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James Godfrey "Jay" Pastorius Jr.

James Godfrey "Jay" Pastorius Jr. obituary, Butler, Pa

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James Pastorius Obituary

PASTORIUS, James Godfrey "Jay", Jr., 80, of Butler, Pa., passed away Friday, January 14, 2022, in Orange Park, Fla.He was born in Pittsburgh, Pa., to the late Ruth and James G. Pastorius Sr.

Jay attended the University of Virginia, where he proudly participated in the Jefferson Society, serving as both secretary and president. Due to his academic success, he earned the distinction of living on the Lawn in his final year at the University. He was one of the first to graduate with honors from UVA's School of Engineering with a degree in Chemical Engineering. Following his time at UVA, he served in the United States Navy for five years as an instructor at the Nuclear Power School in Bainbridge, Md. After separating from the Navy, Jay spent his adult life in Butler, Pa., and Richmond, Va., where he was employed as a project manager for Philip Morris for over 20 years. He spent the final year of his life enjoying the company of his immediate family in Middleburg, Fla.

Jay was an avid student of history, with a particular fascination in the American Civil War. This interest led him to join the Grand Army of the Cussewago, with whom he enjoyed annual trips to Civil War Battlefields and sites. As a proud conservative, he was actively involved in Western Pennsylvania politics and served as campaign manager for multiple successful bids for office. In addition to his academic and political interests, he was an incredibly talented woodworker, who created many beautiful pieces of furniture for his family and friends. He loved gardening, reading, watching golf, cheering on the Pittsburgh Steelers and listening to classical music.

Jay was preceded in death by his parents; as well as his brother, Thomas V. Pastorius Sr. He is survived by his loving wife of 56 years, Ruth Ann McDowell Pastorius of Butler, Pa.; his daughter, Charlotte Pastorius Freund; his son-in-law, Brin Freund; and his grandson, Samuel Freund of Middleburg, Fla.; his nephews, Thomas V. Pastorius Jr. (Felice) of Austin, Texas and Franz Daniel Pastorius (Alina) of Munich, Germany; and his sister-in-law, Mary Beth Pastorius (Connor Cogswell) of Sewickley, Pa.

A memorial service is planned for later this year.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in Jay's memory to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, https://www.stjude.org/donate/.

Arrangements are under the care of Russell Haven of Rest Cemetery, Funeral Home and Cremation Center, 2335 Sandridge Road, Green Cove Springs, Fla. 32043. Family and friends may share their condolences at www.RHRFH.com;904-284-7720.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Jan. 21 to Jan. 30, 2022.

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Mike Abel

January 23, 2022

Jay was an outstanding engineering project manager; I learned a tremendous amount from him. He also was a tremendous, interesting person with strong convictions and beliefs. And what a character! I learned so much about Butler, PA that it's on my bucket list to visit someday...and only because of what I learned from Jay. He brought a lot to the company and those he worked with and left a forever, indelible impression.

Rene Meyre

January 21, 2022

It was a pleasure knowing Jay, I liked him and his personality. My condolences to his family.

Steve Spiers

January 21, 2022

Very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Always enjoyed talking with him at our ROMEO breakfasts.

Frank King

January 21, 2022

So very sorry. Jay was one of the good ones.

Doug Miller

January 21, 2022

My condolences to the family. I worked with Jay for a number of years at Philip Morris. I considered him a mentor and learned a lot about project management from him. I occasionally saw him after we retired at the ROMEO breakfasts, where he still displayed his clever wit. I am sorry for your loss.

Jerry Pierce

January 21, 2022

So Sorry. i knew him well

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