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Brian O'Toole Obituary

O'Toole, Brian F. (Makepeace) ITHACA Brian F. O'Toole (Makepeace), 62, formerly of Glenmont, died on May 30, 2016, from complications of multiple myeloma. He was surrounded by his adoring family. Brian was a loving father and grandfather. He was passionate about his writings and expressing his thoughts and ideas. He was a gifted artist and oil painter and enjoyed golf and music. Predeceased by his parents, Jack and Lorraine O'Toole; survivors include his four sons, Aidan of Venice, Calif., Liam of Ithaca, Finian of Venice, Ciaran of Ithaca; his former wife and caregiver, Emily Makepeace of Ithaca; and siblings, Kevin O'Toole of Voorheesville, Kathleen Davis of Winchester, Mass., and Megan O'Toole of Delmar. He is also survived by six grandchildren, Eamon, Harper, Rohan, Olivia, Lochlan, and Zoli. Donations may be made in Brian's memory to the Angel Fund at the Cancer Resource Center of the Finger Lakes, 612 West State St., Ithaca, NY 14850.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Jun. 2, 2016.

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Cole Taylor

June 6, 2016

I am sorry to hear of Brian's passing and my thoughts are with his family during this difficult time. Brian was a good man, talented artist, and a great story teller with an excellent sense of humor. I knew Brian best in high school and appreciated his friendship and fine family.

Dee Capella

June 5, 2016

Megan, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. May your memories help you through this difficult time.

Susan Smi

June 4, 2016

So very saddened by this. Love, strength and prayers to all.

June 3, 2016

Emily, Aidan, Liam, Finian, Ciaran - Sorry I didn't make the gathering at the winery on Wednesday, but I was thinking about Brian, for sure. We had some great times in high school, and later on. And when he came to visit, I always sat back, beer in hand, and enjoyed his "dissertations" on the topics of the day. And he had a lot of 'em. I hope somebody got a chance to read him the text I sent him earlier this week. I think he would have appreciated it. He was a good friend, and a very unique guy. I'm glad I have my portrait to remember him by. Thanks Emily, for being there. Dave Eyres

Charlie & Dotty Spath

June 2, 2016

To the Entire O'Toole Family -

We were so very saddened to learn of the passing of Brian. I have many fond memories of hanging out with Brian at all the Card Club picnics and other events. I fondly remember playing golf with him many times when we were much younger. He was a wonderful guy and will be missed. He was way too young for this to happen. Please know that your are all in our thoughts and prayers as you endure this tragic loss. We offer our heartfelt condolences.

Maryann Naylor

June 2, 2016

Megan, so sorry for your loss. He was way too young. May your many memories sustain you during this difficult time.

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