Name: Celebration of Life for Alfred Brien Heavener Jr.
Start: 2025-02-01T21:00:00.000Z
End: 2025-02-02T02:00:00.000Z
Location: Lemon Grove Moose Lodge

Olé. It's time to celebrate the 67 vibrant and chaotic years of Alfred Brien Heavener Jr affectionately known as "Mr. Padres," "Coach Al," and "The Whistler." Born on April 3, 1957, in New Jersey, Al brought his boundless energy and passion for life to every moment.

Sports were at the heart of Al's life. It was clear to anyone in earshot which side he was on (and wasn't - sorry Dodgers :) A devoted Padres season ticket holder, players and first base coaches alike recognized him, often tossing game balls his way-treasures he eagerly shared with kids in his section to spread his love for the game.

After serving in the Air Force, Al settled in California where he whistled his way through San Diego streets as a postal worker. A proud member of the union, he later channeled his leadership skills into dedicated service at the Moose Lodge, holding various roles over the years.

In retirement, Al kept his extroverted self busy. He continued enjoying sports both as a baseball player and later as a soccer and baseball coach for kids. He had a soft spot for the Special Needs community, assisting with Special Olympics and coaching VIP sports. A staple at Lemon Grove and Kearny Mesa Moose Lodges, he also enjoyed traveling-often following his favorite teams-and cherished time spent with friends, family, and his beloved dogs.

Al stayed in the game as long as he could and finally laid down his bat on December 9, 2024 in the company of family. He is deeply missed by his wife Marsha (Marty), children Billy and Briana, brother and sister-in-law Ken and Julie, niece Crystal, nephew Brandon, step daughters Tabatha and Sirena, 6 grandchildren, 5 great grandchildren and countless friends from all walks of life.

He will be laid to rest at the Miramar National Cemetery. A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, February 1st from 1-6 p.m. at the Lemon Grove Moose Lodge (9062 Memory Ln., Spring Valley, CA). Jerseys are encouraged-yes, even Dodgers fans-and no ties allowed. In true Al fashion: let's celebrate!

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Published by Times of San Diego from Jan. 18 to Jan. 20, 2025.

Memories and Condolences
for Alfred Heavener

Sponsored by Aztlan Mortuary - La Mesa.

9 Entries

Phyllis & Luis Arroyo

February 4, 2025

Al will always be remembered for his friendly ways and his kindness. May he rest in peace.

Rick & Pati Zambori

January 27, 2025

He loved the Madres and the Madres loved him, he spent his last year on the Board of Directors as 1st Vice President and he got to present the greatest kids as our guests. What fun.

Anne, Briana & Billy Heavener

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Anne Heavener

January 24, 2025

Al & I fell in love back in 1986. Although it did not endure, it gave us 2 beautiful children-Briana & Billy. That shared love for our children is what eventually led us back to our friendship. I am so thankful that Marty & her extended family were able to give Al the love & life he deserved!

Sandy Jukel

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Leonard Kemp

January 15, 2025

I believe it was the first time he went into the hospital. It was when he worked in PB. He was probably in his 40´s. I´m guessing because it´s been so long ago. I went to visit him and he was sleeping peacefully. So I sat with him for a couple of hours. I just sat watched him he had no clue I was even there! RIP Union Brother!

Kathleen Larr Lee

January 15, 2025

I was saddened to hear of Al´s passing. Growing up in Cinnaminson, Al was a neighbor & friend to me and two of my brothers. Lots of great memories hanging out with Al, Kenny and the neighborhood kids riding bikes, playing tag, & simply sitting on the back step talking, telling stories and jokes.
I was fortunate to meet up again with Al (later as an adult) when I lived with my brothers Mike and Joe in San Diego. It was like there was never a lapse in time, and shenanigans picked right back up again. So many fun times.
My deepest condolences to you all.
May you rest easy my friend.
Kathy Larr

Rose Becker

January 15, 2025

Al and I retired from the Post Office on the same day. We had so much fun at Work, Union Events, Conventions, Moose Lodge and more.
His famous words to me were "Security!" and "Are you going to eat all that!?" Al, you are dearly missed. Rest in Peace. Till we meet again!

Crystal Heavener

January 15, 2025

As far back as I dig my first
Memory is pulling up to his house when I was about 8 years old and he came out with a train whistle and yelled "all aboard you´ve arrive at uncle Al´s the kiddies pals!"

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