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Ben Castle

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Ben Castle obituary, 1935-2022, Delmar, NY

BORN

1935

DIED

2022

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Delmar, New York

Ben Castle Obituary

Castle, Ben DELMAR Ben Castle, 86, passed away on April 7, 2022, at the Community Hospice Inn at St Peter's Hospital, with his wife at his side. He was born in Dolgeville, N.Y. on December 13, 1935, to Beatrice Benjamin and Edwin Castle and was predeceased by his sister, Elizabeth and brother, William. Ben moved to the Delmar area in 1950. He was a member of Boy Scout Troop 75 and became their youngest Eagle Scout. He enjoyed many summers camping and working at the camp at Stratton Mountain. He was a graduate of Bethlehem Central High School, SUNY Oneonta with a B.S. and M.S. in science education and a science supervisor certificate from SUNY Albany. He also proudly served with the Merchant Marines before entering college. He taught high school science in Islip, N.Y. and in the Ravena-Coeymans-Selkirk school districts before spending his final years of teaching and science supervision in the South Colonie school district, where he also coached their varsity soccer team. Ben had many interests and talents. In addition to coaching at South Colonie, he coached the Varsity Girls team at Bethlehem Central when his daughter's team was without a coach. He also coached various Little League soccer teams and taught canoeing for the Red Cross in the summers at Silver Bay. As a teacher, he had many summers free, so he formed Castle Care, a home painting company, which he ran way into his retirement years. He loved canoeing, kayaking, and skiing with his children and instilled a love for summering at Cape Cod and Ogunquit, Maine. He enjoyed travel and had visited, with his wife and family, much of the U.S. and Scotland. He was a 55-year member of the Delmar Reformed Church where he served as elder and deacon as well as Sunday school superintendent. The blue church doors are the lasting result of Ben's handiwork. Ben loved bowling, and always had entertaining stories of bowling with friends. He was an avid gardener and became an expert tomato sauce maker, soup maker and baker. He shared his culinary treats with friends and neighbors and always had cookies for his mail carrier. The loves of his life were his wife, of 60 years, Barbara Baxter Castle; his daughter, Julia (Peter) Steltmann of Fairport, N.Y.; and his sons, Glenn of Delmar, and Steven (Kris) of Lexington, Ky. He is also survived by his wonderful grandchildren, Ian Steltmann, Quinn Steltmann, Fiona Castle, Hadley Castle, Spencer Castle, and Emerson Jiramillo. A memorial service will be held in the Delmar Reformed Church on Saturday, May 21, at 11 a.m. Visiting hours will be from 10 to 11 a.m. at the church. Those wishing to remember Ben in a special way may make memorial contributions to The Community Hospice, 310 S. Manning Blvd., Albany, NY, 12208 or Bethlehem Senior Services, 445 Delaware Ave., Delmar, NY, 12054. applebeefuneralhome.com

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Published by Albany Times Union on Apr. 17, 2022.

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Christopher Newborn

December 20, 2024

My extended condolences to all the family. We had great conversations just before band practice.

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October 14, 2022

Thanks for posting this. Ben and I shared a friendship of many years through Scouting in Delmar and work at the Stratton Mt., Vt. Scout Camp (see Photo). He was a welcome member to our family in Delmar and also kindly remembered by my sister Nancy. We wish him to be well remembered by our BCHS school friends including Ruth McChesney Becker and the remnants of Troop 75 in Delmar.

Don Sheldon

April 17, 2022

My sincere sympathy to Barbara and family on the passing of Ben.
He was a person to be proud of and all I can say is being a long time friend meeting him a few years ago at bowling, was always looking forward to getting there early and chatting with him with his multiple stories and knowledge on any topic. May he now RIP being missed by anyone who knew him.

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