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Jeffrey Wightman Obituary

Jeffrey Stuart Wightman, 42, of King William and Tappahannock, received his heavenly wings on Wednesday, February 16, 2005 in Pueblo, Colo. Jeff was a pilot with Martinair and started his professional flying career with Million Air. Before flying, he owned and operated Wightman Construction for 17 years. He is survived by his wife, Jean; his parents, Bill and Mary Alice Wightman of Mechanicsville; his brother, Cary Wightman and wife, Cindee; his sister, Janet Eppers and husband, Bruce; his niece, Shannon Eppers; and two nephews, Eric and Zach Wightman. He cherished his "children", Termite and Jiggy. The family will receive friends at the Mechanicsville Chapel of Bennett Funeral Home, 8014 Lee-Davis Rd. on Saturday from 4 to 7 p.m. Memorial services will be held 3 p.m. Sunday, February 20, 2005 at Mechanicsville United Methodist Church followed by a reception at the church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Westview on the James, 1231 Westview Rd., Goochland, Va. 23063.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Feb. 18 to Feb. 20, 2005.

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Beth and Mark Swansen

March 3, 2005

Dear Wightman Family,

We are so shocked and sad to learn of Jeff's death. Mark and I met Jeff at Brevard College in 1980. He and Mark became roommates and fast friends. The three of us shared so many wonderful times together throughout the years. We kept in touch, visiting each others homes, calling, and the guys even went fishing in Hatteras on occasion. We lost touch about two years ago, but knew we were just a phone call away. We knew he was finally happy, had a loving wife, and was following his dream of flying. Mark and I learned of this tradegy after the service and are sorry we could not attend. We will deeply miss our kind, sensitive, and caring friend.

Glenn Tuck

February 23, 2005

Dear Wightman family,

My deepest sympathy to all of you at this sad time. I was in a club with Jeff & we flew together frequently. I have a ton of respect for Jeff as a pilot & a person & I'm sure as a loving son, husband & father. God bless your family.

Becky and Garry Granger

February 22, 2005

Dear Wightman Family,

We are so saddened by the terrible loss of Jeff. It has been many years since we have seen him, but Jan kept us up to date on what he had accomplished over the years. She was so proud of Jeff. He was a shining star in your family as babies of the family often are. We will keep you in our prayers and know that God's love will help you through this sad time. Love, Becky and Garry Granger

Sharon & Bill McDaniel

February 21, 2005

We are neighbors of your parents, Jean. So many people within Walden Woods are sending their prayers and good thoughts remotely! The Lord will help you through this, another trying time.

Richard Clay

February 21, 2005

Dear Mr.and Mrs.Wightman,Carey,and Janet:

I remember Jeffrey as a child at Mechanicsville Methodist Church when I was growing up in the Mechanicsville area.I lost contact with him and you all as well probably sometime in 1971.I remember Carey and Janet and you ,Mr.and Mrs.Wightman and what honorable members of Mechanicsville Methodist Church your whole family was.From this experience I know what a remarkable man Jeffrey must have turned out to be .From what I gather he was a huge success in the flesh and will surely be a spritual success as well.My prayers and thoughts are about you all as you endure this terrible loss.May God bless you all ,always.

Cathy Hertel

February 21, 2005

I was so very sorry to hear about Jeff.We grew up together in Windy Hills and Jeff always seem to have a smile or grin on his face.I know that just as he made people on earth feel good he will do the same for the rest of God's angels.

James Ragsdale

February 21, 2005

I am deeply saddened by the loss of my new friend Jeff Wightman. I met him only a few months ago, and immediately felt as though I had known him for a long time. I send my heart felt condolences to all who will miss him. May God bless you all and give you the comfort only his love can give you.

Barbara Watson

February 20, 2005

Dear wightman family, My deepest regards are with all of you at this time of sorrow. You dont know me but, I am the Aunt of one of the passengers that was on that fateful plane. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this time. May god carry your burden for you.

Sincerly,

Barbara Watson

Krystal Carter

February 20, 2005

Jean,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and his family. We all feel blessed to have known Jeff, he will always leave a shadow in our hearts. He will be missed. May God be with you through this time.

