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Tony Cotten Obituary
Tony married Tina Wilhite on June 15, 1991 at their home in Crawfordsville. A devoted husband and proud father, his greatest joy was encouraging his children in their academic, athletic, extracurricular and professional lives; and watching his grandchildren grow in his loving family. In his career, Tony thrived in any environment and made a positive impression on many as a teacher, coach and manager in various roles. He became a talented journalist and author, and a passionate and innovative entrepreneur.
Tony was the CEO and owner of Tenacity, Inc., and founded the Sun Times and The Daily Sun in Boone County, Ind. In 2010, he became publisher of The Oldham Era, serving Oldham County and La Grange, Ky. He is the author of "Horseshoes and Hand Grenades: An Entrepreneur's Close Call with Big Business." Under his leadership, Tony's newspapers won numerous Hoosier State Press Association and Kentucky Press Association awards. He was equal parts commander, mentor and friend to his staffs, and a tireless volunteer, promoter, sponsor and donor to causes in the communities where his newspapers circulated. Tony was also an ordained minister with the African Methodist Episcopal Church, and preached regularly at Bethel AME Church in Crawfordsville.
Tony rooted for the underdog, championed the small business owner and looked first for stories that inspired. He knew everyone had a story to tell, and his own was extraordinary. He relished the quest for "the best pizza" and other culinary treasures, and found them small-town cafés and diners. He embraced a good challenge and successfully lobbied for a change in Indiana state code that affected newspapers. He battled cancer through American Cancer Society Relay For Life events in two states – long before his own diagnosis.
In addition to wife Tina, survivors include his children, Courtny (Samantha) Cotten, Carmel, Ind.; Trace (Gary) Cotten, Indianapolis; Kimberly (Scott) Elmore, Berea; KC McCandless, Crawfordsville; and Levi (Erin) McCandless, of Crawfordsville; a brother, Lari Cotten of Crawfordsville, Ind.; and grandchildren Aaliyah, Noah, Jonah and Isaiah Elmore; Lillyan and Eva McCandless; and Ella and Lauren Arthur. Another grandchild, "Baby Cotten," is due in October 2013.
Tony was preceded in death by one grandson, Dylan.
Services were Tuesday, May 14, at Woodland Heights Christian Church in Crawfordsville, Ind. The body was buried at Freedom Cemetery in Waveland, Ind.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to American CancerSociety Relay For Life.
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Ashleigh (Casazza) Schrodi
June 4, 2013
Tony was an amazing leader, mentor, and friend. He taught me so much and encouraged me through some of the hardest times in my life. He challenged me and made me a better person. I am blessed to have known him. You all are in my prayers.
Class of 2000 graduation Southmont High School.
Jennifer VanCleave
May 15, 2013
Tony is one of the most amazing guys I have ever met! He taught me so much! I enjoyed having him as a friend, coach, teacher, and mentor! Tony touched and shaped many lives! I am very thankful for the time I had with Tony! Until we meet again RIP my good friend!
Cynthia Stafford
May 14, 2013
I am thankful that Tony came to LaGrange. I appreciate his contribution to our betterment. God bless him and his family.
Kathleen Waters
May 13, 2013
To the Cotton family, I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you and yours in my prayers.
I had the pleasure of meeting Tony at various events around town. He was always so full of joy and enthusiasm. I especially loved reading his editorials in the newspaper. He had a great sense of humor and quick wit that came through his words. It's sad that such a bright shining light has moved on. I know the Angels will welcome him with open arms!
Gale Cox
May 13, 2013
Our deepest sympathy to the Cotten Family. Loved Tony's passion and enthusiasm for everything he pursued, and our community has lost a dedicated advocate. Rest in peace, Tony!
Kelly Stubblefield (Rector)
May 13, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of Tony's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I remember playing with Tony when we were little kids. He lived accross the street from my grandparents HK and Betty Rector.
Steven Burgin
May 12, 2013
Tina , so sorry to hear about your husband pass away ,If you need at anything I am here for you .Just call let me know .Jim said the same thing if you need any help just call us we be there for you , I miss your smile face at work , Just look up my friend
Gretchen Graham Lightfoot
May 12, 2013
There are no words that can express how sorry I was to learn of Tony's passing. I send my deepest condolences to the family and, as requested, have made a donation in Tony's memory to the American Cancer Society in La Grange, KY. I know Tony will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time.
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