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Kami Ladd Obituary

Kami (Kathleen Margaret) Ladd September 22, 1981 March 9, 2013. Our family lost our brilliant, powerful, generous, and unforgettable daughter, sister, sister-in-law, and aunt. Kami was a shooting star - passing in the sky and through our lives so intensely and brilliantly before she could realize how amazing she was or how much she would be missed. None of us were ready for her to shoot past us and be gone from our lives forever, but we will never forget the impact she had. Kami lived a unique, difficult, and eventful life. She had a vocabulary of 110 words by eleven months. Diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes in 1988, she spent most of her life battling this and wanting to be like everyone else with an intensity that wasn't always for the best. She was more incredible than most will ever know for all she survived and experienced, and wanted to be and accomplish. She received a magna cum laude Bachelor's Degree in Forensic Psychology from San Jose State University and recently worked as a paralegal. She was a talented legal researcher and writer and her writing successfully protected the rights of several criminal defense clients in Humboldt. She volunteered at a Rape Crisis Center in San Jose, working primarily with juveniles who had been victims of rape. She also volunteered at the Northern California Innocence Projects and had wanted to be a private investigator. She had a natural talent for anything artistic and at times, a wonderful sense of humor. Kami is survived by: her mother Eleanor Kraft; siblings Rudy, Terry and Maggie Kraft and Kathleen Bryson; brother-in-law Gary Bryson and sister-in-laws Theresa and Katy; nieces Baylia, Jazlyn, Rachel, Sarah, Gillian and Kaitlyn and nephew Jeffrey; and feline companion Domino Sandusky. We grieve the Kami we knew, and the Kami we all hoped she would become. Like that shooting star, she is gone too soon, too fast. She is preceded in death by her father Wayne Ladd, brother Paul Kraft, and very dear friend Nickee Shaw. Services will be held in the Bay Area on Sunday April 28, from 1 to 4 p.m. at Michaels at Shoreline, 2960 N. Shoreline, Mountain View, CA (650) 962-1014. As we grieve our loss, we encourage those who knew Kami to contemplate how much they will be missed by their own families should they die so young. Kami was an organ donor and would want to encourage people to sign up to be organ donors at www.donatelifecalifornia.org. Donations in her memory can be made to Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, www.jdrf.org or a charity of your choice. Please sign the guestbook at www.times-standard.com and click on obits.

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Published by Times-Standard from Mar. 22 to Mar. 24, 2013.

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Misha Jones

December 17, 2024

What's up, Kami? I need some advice on a legal matter, and as always, I think about you. I can't call you or your mom anymore. Tell her I said hello. I know she is with you someplace right now. Man, you got all the good ones with you: Artie Bo, T-Fin, B-Willa, Stacie Lee! SMH, I miss you friend. The best thing RD ever did was introduce me to you.

Misha Jones

March 16, 2024

It's been awhile Kami, Your mom made it to you I hear. Say hello for me. Man everybody is big chillin' with you now. Let's see your mom, my mom, your dad, your brother, my brother, T-Fin, Artie- Bo and a few more. But I don't want to keep going. Anyway, I miss you friend, all the time. I believe that you are someplace better than here. Always loving you. Misha

Misha

March 16, 2021

Damn Kami it's crazy it's been this long. Sometimes I just miss you friend and I go to my Google voice and listen to the last message you ever sent me. You start off saying "Misha, it's Kami......." I always laugh at that I don't know why. I do know this tho I miss my friend. I'm sure that T-Fin has made it to you by know, tell him I send my love and miss him too. I look at the picture of us three at my wife's house and just smile cuz I'm lucky to have had you both in my life. May not have been long enough but at least I had some time. Till we meet again.

Mick Conway

December 25, 2013

Ive been thinking about you today, sister. EVERY day! I poured a sip of Sprite on the curb for all the homies that are no longer with us. I miss you. I miss so much about you. I have so much to sharecand no one to share it with.

T

October 15, 2013

Truely an angel has left our midst to join my father above, I remember first meeting kami back in 97- she was smart, confident, and knew what she wanted, she was the opposite of me, as I got to know her I can tell how much she dearly loved her family especially her mom. I only knew her but for a moment but she left a lasting impression on me, today was thinking about I wonder how kami is doing , then to hear of her passing. Humbles me to realize that life is short , we need to enjoy life with those whome we love most and never ever wait for tomorrow cause it might never come.

Lindsay Boughey

September 22, 2013

Kami you were an amazing individual and I will remember you always. You were such a strong person with a personality to match, it would be impossible to forget. It was not your time. You had so much more to do in this life, amazing things. I love you

Mick Conway

May 31, 2013

Shine on, you crazy diamond!

May 4, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss, Kami was an amazing, brilliant, kind and loving person, I pray that you will all find peace in this difficult time.

Fred & Georgia Gordon

April 22, 2013

Such a little doll on the balance beam in gymnastics! We enjoyed Kami and her mom, during the many practices at Mackey's Gymnastics Academy. Our girls, always preparing for the next exciting meet! It was a very special time for all of the families who had children participating. I have not seen Kami in many years, but now know she became quite a lovely young women.

Kami & Eleanor - thank you for blessing our life during those wonderful, unforgettable days.

From Brooke's mom & dad.

Misha Jones

April 20, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

April 11, 2013

We were saddened to hear the news of Kami's death. We remember her spirit and spunk, but also her gentle and kind heart. Her mother Eleanor was very devoted to her family, and they both shared a deep bond and strong nature. Our deepest condolences to Kami's family and friends. With affection and sympathy - Ken & Claire Grant

Sarah Bergeron

April 10, 2013

Kami,
You are such a spitfire. You were a great friend many years ago. I hope you are resting in peace. Much love to you and your family.

matt craig

March 27, 2013

We are so sorry to hear about Kami's passing. Your family will be in our prayers. Matt, Jessica, Kaley, Madison, and Mackenzie Craig

Carolyn

March 26, 2013

Our family was deeply touched by Kami and will always hold her in our hearts .She shared her brilliant mind and caring heart with so many people in different capacities making a differance that they would never forget.She was so smart and so passionate about the things she believed in.I loved to see her face light up when helping students get their first job ! She was amazing to brainstorm with on any subject and there were many we discussed.she beamed when speaking of her family ,mother and siblingsThis young woman learned from and celebrated her mother and family knowing how they impacted peoples lives so positivly .She loved them dearly and was so proud to tell us all about them. I am saddened beyond words for this entire family.i hold Kami in the highest regard possible .She will be missed but never forgotten by so many of us she impacted

March 26, 2013

Dear Maggie,
I am so sorry to learn of your sister's sudden passing. You and your family are in my thougths and prayers.
Love, Sandi Fitzpatrick

Nancy Craig

March 25, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. She was very bright, enthusiastic and curious. We loved having her visit in our home.
Fondly,
Brian & Nancy Craig

March 24, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Does anyone know how she died so soon?

courtney battaglieri

March 23, 2013

Kami, although I recently had met you, and seen you only a couple more times before you were gone; immediately after meeting you I could see that you were truly a kind and intelligent person, funny, etc. I am so sorry for your beautiful life to have been cut short, you were taken too soon, we all miss you so much!!!

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