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Jeremy B. Selvage
Jeremy B. Selvage passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on February 5, 2004 at the age of 29. Jeremy was born on September 4, 1974 in Eureka. He was a lifelong resident of Humboldt County. Jeremy attended St. Bernard Elementary School, Winship Junior High School and graduated from Eureka High School in 1993. He was active as a player in Little League baseball and Pop Warner football. He was employed as a cashier at Costco where he very much enjoyed working with and helping others. Jeremy loved to “hang out” with his daughter Myranda, go camping and fishing with his buddies and was an avid ‘49ers fan. He was amazed and very grateful for the kindness and support of his co-workers at Costco during Myranda’s recent hospitalizations. He left us too soon and will be greatly missed.
Jeremy is survived by the love of his life and his best friend, Myranda Kelli, and her mother Karen Selvage of Eureka; his parents, Jack and Leslie Selvage of Eureka; his brothers, John, wife Terri and their daughter Natalie of Windsor, and Jason, wife Kristen and their daughter Jena of Rohnert Park. He is also survived by his grandmothers, Marie Jacob of Ferndale and June Kogeler of Eureka; aunts, Marilyn Mathews of Chico and Kathy Pitlock of Willow Creek; uncles, Craig Jacob of Carlotta and Don Jacob and wife Nancy of Poughkeepsie, New York; and numerous cousins. He was preceded in death by his grandfather Edward Selvage and grandma Gladys Selvage, his uncle Jerry Selvage and his cousin Kenneth Selvage.
There will be a memorial service celebrating Jeremy’s life at Pierce Mortuary Chapel in Eureka on Monday February 9th at 2:00pm and visitation will be in the morning from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Myranda Kelli Selvage in a beneficiary account that has been established at Six Rivers Bank, 402 E Street, Eureka, CA 95501. Contributions in memory of Jeremy Selvage can also be sent to the Lucile Packard Foundation for Children’s Health, 770 Welch Road, Palo Alto, CA 94304. Our family wishes to thank both the Costco Company and staff for their kind, caring and timely assistance during a difficult time.
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for Jeremy Selvage
Phil and Andrea Becker
March 7, 2004
My husband and I first met Jeremy at when we worked together at Costco. What brought us closer, was our first born children were born less than one day apart. Our dear friends, Steve and Jennifer Shick (Costco Employees) called us with the heartbreaking news that Jeremy had passed away. My first thought was of his smile. So open, and warm, and welcoming. He always had such a disarming way of making someone feel welcome. Although we worked with him for only 3 years, we thought of him often. We had only the week before, found the newspaper article announcing Myranda's birth, with our daughters, Alyssa, underneath, and thought about Jeremy. What a pleasure he was, and a kind spirit. We hope there will be a small comfort in knowing that he will be thought of and remembered in the future. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and Myranda and her Mom.
Sincerely,
Phil, Andrea, Alyssa and Lauren Becker
Chuck Horne
February 21, 2004
Dear Jack and Leslie,
I have been stunned, numb and in shock since I received the saddest phone call of my life. I have been looking at reminders of a much happier time; the invitation to Jeremy and Karen's wedding. I was so honored to walk my daughter down the asile to give her away to your son in October of 1998. That was a beautiful day where I gained a son and such a heart-felt invitation to join your family. I don't think anyone knows the amount of time Jeremy and I spent talking and I know he loved his family. There was a time we spoke and he said he would like to consider me part of his family forever and I told him we all became family on their wedding day and in my mind that will never change. I have one memory that defines what family is all about. I don't remember exactly what day it was but so many of us all connected through our love for Myranda were at the hospital at Stanford and I'm so happy I had a chance to see him and talk to him. Many times I told him I was proud to be a part of his and your family and that will never change. I will call you soon and we can share more memories and prayers for both Jeremy and Myranda. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Slade
February 17, 2004
I received the news about the loss of your beloved son, Jeremy. My sweet grand daughter, April, called me. She and Jermey had remained good friends over the years. Words can never express or ease your pain. All one can do is go on and always remember the great times. Love and support one an other. Sincerely, Barb Slade
Tawnya Taylor
February 16, 2004
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I attended High School with Jeremy and I will always remember what a fun person he was. I will miss seeing his smile when I go to Costco. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Rhonda Darst
February 16, 2004
Dear Selvage Family Iam so sorry to hear about Jeremy I always enjoyed going thru his line at Costco All our thougts and prayers are with all of you at this time Take care Love Rhonda {Combs} Darst
dave and tina marie Metheny
February 15, 2004
were so sorry for your great loss of a son. thinking of you the Methenys
juanita scott
February 14, 2004
Dear
Leslie,Jack,John,and Jason,
My family was shocked to hear about Jeremy,he was taken far too soon. Our prayers are with your family, especially Myranda, in this unbearable time. Take comfort that Myranda now has a fulltime guardian angel,and he can watch over her every second.
