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Connie Van Houter Obituary

Van Houter, Connie A. ALBANY Connie A. Van Houter, 60, went home to be with her Lord suddenly on September 17, 2011 at St. Peter's Hospital in Albany. Connie was born on June 2, 1951, in Albany, the daughter of the Late Esther (Scott) and James Traynham. Connie was a 1970 graduate of Philip Schuyler High School. She retired from the NYS Department of Motor Vehicles, having worked as a senior data entry operator in the fatal unit. During her employment, she was very active in the local CSEA 374 Union, having served as vice president. Connie will be remembered for her kind and generous spirit. She cherished her family, grandchildren and had a fond love of Angels. Loving wife of William P. Van Houter III; loving mother of Tonya "Nikki" (Joseph) Chapple, Sharon (Louis) Malcolm, William P. "Cheeks" (Nyquesia) Van Houter IV and Emesia Quarry; cherished sister of Maudine Morman, David (Brenda) Traynham and Tobey (Stacy) Traynham; grandmother to Dominique, Monique, Angelique, A'lea, Da'Mazion, William V., Na'Zyi, Jo'Leyla and Hynefah. Connie was predeceased by her brother James (Booie) Traynham, Jr. and Maxine Morman. Connie leaves her special sisters Jocelyn Bland and Gail Harris and several special nieces, nephews, cousins and relatives. Funeral service will be held on Friday, September 23, 2011, at 11 a.m. at New Horizons Christian Church, 146 Catherine St., Albany, NY 12202. Visitation will precede from 9-11 a.m. To leave a special message for the family online, visit www.newcomeralbany.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Sep. 20 to Sep. 22, 2011.

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October 11, 2011

Mr. Van Houter & Dearest family..
Please know...You all are in our daily Thought's, an most loving Blessings. My Heart aches for you all, as my husband, an childrem, were at your side, PRAYING with you, for Dear Connie to make it. We watched as medical team worked so hard.... Deeply sadden's us all, to know...Connie left us. Your beautiful "ANGEL" is now watching over all of you. GOD BLESS...May Peace come to you all, in time. Our most Heartfelt Sympathy to you all.
Howard & Alice Nichols Pattersonville, N.Y.

Sharon Malcolm

October 7, 2011

To my Father, my sister and my brother,
I sit up late at night and I thank GOD for blessing us with such a great mother, teacher, shoulder to cry on and role modle. I cry not of regret I cry because of the whole that was left in my heart and it won't heal. I pray the days get shorter and the nights are peaceful. Mom I will get to hang out with you again. love your Babygirl, your friend, your daughter Sharon

Gail Papa

September 29, 2011

To the Van Houter family. I am so sorry to hear of Connies passing. It was a shock to me. She was a special person. We worked together at Motor Vehicle for many years. I am truly sorry. Gail & Joe Papa

Cora Armstrong

September 27, 2011

David and family, although I did not get to know Connie personally. I did get to meet her. What a beautiful smile and sweet personality.

God cares and shares in your sorrow.

Tonya (nikki) Chapple

September 27, 2011

On behalf of my Dad, Sister, Brother, Sons-in-Law, Daughter-in-law, Grandchildren and Myself we would like to say Thank You weather it was a card, a hug a smile, a word of encouragement, food and prayers.
The Vanhouter, Chapple and Malcolm Family.

GRETCHEN DAVIDSON

September 26, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Coleman Young (Rocky)

September 24, 2011

Our prayers are with you.

Chick & Debra Burns

September 24, 2011

To the Van Houter and Traynham Family,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss.

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you

during this difficult time.

Cherie Quarterman

September 23, 2011

Billy & kids: Zola, Craven & I are so sad to hear about your wife, mom & my dearest friend. One thing Im so happy about is when I think of Connie I automatically smile. She will be & is already missed. Im here for you & of course you always have my prayers. We love you all. Cherie, Lil Zola & Craven

Cherie Quarterman

September 23, 2011

Billy & kids: Zola, Craven & I are so sad to hear about your wife, mom & my dearest friend. One thing Im so happy about is when I think of Connie I automatically smile. She will be & is already missed. Im here for you & of course you always have my prayers. We love you all. Cherie, Lil Zola & Craven.

