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Marva Detherage Obituary

73, died unexpectedly September 12th while recovering from a broken leg and surgery. Marva was born to the late Niels and Hazel Holgersen on December 11th, 1936. She was raised in Loleta on her father's dairy ranch, the Holgersen Dairy. She graduated from Eureka High School with the class of 1954. Marva married the love of her life, Delmar Detherage Sr. on April 14, 1956. They had three children LaVonne, Terri and Delmar Jr. As her children got older Marva attended College of the Redwoods, graduating in 1972 going on to Humboldt State university to obtain her Bachelors degree in teaching. She had a special talent working with special kids and went on to be a Special Education teacher at Pine Hill Elementary and South Bay Elementary Schools. She taught for twenty years, retiring in 1975. She recently worked for changing tides family services providing respite care for her Grand-daughter Chelise. Shortly after retirement she and her husband moved to Baja, Ca. They later bought some property and moved to Golden Valley, AZ and built themselves a home. In September 2004 her husband died of cancer and Marva moved back to Eureka to be with her family. She was preceded in death by her daughter Terri, her brother Sonny, her parents, her husband Delmar, and her Aunty Helen Sampson. She is survived by her son Delmar Jr. & his wife Jeanette, her step-daughter Patricia Moore, her daughter LaVonne Yates, her brother Curt Holgersen & his wife Ann, her brother Harry Holgersen, ten Grandchildren, eight Great-Grandchildren and numerous nieces and nephews. She also leaves behind many dear friends. Marva touched many lives during her lifetime, with her warm smile and gentle ways. She was a very caring, honest, loving, giving, genuine fun person. She had regular outings with a group of her teacher friends whom she always enjoyed spending time with. She enjoyed spending time with her family and loved to spend time with her grandchildren. She is going to be deeply missed by all of us who were privileged to know her. Her Journey's Just Begun Don't think of her as gone away-- her journey's just begun; life holds so many facets-- this earth is only one. Just think of her as resting from the sorrows and the tears in a place of warmth and comfort where there are no days and years. Think how she must be wishing that we could know, today, how nothing but our sadness can really pass away. And think of her as living in the hearts of those she touched-- for nothing loved is ever lost-- and she was loved so much. Ellen Brenneman Visitation will be at Sanders Funeral Home, 1835 E Street, Eureka on Friday, September 17, 2010 from noon to 2 p.m. with the funeral service starting at 2 p.m. at Sanders. Please sign the guest book at www.Times-Standard.com, click Obits.

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Published by Times-Standard from Sep. 16 to Sep. 17, 2010.

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Marva R. Dreher #33

October 2, 2010

Marva was a member of the Marvalous Marva Club her MMC #249 tells she joined early on when the club was formed 20 years ago. I never had the pleasure of meeting Marva but we communicated many times. God Bless her family and know she will remain a member of the MMC and her #249 will never be re-issued.

Gemma & Janeen Martensen

September 28, 2010

We are so sorry to hear the news of Marva,May your memories bring you comfort.

Ruben Segura & family

September 20, 2010

Dear Detherage family-
Marva and Del were great friends of mine.
I will always remember our times diving and sharing an abalone dinner together with great fondness. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
Sincerely,

Shirley Shoup

September 19, 2010

Marva was a friend of mine in Eureke High School. At our 55th class reunion we talked quite a bit. I will miss her at our 60th.

Christina McFarland-Fashant

September 18, 2010

I will always remember Mrs. Detherage and her commitment to Special Education. What an amazing gift she had, and what an awesome champion she was to every student who walked into her classroom. She will be missed. Our prayers go out to her family (particularly Chelsie) and every life she touched.

September 18, 2010

We were really sorry to hear of
Mrs. Detherage's passing. He was my brother's teacher in elementary school and he tought the world of her. My brother is Allan Klanecky. She was such a wonderful inspiration to us all. She was so kind and was so supportive of special need kids. My family wanted to say how sorry they were for the loss. We will pray for you all. Alice Lehnis(Klanecky), of Mesquite, Texas
and Everett, Mary, and Allan Klanecky of Fortuna, CA

Ramona Camesi

September 18, 2010

So very sorry to hear about Marva. She was a unique and warm person. My prayers and thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

Terry, Cheryl & Travis Shreeve

September 18, 2010

We were very sorry to hear about Marva. Please accept our Deepest Sympathy & Prayers.

Shari Britt

September 17, 2010

We were high school classmates - she came to our 55th reunion last year. Marva and I had more than that in common - both of us having lost a daughter - we shared our feelings and understanding.
We're so very sorry for your loss.

Eunice Sanborn

September 17, 2010

Marva and I grew up together,and spent a lot of time playing when we were little. I have fond memories of those days at Hans & Marie's when I went with my folks to visit. She always came over to their house when we were there. We were distant relatives...her Dad was my Mom's cousin.
She was always such a nice person and I know she will be misssed.
My thoughts and prayers to all of you at this sad time.
Eunice Jacobsen Sanborn

Denise (Sanborn) Hatch

September 17, 2010

I remember Marva as a warm lady and knew her from the Scandinavian Festival days in Ferndale. I'm sorry for your loss, you're all in my thoughts & prayers.

September 16, 2010

Our thoughts are with you all. Marva was a lovely person and we will the beautiful smile she shared with everyone.

Love, the Mares family and Laura

September 16, 2010

I have been a friend of Marva's since high school. We also attended
college together having many good times.My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
Sharon Hope (Loma Rica,Ca)

September 16, 2010

I am so sorry to hear the news of Marva, so unexpected! How fortunate I was able to visit with her at our latest Eureka High School class re-union.
She was a good friend during high school days, such a nice, caring person.
My prayers go out to the family during this difficult time.
Marg (Sipila) Cole, Mad River, Ca.

Wes Ammer

September 16, 2010

Thinking of you in this sorrowful time
you are in our prayers.
Wes & Jerri Ann Ammer

Addie Segura Smith

September 16, 2010

Jenette,Del and family-
I am very sorry for your loss. May the memories of your wonderful mom sustain you and guide you through this difficult time. Sincerely,

Brenda Zwiefelhofer

September 16, 2010

Marva had been such a good friend for so long. I can still remember the picnics she and Del would host out at the camp. I've enjoyed seeing her most every month at our SB/PH lunches and they will definitely not be the same without her. I will be out of town tomorrow and won't be able to attend the service, but please know that my love and prayers are with all of the family. She will be so missed!

Rina Ellsworth

September 16, 2010

I will miss her alot alot

Deb Schieberl

September 16, 2010

Chico,
We are sorry for your loss. Know she is with Jesus now and smiling.

Russell and Deb Schieberl

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