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Thomas R. Steele Jr.

1945 - 2020

Thomas R. Steele Jr. obituary, 1945-2020, Ashland, VA

BORN

1945

DIED

2020

Thomas Steele Obituary

STEELE, Thomas R., Jr., 75, of Richmond, Va., passed away on Monday, September 21, 2020, at Spring Arbor Cottage-Memory Care facility, after a seven-year-long battle with Mixed Dementia. Tom was born April 6, 1945, in Pecos, Texas, to the late Thomas R. Steele and Harriet (McGinty) Steele. He married his high school sweetheart, Carole (Carte) on September 10, 1966, and they recently celebrated 54 years of marriage. After graduating from WVU, he was hired by Ethyl Corp. as a tax accountant and was eventually promoted to the Head of Tax Compliance, where he worked for more than 30 years until his retirement. Tom enjoyed traveling, skiing, golf, softball, playing cards, cheering or cursing Steelers football, beer and parties and spending time with good friends and family. Tom was a beloved father to his sons, Thomas R. Steele III (Liz), Greg Neill Steele (Lynn), Eric Dane Steele and Russell McGinty Steele (Allyson). He is survived by his wife, Carole; his sisters, Amy (Steele) Bolger, Leah (Steele) Foster, Roberta (Steele) Relich (Patrick); his brothers, Daniel Steele (Linda) and Mark Steele; and many cousins, nieces, nephews and grandchildren. Tom was preceded in death by his parents; and his granddaughter, Gabriella Steele. A private service was held for the immediate family. In lieu of cards, donations can be made in Tom's honor to Capital Caring Health/Hospice or Spring Arbor Cottage-Memory Care.

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Published by Richmond Times-Dispatch on Oct. 11, 2020.

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June Costello

April 5, 2023

My son Ian schultz & I (Jube Costello) enjoyed skiing & being friends with tom & his family. Condolences to all. RIP, Tom, now that Carole is with you.

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Georgia Trusio

October 12, 2020

I just found out today about Tom and was very sad to hear. The last time I saw Tom & Carol was at The Villages in 2017 when we went to dinner with Linda & Danny Steele. What a great evening and I was excited to see them and we had a great conversation about the good ole' days in Uniontown. God will find a perfect place for dear, sweet Tom right by the good Lord's side.

Tammy Fortner

October 12, 2020

So sad to hear of Tom's passing but he was the best person I have ever worked for. I will cherish the memories.

Diana Lundy

October 12, 2020

I am deeply sadden by his passing but I will always remember my time working with and for Tom.

JANE Serrano

October 12, 2020

Carole! I am just today finding out about Tom! You and Tom have been in my prayers for a long time now, and I want to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family!
You took good care of Tom for many years, and now the Lord has taken over that care.
You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! Love, Jane

Bob Prebish

October 11, 2020

I have good memories of Tom through our 20 years together in the Ethyl Finance Department. Tom was one of the first persons to be hired after Ethyl's relocation to Richmond. Ever thoughtful, we would receive Christmas cards from Tom and Carole. Sorry to lose you - we shall miss you for now. Rest in peace, good friend.

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