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Barbara Kirker Obituary

Kirker, Barbara LATHAM Barbara Kirker, 65, passed away peacefully Tuesday, April 28, 2015, surrounded by her family after a long and courageous battle with pancreatic cancer which she fought with dignity, grace, and humor. Barbara was the beloved wife of Sean R. Kirker for 46 years; loving mother of Sean Kirker (Beth), Kristen Munro (Bill) and Erin Alexander (John); cherished grandmother of Kasey, Ryan and Meghan Kirker, Liam, Connor, and Bridget Munro; Jack, Kelly and Kerry Alexander; sister of Jim Schuyler (Eileen), Marcia Watson (late Ken), Sue Bomba and Marianne Matatt (Dave); she is survived by many nieces, nephews and friends. Barbara retired from the DMV Communications Department. She also worked at Families for Prayer. She enjoyed sewing, shopping, and friends, but most of all spending time with her family and grandchildren. The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to the Community Hospice, especially Barbara's nurse Terry, and the staff at NYOH and Johns Hopkins. Relatives and friends are invited and may visit with the family Friday, May 1, 2015, from 4 to 7 p.m. at St. Pius X Church, Loudonville. Funeral services will be held Saturday, May 2, 2015, at 2 p.m. at St. Pius X Church, Loudonville, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated. Those wishing to remember Barbara Kirker in a special way may send a contribution to the Community Hospice, 295 Valley View Blvd., Rensselaer, NY 12144 or Christian Brothers Academy, 12 Airline Drive, Albany, NY 12205, where her son and grandsons attend. To leave a message for the family, obtain directions or view other helpful services please visit McveighFuneralHome.com

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Published by Albany Times Union from Apr. 30 to May 1, 2015.

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Mike Healy

May 5, 2015

Dear Kirker Family,

I was very shocked and saddened to learn of the passing of Mrs. Kirker. It was always a pleasure to talk with her and Mr. Kirker during Parent-Teacher conferences. The entire Kirker Family was among the "best" families I had the honor to be associated with during my time at Latham Ridge.

My condolences and prayers to a wonderful family!

Sincerely,
Mike Healy

Jim Evans

May 4, 2015

Deepest Condolences to the Kirker Family

Joan Gaylord

May 2, 2015

Chris and family. So sorry for your loss. Know that you now have a special Angel watching over all of you.

Lori Ernest

May 2, 2015

Sad indeed. Barbara was an amazing and kind woman. Always had a smile on her face and kind words to say. Please know I am sorry for your dear loss. May she rest in grace and peace.

May 1, 2015

I.was so shocked and saddened to learn of Barbara's death. I worked with Barbara at DMV and she was as beautiful on the inside as on the outside. Truly a lovely person. Please accept my deepest sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Penny Tetrault

Chris Alund

May 1, 2015

Sean, on behalf of all your friends at the Bureau of Public Work our deepest condolences. You were the consummate loving husband and father. God bless you and your family.

Robin Long

May 1, 2015

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Barb. I had the pleasure to work with Barb for several years at DMV. She was a wonderful and caring person. My condolences to her family.

Matthew Alexander

May 1, 2015

Sean, John and Erin and all, I hope the pain of loss is soon replaced by memories of Barbara's love of friends and family and visions of her smile and style that brightened the rooms and people she encountered. Her grace and class forged her place in our memories as being of the cloth of the best of the greatest generation that preceded her and that create the foundations for our sense of values, honor and pride.

Ashley Smith

May 1, 2015

Barbara's Family - So sorry to here of your loss. May god give you strength and lead you through your grief and sorrow. I grew very fond of Barbara, the time I got to enjoy conversation and laughter with her. Always smiling and loved talking about her family. May she be at peace now. Such a fighter and so strong! Love Always - Ashley Smith (NYOH)

Alan Alcott

May 1, 2015

I'll forever picture Barbara beaming in the summer sun... bright eyes and stellar smile brimming with her passion for life, love of family, and boundless courage. My heartfelt condolences to sweet Sean, precious Erin, each and every Munro and Kirker and Alexander who will love and adore the beautiful Barbara always... in all ways.

