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Robert Shanaman "Bob" Handly

Robert Handly Obituary

Robert Shanaman "Bob" Handly, 83, of Tappahannock, died Wednesday, February 12, 2003, while surrounded by his loving family. Throughout his illness, he met each day with courage, dignity, grace and humor. Born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, he was the son of Richard Jones and Mary Baxter Handly of Philadelphia, Penn. He attended the University of Pennsylvania and graduated from North Carolina State College with a B.S. degree in Textile Chemistry. Soon after his marriage to Raye Piland of Oriental, North Carolina, he was called to active service in World War II. Serving four years in the U.S. Navy, he rose to the rank of Lieutenant Commander and last served as Executive Officer U.S.S. Neuendorf. Following World War II Handly began his career in the textile industry and in 1966 moved with his family to Tappahannock to assume a position as general manager with Virginia Elastic, division of H. Warshow & Sons. He retired as senior vice president after 20 years of service. As an active community member, he was elected and served three consecutive four-year terms on the Essex County Board of Supervisors. A long-standing Episcopalian, Handly was a member of St. John’s Episcopal Church spending several years as Senior Warden. An advocate for education, Mr. Handly served 20 years on the Board of Directors for St. Margaret’s School, including several terms as chairman. In addition, he served on the Diocese of Virginia Episcopal Church Schools as well as the Board of the Rappahannock Community College. Other community commitments included sitting on the Board of Tidewater Hospital, the Virginia Board of Prisons and serving as President of the Gywnnfield Association. Also, he was a founding member of the Essex Men’s Club. Handly was supportive of environmental conservation especially for the Rappahnnock River. He was an avid boatsman and fisherman and operated a Charter Service out of Reedville. He enjoyed coaching Little League Baseball. He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Raye Piland Handly; and three children, Nancy Elizabeth Handly of Seattle, Patricia Handly-Johnson and her husband Michael Johnson of Miami Beach, and Robert S. "Bud" Handly Jr. and his wife Cyanne Yates Handly of Richmond; one grandchild, Tye Kevin Fussell and his wife Tracie of Brooklyn, N.Y.; and one great-grandchild, Eleri Belle Fussell, also of Brooklyn. The Memorial Service will begin at 11 a.m. on Saturday, February 15, at St. John’s Episcopal Church in Tappahannock, Va., followed by the burial service and reception at the church. Memorial donations may be made to the Essex Public Library, General Delivery, Tappahannock, Va., 22560.
Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Feb. 14, 2003.

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Sandy Conley

February 21, 2003

Mrs. Handly, I am so sorry for your loss and we will miss his friendly smile. I am sure he has joined my parents and they are remembering all the good times the families had together. Have comfort in your family and know that God will get you through this time.

Sandy Hilton Conley and family

Iris Peace

February 17, 2003

Mrs. Handly, I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your husband. You might not remember me, but I surely remember you. I worked at Anderton's Dept. Store in the late 70's and early 80's. You were always one of my favorite people to see come through our doors. I was just married and very poor back then, but you made me feel rich. You inspired me and I carry your influence with me today. I remember how fondly you would speak of your husband. There was never a time that you didn't speak of "Bob". I remember how lively and fun you always were. I hope that life will give you many more happy memories while easing the pain of your husband's passing.

Rick Stott

February 16, 2003

Raye, Nancy, Pat and Bud.



Such a shock to hear of Bob's passing. He was a wonderful employer when I worked for him and continued to be a great friend after our business relationship ended. Jennifer often talks about Mr. Handly's dog, Ralph, and how Bob allowed her to play with Ralph. We are also very grateful to Bob for his assistance with Kim's and Jennifer's admissions to St. Margarets.



Bob will be missed by many. God bless you and the family.

Larry Elliott

February 14, 2003

With our deepness heart felt Sympathy, may God be with you and your family. Love, Larry and Brenda Elliott P.S. Sorry we could not be there because of the bad weather.

Peggy Hilton-Martin

February 14, 2003

Dear Mrs. Handly,

I just cannot believe Mr. Handly was in his 80's. Where has the time gone? It just seems like yesterday we were all in Tappahannock and my parents were saying your names. I know Mom and Dad enjoyed your friendship whether it be fishing, playing bridge or general socializing. I am so sorry for your loss but hope that you can replace your tears with smiles as you remember the wonderful life you

had with your husband. He lived a very full life and accomplished much. But in the end family and friends matter most and they will always hold him in their hearts. God Bless you and your family.

Peggy Hilton Martin

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