham Jordan "A.J." Coleman III died Thursday, November 8, 2012. He was born to A. J. Coleman Jr. and Sarah Bailey Coleman in

Huntsville on January 22, 1928. The family also lived in Louisville, Kentucky and Jasper before moving to Decatur in 1936. He was preceded in death by his parents; one sister, Sara Coleman Pearce; his brother-in-law, John O. Braswell Jr.; and son, Taylor Jordan Coleman.

He is survived by his wife of 59 years, Shirley Braswell Coleman; son, Brian L. Coleman and wife, Nancy H. Coleman, and grandsons, Taylor and Alec; daughter, Melissa C. Enslen and husband, Alan F. Enslen, and granddaughter, Lindsey and grandson, Wilson; his sister, Anne C. Crane and husband, Gil Crane; and sister-in-law, Jean R. Braswell, as well as many nieces and nephews.

During his early school years in Decatur, A.J. participated in Boy Scouts and was awarded the Eagle Scout badge and was later a member and president of the Order of the Arrow. He graduated from Decatur High School where he participated in various activities including varsity sports. He was

co-captain of Decatur High School's football team his senior year, and also participated in the school band. Upon graduation from high school, he served in the U.S. Army for 18 months, the major portion of which was in Seoul, Korea, where he was a member of the 282nd Army Band. After his

discharge, he attended Auburn University where he played with the Auburn Knights Orchestra. After graduating from Auburn he enrolled in the University of Alabama School of Law where he

was graduated in 1953 and began the practice of law in Decatur.

During his years of private practice, A.J. served as a bankruptcy referee for five years and acted as City Attorney for the City of Decatur for 25 years. He served on the Alabama Board of Bar Commissioners for nine years, and was a member of the American Bar Association, the Alabama and Morgan County Bars, President of the Morgan County Bar in 1959, and was admitted to practice before the U.S. Supreme Court. He also served as a Trustee on the 11th U.S. Circuit Historical

Society for many years, being named Trustee Emeritus in 2010, and was a lifetime member of the Alabama Law Institute. During his course of 56 years as a lawyer, he practiced at various times with Albert Brewer, David Cauthen, David Bibb and Jon Sedlak. At his retirement, he was senior partner in the firm of Coleman & Sedlak.

A.J. was an active member of the Decatur Kiwanis Club from 1953 until his death, having served in several offices in that club, including president in the year 1961. He was also awarded the Kiwanis Lifetime Award in 2008. As co-founder, he served as coordinator of the H.L. Ogle Educational Scholarship Fund. Recently, A.J. was named as the first member of the Shorty's Boys Hall of Fame. Along with his wife, Shirley, and Dr. Tom Salter, he organized a group for grieving parents who had lost children, which later became Compassionate Friends.

He was confirmed in First Presbyterian Church at the age of 12 and remained an active member in that church until his death having served as a deacon, elder and Sunday school teacher. He served

the denomination as a leader of retreats and lay renewal events, and participated in a denominationwide

men's program, having served as president of the Men's Council in 1967. He was a commissioner in 1967 to the General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church in the United States, a member of the Board of Directors of the Louisville Presbyterian Seminary from 1970 to 1974, and a member of the denomination's Permanent Judicial Commission from 1978 through 1984, serving

as chairman of that group for two of those years.

After laying down his horn for 30 years, A.J. joined a group which was to become the Sophisticated Swingers, playing for various public and private events. He also enjoyed playing with the Charlie

Lyle Combo in the Huntsville area.

A,J.'s life objective was to serve justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with his God.

Funeral services will be held today, November 11, 2012, at 3 p.m. at First Presbyterian Church with the Rev. Dr. V. Don Haas officiating. Pallbearers will be Hon. David Bibb, Jon R. Sedlak, Hank Pearce, John Pearce, Tillman Crane and Bailey Crane.

Honorary pallbearers will be John Braswell III, Keith Braswell, Tom Caddell, Joe Moss, Dr. Malcolm Prewitt, Charles Riley and Dick Still.