Our deepest sympathy,

Krystal, Tim & Gene

"Aunt" Penny Connor

February 20, 2005

Dear Jean,

The loss of Jeff is a real tragedy. He was such a nice, sweet, funny boy who grew up to be a warm and caring man.

His family and mine shared many good times together at Rock Spring Acres and Wild Cat Ridge. I have many wonderful memories of Jeff and am so thankful he was a part of our family.

God Bless you.

Georgie Connor June

February 20, 2005

Dear Mary Alice, Uncle Bill, Cary and Janet,



I have so many fond memories of Jeff especially up on the mountain. I remember Mike and I spending the night in your cabin and Jeff teaching me to play Chinese Checkers. I remember all of us laughing and swinging on the grapevines and Jeff driving us down the bottom of the hill to get an ice-cream at Bradley's store. Jeff always had a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eyes.



We're going to miss our cousin.

Kevin Cousins

February 19, 2005

The Wightman Family,

My prayers are with you in these terrible times of saddness. Jeff was an incredible man and I am a better person just for knowing him. Even though I have only known Jeff for a few years I will always remember him for his warmth and pure kindness to myself and all others who surrounded him. You have my love and support in these times.

Karen Dodson

February 19, 2005

My Dearest Jean,



I have not seen you in many years, but think of you often. I have so many wonderful memories of the times we have shared. I am so saddened to hear about Jeff. Please know that I will be praying for you and your family asking the Lord to give you comfort and wrap you in his loving arms during this difficult time. May peace and healing be upon you.

Brenda & Mike Jennings

February 19, 2005

Dear Jean,

We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Know that God will give you peace through this hard time.If there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to contact us at all.

We love you...you are family to us and you know this.

Love,

Mike, Brenda, Jennifer, Lori, Lisa and Michael

Lyons Jewelers

February 19, 2005

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Keith Collier

February 19, 2005

The Wightman Family,



It is with great sadness and sorrow to hear that Jeff has left you so early in life. I know he will be missed dearly by all. Even though I had not seen Jeff for a couple of years, I often think about the flights to Newport News and Charlottesville we had, and how passionate and professional he was about flying. He was always smiling when I saw him and spoke with passion and excitement when we talked about flying. I am fortunate to have shared such wonderful experiences with such a great guy, Jeff. May God bless the Wightman family and see you through your time of need.

Teresa Ritchie

February 19, 2005

Jean, I am at a loss for words. You have meant so much to me for as long as I have known you, and my heart grieves for you and your family. God bless you and know that you are in my thoughts now and always.

Vicki Sumner

February 19, 2005

Dear Jean,

When I heard about your lost this afternoon I felt like my heart was broken. I wish I could be there and comfort you during your time of sorrow. The last time we spoke you seemed so happy.Please accept my deapest sympathy.

Love

Vicki & Joe Sumner

Darlene & Christopher Platt

February 19, 2005

Dear Jean, We are so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. We never met Jeff, but know from your cards & letters you loved him so.....may your faith in Christ carry you through this time. Love, Darlene & Chris

Melody Clarke

February 19, 2005

Dear Jean,

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. I remember when you sent Moma and Margie a picture of you and Jeff after you were married. We were all so happy that you had been blessed with such a wonderful husband. Our family has known you since Ricky was 6 weeks old and you are just like family to all of us. Please know that you and all of Jeff's family are in our prayers. I Know that your beautiful memories will bring you all comfort.



Love,

Melody Samuels Clarke

Carol Austin Carter

February 19, 2005

My heartfelt sympathies are extended to all who have been touched by this tragedy. May the Lord watch over you in your time of sorrow.

Mary Parrott

February 19, 2005

Dear Jean,

I am so sorry to hear of your great loss. Peace be with you.

Mary Parrott

IRHS

LOUIE & RHONDA SWINGLE

February 18, 2005

Gone but not forgotten, Jeff and I grew up in Windy Hills as children together, he always made a point as we got older and involved in our adult lives, to stop and say hello as he was passing by...My wife and I have great memories of Jeff and he will be greatly missed. May God be with you all during this time, and may the memories live on in his family and friends.

