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Mary Bissett Obituary

Mary Helen Bissett CHARLESTON - Mary Helen Bissett, 60, of Charleston, South Carolina, passed away Monday, August 20, 2012, following complications from bi-pass surgery. Her funeral service will be held in J. HENRY STUHR, INC., DOWNTOWN CHAPEL Friday, August 24, 2012 at 11:00 am . The burial will be a private. The family will receive friends at Stuhr's, Thursday between 5:00 and 7:00 pm. Mary was born December 31, 1951 in Columbia, South Carolina, the daughter of Thomas Jefferson Bissett and Hazel Appleby Bissett. She received her Masters Degree in Architecture from Clemson University in 1976. She worked in Washington, DC and New York City for 15 years, living in Columbia, SC for several years and moving to Charleston in 1999. She loved living in downtown Charleston with her soul mate Jefferson, a West Highland Terrier, She is survived by her two sisters, Marion O. Bissett of Salem, AL and Becky B. Wyffels (Tom) of Marshall, MN, numerous cousins, friends and her many dog friends. Memorials may be made to Pet Helpers, 1447 Folly Road, Charleston, SC 29412 or to Southern Poverty Law Center, 400 Washington Avenue, P.O. Box 548, Montgomery, AL 36177-9621. A memorial message may be sent to the family by visiting our website at www.jhenrystuhr.com.

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Published by The State on Aug. 22, 2012.

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Marisa Hedlund

September 13, 2012

I'm so saddened to hear about Mary. She was a wonderful lady and always greeted everyone (especially the dogs) with a big smile and friendly words. I know she's up there sharing her love with all the animals that have crossed over the bridge. My heartfelt condolences to Jefferson and the rest of her family and friends.

Gayle Brooker Wilkinson

August 28, 2012

I was so sorry to hear about Mary. I knew her from the neighborhood and the dog park. I can still see her sitting in the grass and calling my dog's name with such happiness. She will truly be missed.

Beverly Ballard Catoe

August 26, 2012

I'm just finding out about Mary's passing.. and am so sad to hear this. I remember fun times from high school and what a great person Mary was. My prayers go out to her family. May you know God's peace in the days ahead. Sincerely, Beverly Ballard Catoe, Dreher High School Class of 1970

Susan Hitchcock

August 25, 2012

So sorry to hear about this. I remember that wonderful house on Lakeshore Drive when we were growing up in Columbia. I reconnected with Mary quite a few years ago but had not seen her in an age. She was a wonderful person.

Frank Cannavo

August 24, 2012

Mary was a wonderful woman. He generousity of spirit and love were over abundant. She was my dearest friend for the past 30 years.
She had such style and grace.
Occasionally I get to pass Port Liberte, a complex she designed in New Jersey, and I marvel at her talent as an architect.
Mary,build your castles in heaven. Love you madly...and forever.

Barbara McCall

August 23, 2012

I will never forget the years spent in Columbia with Mary and her sweet mom, Hazel and the fun times I had with Mary and Jefferson in Charleston. Love to all. Barbara

Becky Peters

August 23, 2012

I have always admired Mary's intelligence,forward thinking and spirit. She will not be forgotten.

Walter Duane

August 23, 2012

My sympathy to the family. I will miss seeing her walking her dog Jefferson.

Joanna Greene

August 23, 2012

Mary was one of those oh, too rare people whose name one doesn't forget. I can still remember the evening I met her.. at California Dreaming restaurant. I was immediately intrigued by her air of bohemianism and her wide-ranging ideas. It was only later that I came to appreciate her generosity and warmth. The world is a poorer place without her. May she rest in peace.

Fredi Fulmer

August 22, 2012

I am so sad to hear about Mary's death. She was a wonderful friend , who I will always fondly remember. My thoughts are with Marion and Becky.

August 22, 2012

So sorry to hear of Mary's passing. I only knew her in grade school and remember her love for animals and her artistic abilities. Had hoped to catch up with her at a reunion a couple of years ago but that didn't work out. I wish I had known you were in Charleston since 1999, but unfortunately didn't find out until tonight. How easy it would have been to see you if I had only known, as I am in Charleston often. Bless you for your work with animals.

Gary Bell

August 22, 2012

I am sorry to hear about Mary.I remember her from many years ago when my dad flew for the company.I will keep her family in my thoughts.

Jan Jernigan

August 22, 2012

Mary was such a wonderful, talented person. I loved spending time with her at the beautiful home on Lakeshore Drive when we were young. What a great friend she was to so many! We shared our love of animals. She made such a positive difference in my life and she will truly be missed. My heart goes out to her family.

August 22, 2012

I will always remember Mary when I look out on the dog park where so many times, Rosie and I would join her. Seems that Rosie always knew when she and Jefferson were in the park. Mary was a bright spot in our lives and truly a dog whisperer. My sympathy to her family and Jefferson. May she rest in peace near Rainbow Bridge. Kate Dolan

Caroline Petty

August 22, 2012

I so loved Mary and am very saddened by this news. I remember her as being very bright and enthusiastic about everything. Very fond memories. Rest in peace!

Caroline Petty
Class of 1970

Sallie Hook Boggs

August 22, 2012

I was so saddened to learn of Mary's death. Family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. Sallie Hook Boggs, Dreher High School Class of 1970

Rick McElroy

August 22, 2012

This is very sad for me. I thought a good many times about how I hoped (and expected) that we'd reconnect at some point, but no luck with the earthly meeting. And, with 2 sons in Charleston since 2005, and me there as recently as 8/12, I could have found you so easily, if only I'd had sense enough to remember you lived there. Love, Rick

Mary Lynn Stricklin Connelly

August 22, 2012

Becky & Marion,
Pudge Clarke called me this morning and told me about Mary's passing. I am so very sorry.
Mary was such a cute kid and did such a beautiful job on Rose Hill Presbyterian Church. What a great legacy.
Mary Lynn Stricklin Connelly
Greensboro, NC

Mary and the Boys

Elizabeth McLendon

August 22, 2012

Dear sweet Mary, I know you are relaxing now with our little angel, Buddy. He is bursting with adoration and you're cooing to him and handing him treats. I miss you both so much. Thank you for the fun visit in July. My new little one, AElfie, is so glad to have met you and Gandalf was glad to play with Jeffie again. PS - Gandalf promises not to steal any of Jeffie's bones (when Jeffie's looking, that is!). Love, Elizabeth

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