Visitation will be from 1 to 3 p.m. at the church. Burial will follow in Decatur City Cemetery, Berryhill Funeral Home directing. The family suggests memorials be made to Hospice of the Valley.

This obituary was originally published in the Decatur Daily.

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Published by Decatur Daily from Nov. 10 to Nov. 11, 2012.

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Robert Northington

November 18, 2012

Sad news for me about a WW II buddy from 65+ years ago; Abraham Jordan Coleman & I were buddies in the 282nd AGF Band while in Seoul, Korea. A.J. was a great young man and excellent tenor sax musician. God bless his wife, Shirley, and their family members

Oh death, where is thy sting; Oh Grave, where is your victory ?

November 17, 2012

met A J IN 6TH GRADE OR MAYBE BEFORE, IWAS PROUD TO CALL HIM A FRIEND AND HE WAS A MODEL. SLUG.

Doris and David Nemore

November 12, 2012

David and I are so sad to learn of A.J.'s passing. He leaves a great void in many lives as he was a very special man, generous,loving and caring in every way. As a first cousin, I have many wonderful memories of family gatherings and the love we all shared.

Jim McAllister

November 11, 2012

AJ Coleman was a big man who helped me and my family during difficult times. His heart was broken when Taylor was killed in a car accident, but he showed us (youngsters at the time!) how to face grief. My sympathies to the family.

Jim McAllister

November 11, 2012

I was one of the nurses who had the pleasure of caring for Mr. Coleman prior to his passing. I fell in love with Mr. Coleman and Mrs Shirley, such wonderful, sweet people. I'm so sorry for your loss Mrs. Shirley, my prayers are with you.

Janice Phillips

November 11, 2012

Coleman family we are so sorry to here of Mr A J passing my self Janice and sister Diane feel a part of us is gone we both love Mr and Mrs Coleman dearly our pryers are with you all ( All Care Home Health)

Retired DPD Sgt. Randy Cavnar

November 10, 2012

An Outstanding, professional honorable man. He did good. My prayersare with the family.

Michele Sledge

November 10, 2012

Shirley, I am so sorry to learn of A.J.'s passing, know that I love you and your family very much and you are in my prays.

Betty June Parker

November 10, 2012

A.J. charmed and loved all of us in the class of 1946 and wisely chose Shirley for his life mate. I join all in giving thanks for his good life and for the distinction he brought to everything he did. My love to Shirley and all those who loved A.J. Betty June Parker (and Franklin Parker)

Carmen Callahan

November 10, 2012

Coleman family, please accept my family's sincerest condolences. Mr. Coleman was a man of honor and integrity. He was wise in his both personal and professional life. Mr. Coleman will be sorely missed in Decatur.

Andrea McInnis-Gibson

November 10, 2012

Prayers of comfort and love for the Coleman family upon the death of Mr. Coleman. I have very fond memories of him as a neighbor growing up in Decatur. Knowing he is with the Lord is some comfort. Blessings to you all~

Lynn Shealy

November 10, 2012

Dear Shirley, Anne, Gil & families. I am so saddened to read of A.J.'s passing. He was a such a joy to know and a dear friend to all.
My love & blessings,
Ruth Lynn (Ratliff) Shealy

November 10, 2012

Shirley, You and in our prayers and thoughts. we love you both so much and will miss AJ terribly.
Love Betty and Chuck

Pat and Houston Hodges

November 10, 2012

Oh, my! A.J. and Shirley have been cornerstones of the North Alabama Presbytery of the PCUSA, and in many other organizations for good in the world. Pat and I grieve with many others we'll never see or ever know.

November 10, 2012

Certainly sorry to read of Mr. Coleman's death. I enjoyed his friendship and appreciated his support as well as that of the entire family while in Decatur. I will be thinking of you during the days ahead.

Richard Pace
Hoover,AL

November 10, 2012

Shirley,What a great,great person A.J.was.My prayers and sympathy are with you. Bill Crutcher

Johnny & Doris Tuten

November 10, 2012

We are so sorry to hear about A.J. Please know we are thinking of you

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