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Vincent Panzano Obituary

Vincent Panzano died at the age of 87 in New Canaan, CT at mid-day on November 12, 2012. This was Vince's first observance of Veterans' Day since he lost Audrey, his best-friend and wife of 60 years. Vince was a veteran's veteran, a Navy man, who embodied love for country in every word, thought and deed. Somehow, it seems fitting that Vince's final "Anchors Aweigh" happened on that day. "Vincenzo" was born in South Philadelphia on November, 18, 1924 to Vincent, a tailor, who emigrated from Naples, Italy in 1920 and Mary (Onerato) who arrived in Philadelphia shortly thereafter. After graduating from South Philadelphia High School for Boys in 1942, Vince began his undergraduate work at West Chester Teachers College in the Health and Physical Education Department. His freshman year was life-changing. It was the year he met Audrey K. Jones and the year he entered the US Navy to serve in World War II. Vince served as a Pharmacist's Mate, second class, for 26 months aboard the USS Quincy - a heavy naval cruiser. The Quincy was the only warship to bombard enemy-held territory in both the European and Pacific War zones during World War II. The USS Quincy saw action in the Normandy Invasion at Utah Beach on June 6, 1944, supported troops in southern France, and was involved in the Battle of Okinawa. Vince and fellow crew members were awarded four Bronze Stars and the Victory Medal for their service. Upon returning from the war, Vince completed his undergraduate education at West Chester under the GI Bill, and married the love of his life, Audrey, with whom he raised two sons, Vincent and Craig. Vince was a passionate and gifted teacher. While he worked on building a successful career in teaching he also began his graduate work in education and earned a masters' degree in educational administration. His gifts, teaching experience and graduate work laid the groundwork for his transition from teacher to high school administrator. In that role, he continued to touch many, many young lives and took particular interest in struggling students. The calls and 'drop-ins' Vince received from former students through his final days were testament to the impact this inspiring educator had on young people. Vince culminated his career in education as an administrator with the Colonial School District in Plymouth Meeting, PA. In retirement, Vince continued to serve others. He volunteered for many years at Montgomery Hospital in Norristown, PA and his positive outlook and good humor brightened the days of countless patients. His passion for service turned to the Kiwanis Club of Cape May, NJ after he and Audrey decided to settle there. Vince re-established the daily flag-raising and -lowering ceremonies at the Cove, and used the ceremony as an opportunity to educate and engage youth in acts of patriotism. Vince was heavily involved in developing the World War II Memorial in Cape May and in planning the Annual 9-11 Remembrance. The "June 6, 1944" vanity plate on Vince's American-made Ford was his way of saying 'remember' and 'thank you'. Vince adored his sons, delighted in his grandchildren (and new great-grandson), and treated his daughters-in-law like the daughters he never had. Many hearts are made heavy at his passing, but are lightened knowing that he spent his final years, many happy years, in Cape May with his best friend Audrey and their many wonderful neighbors and friends, and that he spent his final days with his loving and devoted son Craig and his family, and among the countless new friends he met and fans he inspired while residing in New Canaan, CT. Vincent is preceded in death by wife Audrey (K. Jones), father, Vincent, mother, Mary (Onerato), and brother, Alex. He is survived by sons Vincent L (wife, Phyllis), and Craig S. (wife, Judi), grandchildren Vincent C. (wife, Megan), Scott, Trevor, Bryan C., Rachel, and Steven, and great-grandson, Luca. A Memorial Service will be held at 1:00 p.m., Monday, November 26, 2012 at Saint Mark's Episcopal Church, 111 Oenoke Ridge Road, New Canaan, CT. A light reception will follow at the Panzano family home, 139 Southwood Drive, New Canaan. Internment will occur with Full Military Honors in the spring, at the Parish Cemetery Washington Memorial Chapel, Valley Forge, PA. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made "In Memory of Vincent Panzano" to the New Canaan YMCA, 564 South Avenue, New Canaan, CT 06840, or the Cape May Kiwanis Foundation, 1041 Beach Drive, Cape May, NJ 08204.

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Published by The Times Herald from Nov. 16 to Nov. 17, 2012.

