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Ruby Brabham Obituary

ALLENDALE - Ruby Berry Brabham, 99, widow of the late Tommie H. Brabham, died Sunday, May 16, 2010.

Mrs. Brabham was born November, 23, 1910, in Orangeburg County near Neeses, SC, a daughter of the late John H. and Ida Sturkie Berry. She was a graduate of Furman University, taught school for over 33 years and an active member of Allendale First Baptist Church.

Funeral service will be 11:00 a.m. Friday, May 21, 2010, at Allendale First Baptist Church with the Rev. Chip Reeves and Dr. Charles Hattaway officiating. Interment will follow in Swallow Savannah Cemetery.

Survivors include one daughter, Joan Brabham Lee of Leesburg, FL; grandchildren, Gail Laughner (Bobby), Wayne Lee (Andrea), Rex Lee (Duree) and Beth Lee Cripe (Fred); great grandchildren, Robert and Ryan Laughner and Joshua and Zachary Lee; three great-great-grandchildren; nephew and niece, Kenneth B. Hansen Sr. and Iris H. O' Neal. She was predeceased by one siste,r Beulah Berry Hansen.

The family will receive friends from 10 to 11a.m. Friday at Allendale First Baptist Church.

Memorial contributions may be made to Allendale First Baptist Church Youth, 259 Memorial Ave., Allendale, SC 29810.

Keith Smith Funeral Service, 128 Water Street, Allendale, SC 29810. (803-584-2492)

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Published by The State on May 19, 2010.

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May 21, 2010

WE WERE IN MRS. BRABHAM'S 7TH GRADE CLASS. SHE WAS LOVED BY ALL OF US.
MARY EDNA OSWALD CURTIS
CAMILLE HEWLETT WYMAN
JEANIE DICKINSON KNAPP

May 19, 2010

We loved Mrs. Ruby very much. I know that she is happy that she is with her Lord and Savior and of course Mr. Tommie. She and Mr. Tommie will both hold a very special place in my heart for all the love and kindness that showed to my family in diffucult times. You my friend, will be truly missed. With God's unending love, Mike and Cheryl Close, Stephen and Ashleigh (Allendale, SC)

Mary Nita Allen Dietz

May 19, 2010

Mrs. Brabham instilled in us a desire to achieve. She was a tough teacher, always pushing us to do our best. Underneath that tough exterior was a warm, loving, and caring person who, after having many conversations with her when I was grown, loved all her "children" dearly. She was a Christian woman who dedicated her life to her students, not only in school, but in Church as well. I will miss her very much, but I will always carry her memory with me.
Mary Nita Allen Dietz

Carolyn Lewis Williams

May 19, 2010

I graduated with a MS in Mathematics from Clemson, but the best math teacher I ever had was Ms. Brabham. She serves as a role model of what a teacher should be-professional and firm but caring with the ultimate goal being that a child had learned when the child left her classroom. I wish my children had had someone like her to teach them. My condolences and prayers are with her family as we have truly lost a wonderful lady and teacher.

Ben Kinlaw

May 19, 2010

A special thanks Mrs. Brabham for her many dedicated years of teaching. We extend our deepest sympathies to her family and they remain in our thoughts and prayers.

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