Tom & Lynn Rosano

May 1, 2015

Sean and family- so saddened to hear of Barb's passing. Sending love and prayers your way.

May 1, 2015

Met Barbara as a fellow volunteer at the airport military Courtesy Room and am very sorry to learn of her passing on. Her wonderful personality and kind manner made all the troops feel welcome and she was truly a pleasure to know. Prayers and God Bless to the family, though gone from this life she will always be with you.
Tim Donnelly

May 1, 2015

To Sean & Family,
Our deepest condolences to You & Your Family during this difficult time. May the memories of Barb comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead. Rest in Peace, dear Barbara, your smile & sense of humor will always be remembered.
Dean Tessitore & Deryck deMatas
Loudonville, New York

Amanda S

May 1, 2015

Barb was a wonderful woman, full of light even when she was ill. It was a honor to serve her here at NYOH. Know that we extend you all our love, prayers, and thoughts. This is a loss that hits close to home with all of us here. If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. She will be missed, but forever loved.

Jean

April 30, 2015

Sean and Family, you are in my thoughts prayers. May you always remember the wonderful times you shared as a Family.
Rest in Peace, Barbara!

Arleen & Michael Schafer

April 30, 2015

Sean, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Barb was a beautiful, loving person whom we've enjoyed getting to know through our military connections. Know that we are always here for you.

Juanita Osment

April 30, 2015

Sean and Family: my thoughts and prayers are with you all. Barb will always be a special part of so many. I'm so thankful for All the wonderful memories. Love and Prayer Juanita

April 30, 2015

Sean,
So sorry to hear about Barbara. I will always remember her beautiful smile. Prayers to you and your family.

Ellen Loe (Kellogg)

Maureen Vet

April 30, 2015

Sean and Family:
Please accept my sincere condolences on your loss. Barbara was a lovely person and will be missed by everyone who was fortunate enough to know her.

Sincerely,
Maureen (Clancy) Vet

MIMI STEFFENS

April 30, 2015

Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. You are all in our prayers.
Mimi, Stephen & Thomas

Lori Gibbons

April 30, 2015

Such a sweet, caring and funny lady. This is a tremendous loss to many people. I have so many fond and happy memories of Barbie. My deepest condolences to Sean and all of her family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Peck

April 30, 2015

God saw she was getting tired and a cure was not to be, so, he put his arms around her and whispered, "Come with me." With Tearful eyes we watched her suffer, and saw her fade away. She was so loved by many, however, could not make her stay.

leslie dykeman

April 30, 2015

Sean
I am saddened to read this news about Barbara. What a beautifully long life you shared. My sympathies to you and your family. Your grade school classmate,

Donna Walter

April 30, 2015

Barb was a happy, loving, and caring person. Proud of her family, she was a great Mom, Grandma and sister. Prayers are with you all, know that she will be watching over you from heaven.

Eryn Giordano

April 30, 2015

Thinking and praying for your family daily. May God give you strength and peace during such a difficult time. Love you all. Eryn-

Melinda Stuber

April 30, 2015

I only met Barb a few times through her friends, but she was obviously a great person, and I'm sure she will be sorely missed. I'm very sorry for the family's loss; you are in my thoughts during this sad time.

Lisa Bedian

April 30, 2015

Please know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. If you need anything at all we are here for you.
Love, The Bedians

Geoffrey Holodook

April 30, 2015

Sean & Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Kathy Romano

April 30, 2015

A beautiful light has gone out of this world, but Heaven and all of it's people rejoice at their great fortune....Barbara is home. I will miss you my friend. God bless all of the Kirkers. Barbara's grace is very apparent in each one of you. So now may you carry on her legacy. You are a remarkable family, with great courage, strength and love. I will keep you in my prayers.

Jessica Krass (Lenaghan)

April 29, 2015

Sean and family,
Our thoughts and prayers go to you all during this difficult time. She was an amazing person. Please let us know if you need anything

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