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Thomas Coppedge Obituary

COPPEDGE, Thomas Rupert, Jr., 81, of Mechanicsville, went to be with his Heavenly Father on November 5, 2021. He was predeceased by his parents, Thomas and Freda Coppedge; nephew, Everett Jones; and brother-in-law, Waverly Jones. He is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 57 years, Mary Sue; his daughter and son-in-law, Blair and Luke Gipson; his son and daughter-in-law, Chris and Amy Coppedge; seven grandchildren, Mary Grace, David, Hope, Madelynn and Nathaniel Coppedge, Jack and Elyse Wells, all of Mechanicsville. In recent years, he happily welcomed into the family seven stepgrandchildren, Lexi, Kallie and Crew Gipson and Braden, Britt, Brooks and Berkley Adams; and boasted he now had 14 grandchildren. He is also survived by his sister, Katherine Jones of Warsaw, Va.; a niece and her husband, Bonnie and Bill Revere, of Edwardsville, Va.; a nephew and his wife, Glenn and Carrie Jones, of Elizabeth City, N.C.; brother-in-law and his wife, George and Doris Rew, of Burgess, Va.; and sister-in-law and her husband, Faye and J.R. Hall, of Reedville, Va. Tom was born on October 24, 1940. He spent his boyhood and youth on the family dairy farm in Lilian, Va. He graduated from Northumberland High School and joined the Navy for a brief time. After being honorably discharged, he then returned home and attended Smithdeal Massey Business College. His working career was in the electronics field, retiring from Robertshaw Controls in 1990. He was an avid UVA basketball fan, an accomplished woodworker and a talented pen-and-ink artist. He was a founding member of the Hanover Art League and for many years, he was a contributing artist for the Hanover calendar, which featured historic homes in Hanover County. Tom had a great love of music, having played drums for his high school band and for several local bands in his teenage years. He was a devoted and loving husband, father and grandfather and truly a friend to all. The family will receive friends on Thursday, November 11, from 6 to 8 p.m. at Bennett Funeral Home, Mechanicsville. After a private interment, a memorial service will be held on Friday, November 12 at 2 p.m. at Fairport Baptist Church, 2395 Fairport Road, Reedville, Virginia 22539. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Tom's memory to Alpha House, 809 Thompson Street, Ashland, Va. 23005, Attn: Kathy.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch from Nov. 7 to Nov. 10, 2021.

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Leah Headley Samuelson

November 9, 2021

I have only great memories of such a polite and friendly classmate! Not surprised that he was well-loved by his family & friends! MAY EACH OF US TRY TO
"Stay the course" as he did!
Praying that his "life" is a comfort to you & to each of us! MAY GOD BLESS YOU WITH PEACE & joyful memories!

Eileen & Jim Copp

November 8, 2021

Dear Mary Sue, Chris and Blair,
We are so very sorry to read of Tom's passing. Though we have not had the pleasure of seeing you for many years now, we remember your family well from the years at Atlee Little League. We have looked back on those days many times and always with pleasant memories of knowing the Coppedge family...one of the nicest families at the field. We are thinking of each of you and sending our deepest sympathy.

Erma Williams

November 8, 2021

Mary Sue, so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family!

JOYCE (JO) GARDY

November 7, 2021

MANY FOND MEMORIES OF THIS GENTLEMAN. WE WERE FRIENDS ALL THROUGH HIGH SCHOOL. HOPEFULLY HIS FAMILY WILL FIND PEACE AS TIME HEALS THEIR GRIEF.

Melissa Spain Byrne

November 7, 2021

Sending loads of love to Blaire and the Coppedge family during this difficult time.

Cal Farmer

November 7, 2021

Mary Sue and family, so sad to learn of Toms passing. He was a fine man and I enjoyed his friendship and special times together as fishermen trying catch the 'big one'. I'll miss his smiling face.

Chris Prousalis

November 7, 2021

My condolences to the Coppedge family. I worked with Tom at Robertshaw for many years. He was always a pleasure to talk with, fish with and yes he was a major UVa basketball fan. I remember going up to Charlottesville for a game with him. He was a good friend one of the reasons working at Robertshaw was more fun than work. RIP my friend.

Anne (Sandy) Pearson

November 7, 2021

Mary Sue and family...so sorry to hear of Tommy´s death. I too, lost my husband in April. I pray that you are feeling Gods peace and love surrounding you.

Jeanette Douglas Brambleso so

November 7, 2021

So so sorry about your loss. He was a classmate and co-graduate of the class of '59at NHS.

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