I grew up around the corner in Cutten with your family. Jeremy was always so kind and a great friend. I remember the birthday parties and numerous sleepovers,and getting in trouble together. Jeremy was always the good kid,though-that had to be home before the street lights came on.(smile) My brother,Bobby and I loved Jeremy like family and we will miss him. Bobby has managed to stay close to Jeremy, visiting him at his home recently,in Cutten. I would always look forward to seeing Jeremy on my trips to CostCo,he was always smiling and he made it contageous. I would see him around town and we would catch up. He was such a caring and great person,whom we were all lucky to have shared a part of our lives with. He will be remebered and honored in the hearts of so many.
May God bless your family and everyone else grieving this great lose.
Our Deepest Sympathies,
Keith,Linda,Bobby,and Juanita Scott
Schick Family
February 14, 2004
To The Selvage Family,
My deepest sympathies during this difficult time. My husband and I work at Costco and will remember his smile and love for his baby girl. A few days before he passed I saw him with a huge grin on his face. He was holding Myranda while cashiering. He then turned to her and kissed her very sweetly. I thought to myself what a great dad.
He will be greatly missed.
Ryan Maffia
February 14, 2004
Wishing your family the very best in your time of need. One word describes Jermey....Unforgetable.
Carroll & Donna Frizzell
February 14, 2004
Dear Jack, Leslie, John & Jason,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family.
The Frizzell family, Carroll, Donna, Jeff and Jill
Louise Smith
February 13, 2004
Dear Jack, Leslie, Jason and John
With sincerity from the heart, prayers are sent for you and Jeremy's daughter, Myranda. Tears and time will ease the pain. Knowing that Jeremy is always with you and Myranda, will take the darkness away and turn it into light.
Compassionately,
Louis e H. Smith
JoAnn Benge
February 13, 2004
I am so sorry for your loss. Jeremy always had a mischievous grin that could light up a room and I will miss standing in his line at Costco. My husband and I first met Jeremy 6 years ago at Ruth Lake. He was so fun-loving! Our deepest sympathies to your family.
Yolanda Nickerson-Lewis
February 12, 2004
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I will always remember Jeremy from high school, he had a wonderful spirit. God Bless your family
Cindy Trobitz-Thomas
February 12, 2004
The Sevage Family:
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. You must be proud of Jeremy and how much he was loved by so many people.
His memory will go on in the hearts and minds of those he touched.
Betsy Chick (Brown)
February 12, 2004
Jack and Leslie,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I did not know Jeremy well, except I feel like I did because Mom always kept me updated on all your boys. Your family are in my prayers. God Bless,
Betsy
Greg Horne
February 11, 2004
Dear Selvage Family,
Growing up down the street from your family I can fondly remember hanging out with Jeremy and Jason. Both at your home and at SBE. As our lives went on we lost contact but when I moved back to Arcata Jeremy and I had a chance to catch up and he always had a smile to give. I am so sorry for your loss and no words I can give will ease your pain, All I can say is that your son was truly loved and will be deeply missed. God bless.
Tim LaLonde
February 11, 2004
It has been many years since I have seen Jeremy, but I do remember running around SBES playing all those kid's games that he seemed to be so good at. I am deeply touched by his memory and will not forget him, his family, or his smile.