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Linda

November 17, 2013

Thank you Mr. P for your dedication & love to everyone who met you, especially us students! You will always be remembered with great fondness & wonderful spirit for people & life!!
My deepest sympathy to the Panzano family! Thank you for sharing Mr. Panzano with us all!

valerie saulino

December 13, 2012

Will always have fond memories of you Mr.P

James Fleming

November 24, 2012

My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family Mr Panzano. I was in your group ( Panzano boys ) and have nothing but the utmost respect for you and all your accomplishments. Rest in peace Mr. P

Anna Dare

November 23, 2012

My Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I tried to locate your father a few months back to thank him for who he was for me and I could never locate him. I was one of those struggling students and he never gave up and always gave me encouragement. He was truly a great Principal at PW and he made a difference for me and my life. My deepest Sympathy. Anna Dare

Woody Billings

November 23, 2012

I think of Mr Panzano often these many years later. I went to Plymouth Junior High in the mid-70's and was late quite often so I had to report to his office before going to class in the morning, and he said to me, "Your going to be late to your own funeral". So to this day, whenever I am late, I think of Mr. Panzano. I just hope he is right;). R.I.P. Sir.

Marie Carbo Tarsitano

November 20, 2012

Mr. Panzano was a great teacher in the Colonial School District...i remember him so very well...I am sending my thoughts to the Panzano Family at this sad time...RIP Mr. Panzano

Joe Marciano

November 20, 2012

I was one of those struggling students that was in the group that was affectionately called Panzano's bad boys group. He took a special interest in me, my father use to laugh and kid with me that Mr P. had a hot line right to my dad's office. He saw something in me that at that time I didn't and he believed in me.
I remeber seeing some time after my Plymouth Junior high school days he came up to me gave me a big hug and with tears in his eyes said with the pride of a father, I always knew you would make something of yourself.

He had such a profound affect on my life! May you rest in peace, I'm eternally gratefully for you helping to mold me into the man I am today.

November 20, 2012

Was a great neighbor. After his move to Cape May the neighbor hood was never the same. Wonderful man will be greatly missed.
Jane and Warren Strouse

November 19, 2012

RIP Mr. Panzano. You embodied everything that a teacher should be. The help you gave to struggling students is unsurpassed. I hope that you and your wife are together again in heaven.

Kent Donnelly

November 18, 2012

I am sorry to hear of his passing. He was my Vice Principal at Plymouth Junior High in 81 and 82. Also enjoyed to flag lowering ceremony in Cape May, I had no idea that was his doing. God Bless and Rest in Peace Sir.

Danielle DiLeo - Butterfield

November 17, 2012

I have thought of Mr Panzano often over the years and am sad to hear of his passing. He really was a very special man. Back when I went to PW and my parents were thinking of moving and I would not have been able to finish my last yr there. He and Mrs Panzano offered to let me live with then so I could finish out my time at PW. Not matter what the need was he always rose to the occasion. He truely was a hero. RIP Mr Panzano

Gerie DiLeo-Smith

November 17, 2012

RIP Mr Panzano

Sallyann McCurdy Seydel

November 17, 2012

RIP Mr P

Rebecca Schaffer

November 17, 2012

Mr. P was my vice principal in 9th and 10th grade at PW. I really liked him and he always had kind words for me. He was an amazing man, understanding and fair. RIP Sir, you touched so many lives and you will be missed by many.

November 17, 2012

Rest in Peace Mr. Panzano. You were my Principal at Plymouth Junior High back in the mid 1980's. You were strict but fair and very memorable! My thoughts and prayers to your family!

Sue Coady Crandall

Sharon Featheringill

November 17, 2012

Mr.Panzano believed in me, saw my value and worth, and made absolutely certain to creatively instill a belief of my own value and selfworth- as he did with all students.
He did not back down from a challenge... ever, and challenge him, I did.
His kind discipline truly exemplified his great respect for all of us: students and the society of our future.
I am very grateful to God for having known Mr.Panzano.
May God give you peace and comfort in the days and years ahead.

Joanne Ulsh

November 16, 2012

A fine teacher,administrator and a GREAT person. Many lives he touched. I was priveledged to be one of his students. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Panzano Family.

Laura L. McGuirk

November 16, 2012

Mr P.-May God bless you, hold you and love you as well as YOU did for all of us whose lives you have touched and helped shaped!!!-Thank you forever, not just for the WONDERFUL impact you had on my PERSONAL life, but for being willing to give your OWN life for MY freedom! I have, do, and always WILL LOVE YOU MR P!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!!! Teach the Angels how to sing with whistles!!!!

November 16, 2012

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

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