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1940
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2024
Pat Self Obituary
In 2014 she moved to Tyler, TX. She was greatly loved in her new home for the last 10 years. Pat moved back to VA to be near her family in her last months
Pat was a precious mother to Heather Self Stoner and the BEST Nana to Hunter Anne Kendrick and her husband, Trevor. She was blessed to have stepson, Chris Self and her daughter-in-love, Melody.
She loved her sister, Susie Kowalik and brother-in-law, Augie. She was also a great-grandmother to Thomas and Kiely Self and great-great grandmother to Ellie.
A Celebration of Life will be held at West End Assembly of God (401 N. Parham Rd.) June 9, 2024 at 4 p.m. Donations can be made to Kingdom Life Academy at KLAtyler.com.
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Laurie Herrington Dunn
July 7, 2024
I just visited CT after 60 years and was astounded to find out that Pat Self had not only touched my life as my Sunday school teacher (1970ish) but also my cousins a few years later at meetings held at her home. She was a "warrior of the Lord" and an example to us. I have searched her name before wishing I could connect. Sorry for her family's loss but Looking forward to connecting in Glory!
Ellen Judy
June 11, 2024
So wish I could be there to honor one of the three most important women God placed in my life. Sending love to all.
Gwen Gardner Bennett
June 10, 2024
Such a Beautiful service for Pat Self. A truly Warrior of the Faith. We had church. The presence of GOD was there. GOD Blessed Pat in so many ways. She was such an Inspiration to so many. I pray for Heather and the family during these days. GOD said "WELL DONE FAITHFUL SERVANT. ENTER IN". Continued prayers for the Family and so many Friends.
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