Jim and Pattie Buck
February 11, 2004
This is so hard as a parent knowing that Jeremy was taken much to young. Just want you to know that our hearts go out to you and that the Lord will help heal the hurt you must be feeling in time. Although I know that your lives have changed forever and that Jeremy will forever be missed dearly. He was a wonderful young man and father, we will miss his bright eyes and big smiles he always seem to have when we saw him. We can still remember that great little leauge player and Babe Ruth baseball kid!....Always a pleasure to watch.... Please know that we send our deepest sympathy and our thoughts and prayers are with you all and especially his dear little girl. Sincerely, Jim and Pattie Buck
Didi Stradiota (McIntyre)
February 11, 2004
It seems like just yesterday that we were in Ms. Overturf's kindergarten class, followed by eight years at St. Bernard's, then onto our years at Eureka High, and finally our few encounters at Ruth Lake. There are people in each of our lives that will never be forgotten because of who they were as a person. Jeremy was always full of life, laughter, and happiness. I will always remember him that way. My deepest condolences to the Selvage family and to Karen and Myranda. My prayers are with you all.
Jerry Ficklin
February 11, 2004
Dear Jack and Leslie
I can’t begin to imagine the anguish you are suffering with the loss of Jeremy. It has been years and years since I last saw him, but I will always cherish the sparkle of life and joy that was Jeremy and is my memory.
Jerry and Polly Vickers
February 11, 2004
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We will never forget Jeremys smile or the good times we had with him over the years. God bless all of you.
Kathy Motherwell
February 11, 2004
Selvage family: I want you to know that my heart is heavy for you at this time, but I put you in God's hands and know that HE will comfort you in your sorrow. God Bless and keep you all in the palm of his hand and show you the way from here. Jeremy was a great guy and will missed by all who knew him. I think he is one of those special people that you have to feel privileged to have known if only for the short time he was lent to us. My love and prayers to you. Kathy
Bitia Cruz-Carr
February 10, 2004
I attended Winship and EHS with Jeremy and we both had our daughters with in a week or two of eachother. My Prayers go to the family and especially to Myranda. God bless you all. Love, Bitia
Rebekah Jaramillo
February 10, 2004
The Selvage Family,
Please know my thoughts are with you during this time. I vividly remember Jeremy from my childhood...old company picnics, trips to Ruth Lake, and St. Bernard's...I'm so sorry for your loss.
Brad Conners
February 10, 2004
I will always remember Jeremy as a great guy and a great friend. I'm glad I was able to touch base with him at our reunion this summer. My deepest sympathies and condolences.
geoff angell
February 10, 2004
To the Selvage Family: I was shocked to hear of your sudden loss and wish to send my best wishes to your entire family.
Mike Goldsby
February 10, 2004
I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I hope that time and prayers can help you heal.
Toni Bohlinger
February 10, 2004
I will miss his jokes, and laughter, and what name he was going to call me that day (in a joking way)from Toni, a.k.a Toni with an "I", "Toni Soprano", he will be missed.
Amy Payne
February 10, 2004
To the Selvage Family:
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I grew up in Cutten and remember the Selvage boys quite well. My heart goes out to you and your family and Myranda. God Bless you all!
Amy Myers Payne
Mike Tierney
February 10, 2004
Dear Leslie, Jack, John and Jason,
As with everyone, I was deeply saddened by the passing of Jeremy. In our time, we were the greatest of friends- inseparable. I will never forget the sleep-overs and camping trips to Ruth Lake. Even though we hadn´t seen each other much later on, those few chance meetings were always happy surprises for both. He had such a classic,unforgettable smile and laugh. He and his family will always be in my prayers. With love always, your friend, Mike Tierney
Jeff Jacobs
February 10, 2004
Dear Selvage family:
My condolences and prayers on the sudden loss of Jeremy. I knew him when he was a young boy at SBES and I was at SB high. I've been through his check out line many times at Costco. He always had a smile on his face and a pleasant greeting.
God Bless you,
Deacon Jeff Jacobs
Diane & Patrick Bent
February 10, 2004
Growing up Jeremy was friends with our daughters, Chelsea & Courtney, but grew to be our friend too. Yesterdays service was a testimony of what a wonderful person Jeremy was-he touched the hearts of so many people. He will be missed, but heaven is a much happier place with Jeremy there.
