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Westerly, Rhode Island

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Jul. 20, 2025

1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

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Nicholas Longo Obituary

WESTERLY - Nicholas V. Longo, beloved husband of Paula Longo, passed on July 15, 2025 at the age of 82. For over sixty years, after being set up on a blind date, Nick and Paula shared more than the greatest love the world has known.

The son of Italian-American immigrants, the late Cosmo and Antoinette Longo, he was born in the Bronx where he attended Mount St. Michael and Fordham University. An eloquent communicator from a young age, he excelled at debate and theater. Throughout his life, he loved telling stories about Sunday dinners with his cousins, playing stickball, spending summers working at Freedom Land, and driving his Chevy Impala (his first of many convertibles).

He moved to Yonkers in the late 1960s. His passion for making a difference inspired him to spend the next decades as a skilled politician and dedicated public servant. He served on the Yonkers City Council for 16 years, including as Vice Mayor and Majority Leader where he was recognized for his work ethic and courageous leadership. He was also an Administrator for the County of Westchester for over 30 years, a small business owner, and the Teamsters Public Sector Representative. He was a founding member of the local Sons of Italy, served on boards promoting economic development, and spent much of his free time playing racquetball and watching his Amazin Mets.

He brought his charisma, playfulness, and generosity to all aspects of his life. He was never short of light hearted teasing or a witty retort. He retired to his home away from home in Westerly, RI where he enjoyed pickleball, walks on the beach, hosting family and friends, and spoiling his beloved dog, Bella.

Nick deeply loved his three children, Anna Marie Longo (Angus Cleland) of St. Helena, CA, Alison Longo (David Bilotto) of Westerly, RI, and Nicholas V. Longo, Jr. (Aleida Benitez) of Providence, RI. His greatest joy was being Pop Pop and he was immensely proud of his five grandchildren: David Nicholas, Luciano Paul, Maya Paula, Connor Cosmo and Noah Nicholas.

A celebration of his life will be held at Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce St., Westerly with visiting hours on Sunday, July 20th from 1pm 4 pm. Family and friends are also invited to attend a Mass of the Christian Burial at 10 am on Monday, July 21st at Immaculate Conception Church, 111 High St., Westerly, where he was a devoted parishioner.

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Published by The Westerly Sun on Jul. 18, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Nicholas Longo

Jul

20

Visitation

1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home

59 Spruce St, Westerly, RI

Jul

21

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Immaculate Conception Church

111 High St, Westerly, RI

Funeral services provided by:

Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home - Westerly

59 Spruce Street, Westerly, RI 02891

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Tom and Carol Doherty

Sent Sympathy Gifts including Flowers

Madaline Harris-Warren

Yesterday

To Nick's family, May God Bless you all. Nick was one of our pickleball buds. It was always nice to see his happy face.
RIP Nick.

Single Memorial Tree

Audrey and Herb Wyman

Sent Sympathy Gifts including Trees

Denise Fusaro

Yesterday

My deepest sympathies to the Longo family.

Carmella Palladino

Yesterday

Rest In Heavenly Peace Forever Nick... Memories of us growing up together will remain in my Heart Forever.. My Heart is Broken... May Our Lord keep you close to him for Eternity... Paula. Nick will always be by your side and continue to watch over you and your family... Love you Nicky!!! Until we meet again...

Bob and Judi

Yesterday

In the theatre of life you had the lead role...at heaven´s table you will tolerate garlic and onions...how much you will be missed is incalculable. You left us beauty and grace in Paula and your children and their families. RIP NVL.

Linda Squillante

Yesterday

Dear Paula and Family,
Thinking of you and sending God´s love and healing prayers. May your wonderful memories be a lasting comfort to you all.
Love, cousin Linda

Dr. Niel

Yesterday

From your brother (from another mother)
Rest in Peace in the arms of Jesus. Amen.
Love, Niel

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