Cathy Rice

February 18, 2005

Cary, Mr.& Mrs. Wightman, I am so sorry for your loss of your brother and son. My heart and prayers go out to you all and your family. May God touch his gentle hand on you at this time. I know Jeff is flying with the Angels in heaven. You are in our prayers and I know that God will carry you and help you through this time. Love, Cathy, Russell and Carter. Aylett, Va

Susan Hebel

February 18, 2005

Jeff worked at Martinair with me for the last 3 months but I knew him previously through his wife Jean. Everyone loved Jeff. He was always smiling. I can't picture him without that smile and those eyes twinkling. I am so terribly saddened by this tragedy. We will miss him. Jean, I love you and will be here to support you in any way you need.

Vicki Hottle

February 18, 2005

Jean,

I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, yours and Jeff's family.



Vicki Hottle

Julie Lowe

February 18, 2005

Jean, words cannot express my sorrow over hearing the news about Jeff. I am so sorry for your loss, as well as for the close knit family within Martinair. May God give you and your family strength during this time of sorrow.

John and Robyn Miller

February 18, 2005

We are so very sadden by the news of our best friend Jeff. We loved him like a brother and will deeply miss his friendship but know that he is in Gods hands and he is still flying high in the skys with the angels. Our sympathy and prayers are with Jean and Jeffs family during this trying time. Love you all, Robyn and John

Liesl Parker

February 18, 2005

Jean -- You are in our thoughts and prayers during this painful time. We hope the happy times you shared with Jeff will bring you comfort. Love, Liesl, Ned & Sidney

Linny Jackson

February 18, 2005

Jean, Mr and Mrs Wightman,



We are thinking about you and praying for you at this difficult time. Jeff was a wonderful person and my Grandfather (Pat) loved him like a son. I'm sure they have already gotten re-acquainted.

Felicia Downey

February 18, 2005

My prayers are with your family.

Lesa Wooldridge

February 18, 2005

Jean,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Thinking of you and wishing you comfort.

Lesa

IRHS

Kimberly Farmer

February 18, 2005

Aunt Jean,

I love you and Uncle Jeff very much and my thoughts and prayers are with you. He was a great person and I will miss him very much. I love you.

Mary-Anne Reisigl

February 18, 2005

Dear Jean,

It's been a long time since I've seen you ... but it was just last week that I was thinking of you. Whenever I think about you, I smile and think about the little cartoon character you used to add to all your faxes etc. I saw Jay Owen last week and we were talking about his seeing you in Deleware.

I remember when someone told me that you had remarried...I was so happy to hear that there was someone out there worthy of such a wonderful woman like you. I am truly sad that Jeff has been taken from you so soon. God bless and keep you, Jean. You are well loved.



Very sincerely,

Mary-Anne Reisigl

Commonwealth Wholesale, Inc.

February 18, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

David Hebel

February 18, 2005

My wife, Susan, and I are profoundly sadden by the loss of Jeff. I was lucky enough to meet Jeff a few years ago. He took me with him on two flights on the Cessena he had part ownership in, knowing that I had some interest in flying but also some fear about it. He was a great man, a great pilot, and by my observation a great husband and human being. We should all be lucky enough to have a Jeff Wightman sometime in our lives. He will be missed by us, by his friends and family, and by his coworkers.

Marie & Larry Crow

February 18, 2005

Jean,

Larry and I would like to express our deepest, sincerest sympathy for the loss of your wonderful husband, Jeff. I was so sad when I heard that the airplane tragedy involved Jeff. We are certainly thinking about you and his family now. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to ease the burden for you. Our friendship is so special and we know that you will need a lot of friends in the near future.

Paige Nobles

February 18, 2005

I am so sorry to hear of this tragic loss. Jeff was such a nice person and he touched my life on and off thru the years through friends, work and Church. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to his family and friends and I know that he will be deeply missed. My only comfort is that he passed away doing what he loved and that he is now at home with Our Father in Heaven. God Bless him always.......

Paige Nobles

Robert Hott

February 18, 2005

Sorry to read about such a tragic

loss.



Bob Hott

LDHS 1969

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