DIANA LOPEZ-ROCHA
February 10, 2004
Dear Selvage Family, I am truly sorry for your loss. I met Jeremy this summer,Myranda was on my daughters soccer team. What a great dad. I then would see him at Costco where we would always talk and we came to find out its a small world his brother Jason was a friend of mine in high school. I just want you to know how much I admired him and enjoyed his personality. You did a wonderful job as parents and siblings. He will be truly missed. My prayers are with Myranda.
Aaron Benefield
February 10, 2004
Selvage Family,
I was truly saddened to learn of Jeremy. Even though we had not spoken since elementary school, I always counted him among my friends. I have always had good memories of him and our time at St. Bernard’s Elementary School.
My wife and I will keep you and your family in our prayers in this time of need.
John Williams
February 10, 2004
My thoughts and sympathies go out to the Selvage family.
Roy & Virginia Smith
February 10, 2004
Dear Jack & Leslie
Our thoughts and Prayer are with you and your family.
Joe, Barbara and Alexandra Baird
February 9, 2004
Jack, Leslie, John, Jason and Family, You are all in our daily prayers and also in our hearts. We feel your loss and only hope the memories of such a wonderful son, brother, father and friend will comfort you always. So much love to all of you.
MARK MELTON
February 9, 2004
I HAVE KNOWN JEREMY FOR MANY YEARS. HE WAS A GREAT GUY. ALWAYS HAD A SMILE FOR EVERYONE. MY BROTHER CLINT AND I USED TO PLAY BALL WITH ALL THE GUYS. WHAT A GREAT TIME WE HAD. HE WILL BE SO MISSED. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL. MARK AND CLINT MELTON
Gina Bondi
February 9, 2004
I have known Jeremy since the early days of St. Bernards Elementry School. I have many memories of growing up together. Jerremy was always making people laugh. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Gina Bondi
Ed and Susie Esty
February 9, 2004
Dear Jack, Leslie and family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most sad time. We just wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you.
Always,
Ed and Nancy Guy
February 9, 2004
With our deepest sympathy.
Tony Giraud
February 9, 2004
Jack, Leslie, John & Jason,
We wanted to let you know how sorry we are about Jeremy. We attended the celebration today and had many fond memories of great summers at Ruth Lake. We are blessed to have friends like your family and we will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. All of us wish the very best for Myranda and she is very lucky to have such a loving family.
Love, Tony, Jeny, Isabella & Grace Giraud
Mike & Laura Cent
February 9, 2004
Dear Jack & Leslie,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lisa Lorenzen
February 9, 2004
Dear Sevage Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son, brother, father, friend. I first met Jeremy when his daughter was diagnosed with cystic fibrosis. My daughter too has CF. From then on I looked forward to exchanging how our children were doing every time I went to Costco. It seems one of us was always cheering the other one up! It is very sad for our family to loose one of our "CF Family" members from our small community. Jeremy will be greatly missed. I send your family the strength to get through this very difficult time.
Stella Huffer
February 9, 2004
My dear Leslie and Jack,
I cannot begin to express the sorrow I feel for you and your family with the loss of your child. I am praying for all of you. I love you both. Stella
Beverly Edeline Harned
February 9, 2004
Jack, Leslie, and family, I was so saddened by the news of the loss of your son. No words can express how very sorry I am. May God give you strength at this time.
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Dennis and Catherine McClelland
February 9, 2004
Dear Jack and Leslie,
It was with extreme sadness that we learned about Jeremy. He has been in our life since kindergarten at St. Bernard's, playing soccer in our front yard, as a student at Winship, and his progress to a loving caring adult in our community. We will always remember him with great fondness. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family during this very difficult time.
Diana Rocha
February 9, 2004
The Selvage Family, I am so sorry. Please know that you are in my prayer's. God Bless you all.
Pam Dubaldi
February 9, 2004
To Jeremys family:
Please accept my condolenses on the sudden death of Jeremy. I met and knew him from High School, where he was known for his laughter and "good time" spirit. He was one of those guys you enjoy seeing around town or at Costco since we've been out of school. I wish his family peace during this hard time. Please know that the Class of 93, including myself, will keep his memory alive and remember him always.
Honeycutt Curtis&Carol
February 9, 2004
Our thoughts are with you. Wefill as if we have also lost a member of our own family. Curtis&Carol Honeycutt
Michael Barber
February 9, 2004
I was a classmate of Jeremy's in high school. I enjoyed seeing him at Costco, we were able to keep in touch that way. He was always happy. He will truly be missed.
Bill, Marge and Christopher Crichton
February 9, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Scott Baker
February 9, 2004
In April of 1980 my family relocated to California. The Selvages were our next door neighbors and Jeremy my first friend in Cutten. Though I have not seen him in years I have always remembered Jeremy and his family with fondness. Being a father myself, my heart goes out to his wife and child and I grieve for their loss. I am extremely saddened to hear of Jeremy’s passing and I would like his family to know they are all in my thoughts.
Steve Jackson
February 9, 2004
Jeremy was a good person and a great friend. He will be missed.
Patricia Noel
February 9, 2004
Our Class of 1993 will miss Jeremy greatly. Can't wait to see you in Heaven
Love
Trish
Raedelle Miller
February 9, 2004
Dear Leslie and Jack,
You and your family are in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.
RONEY TEMPLE
February 9, 2004
Jeremy will be missed. A great friend in High School and a loveing father. I only wish I was there to pay my respect. May the lord bless his family through this hard time. God bless.
Deborah Henry
February 9, 2004
Leslie - I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family.
Kathie Hamilton Gentry
February 9, 2004
Dear Leslie, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My heart is broken for you. Kathie
Hilfiker Retaining Walls
February 9, 2004
Deepest sympathy from everyone at The Hilfiker Company.
Brent & Pamela Taylor
February 9, 2004
Jack and Leslie, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Suzanne has told me much about Jeremy. He was an outstanding individual, son and father. We wish the best for you and his daughter Myranda.
We met you both at the Hilfiker 100 year party.
Brent and Pam Taylor
Hilfiker Regional Rep.
Mike and Carol Combs
February 9, 2004
Our thoughts are with you and your families. Lv The Combs family
Jolene Prosser
February 9, 2004
I went to Winship and to Eureka High with Jeremy. He was such an awesome, caring person who always shared laughter with others. I remember his smile, positive energy, and friendship. I still cannot believe he is gone. I'm so sorry for your loss and will continue to keep Myranda in my prayers. Deepest Sympathy, Jolene
Cynthia Prosser
February 9, 2004
My daughter, Jolene Prosser, went to school with Jeremy since 7th grade. I met him during this time and remember his charming smile. He was such a happy person and especially nice during my visits to Costco. He will be missed by our family. Speaking as a mother with two children, I am so sorry for your loss as I just can't imagine what you are going through. Thinking of your family during this time. Cindy
Stan and Judy Dixon
February 9, 2004
Dear Jack and Leslie,
Stan and I are so saddened by the death of your terrific son Jeremy. We loved visiting with him at Costco whenever we went there. He always had a smile and a happy update on what his mom and dad were up to: traveling or remodeling your house. He obviously loved you both very much. He introduced himself to us the first time he took our check and saw that we were from Ferndale. From that time on, we looked forward to seeing him. What a terrible loss for you and your family. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers as you try to adjust to life without that charming son of yours.
Fondly, Stan and Judy
Morris Dodge
February 9, 2004
My Family and I would like send our deepest condolences to the Selvage Family. I'm terribly sorry for your loss. You will be in our hearts and thoughts. God always has a purpose so please stay strong.
Kassidy Harris
February 9, 2004
The first time I met Jeremy was when my boyfriend, Bret Banducci, introduced me to him about three years ago. Instantally, he was warm and welcoming and extremely friendly to our first encounter. From then on out, every time I saw Jeremy he was always happy and consistantly invited Bret and I over to his house. I will miss seeing Jeremy and his smiling face but will always remember the great person he was.
Phil & sally Arnot
February 9, 2004
Dear Jack and Leslie: We send you our thoughts and prayers over losing Jeremy.
Joyce Coppini
February 9, 2004
Our sincere Sympathy and Love to all of Jeremy's Family. Joyce and Family
judy powers
February 9, 2004
I want you all to know I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Jeremy was a great young man and I will miss seeing his wonderful smile and hearing about his family. Sincerely, Judy Powers
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