Tamara Thorpe-Odom

September 23, 2011

Miss Connie will always be a treasured memory in my heart. Remembering all thw wonderful times as a little girl in the choir.The encouragement she gave helped me to extend the same to other young people. She will be missed. Take comfort that she is with the Lord!

Tom Gildea

September 23, 2011

To Bill and Family, Our deepest sympathies, may God be with you in your time of need, Tom and Jillann Gildea

Gail Tanksley-Harris

September 22, 2011

My Dear Family,

I loved my sister Connie like she was my very own blood sister.We have been true friends since teenagers.Me,Connie and Jocelyn.It was like love at first sight.

My heart is so very heavy,however,I have the peace in knowing that she is safe in God's Arms.May Gods Grace And Mercy confort all of us during this very difficult time.

I Miss you Connie!!! MY best friend,I will hold those beautiful,precious memories in my heart forever and ever.

Gail & John Harris

September 22, 2011

To the Van Houter and Traynham Family

Sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you.

Lynda and Sharae Jury

Cassand leigh

September 22, 2011

So sorry for your loss.

Cassand Leigh

September 22, 2011

To the Van Houter and Traynham family,

We send out much love and prayers to you all, especially during this time in your lives. May God strenghten you all in the inner man with power and might. Just remember there is nothing to hard for God.

Much love,
Leroy & Sandra Graham

Stephanie Kolonkowski

September 22, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Deborah and Caree

September 22, 2011

Dear Monique and Family,

We are sorry to hear of the passing of your grandmother. We know how close you were to her and how much you loved her. Know that she is with God resting peacefully in his arms. Remember and cherish the memories and good times you shared with her. Know that she loved you unconditionally will forever remain in your heart. We pray that God will continue to give you strength during this time of transition. God Bless you and your family. We love you.

September 22, 2011

I am deeply saddened for your loss. God Bless.
Bobby Mcneal

Deborah Clark

September 22, 2011

To Nikki, Sharon, and J.R
You have my deepest sympathy at the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Connie was a good spirited person and a great friend; she will surely be missed by all.

Tamieka Johnson

September 22, 2011

VanHouter & Traynham Family,

We send our condolscences at this time.

Love Always,
Tamieka & Marionette Johnson

Valerie Scott

September 22, 2011

To The Family, I worked with Connie and she was always a joy to work with. Never unpleasant - always a smile and a kind word. May GOD Bless and Be With Each And Every Member of Her Family.

Wanda L Reed

September 22, 2011

Dear Family: We grieve with you and you are constantly in our prayers. May the sweet memories of Connie bring you smiles and the love of God bring you peace and comfort. We love you!

Wanda, Tiffani and Family

September 22, 2011

Nikki, Sharon and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Your mom greeted everyone with a wonderful smile and a beautiful spirit. You two ladies also have those same qualities. Lean not unto your own understanding... Trust the Lord.
Love,
Toni Teabout-Frazier and Family

Joyce Patterson

September 22, 2011

To the Family,
I send my heartfelt condolences to each and everyone. May God continue to hold you in his arms and direct your paths. Look to the Hills from Which Comes our Help, It All comes from the Lord.

Qua' Nesha White

September 22, 2011

To the Vanhouter family, During times of heartache, we can turn to God, first for solace and then for renewal. When we do, He comforts us, in time, He heals us. I Love U All.. RIP Fema U Will Be Missed <3

Denise Slaughter- Arrington

September 22, 2011

To Billy, Chuckie & Family,
I am so sory to hear of your loss. I haven't seen Connie in years, but remember her as being a very sweet person. God is good. She is in a better a place. My prayers are with you.

Howard & Alice Nichols

September 22, 2011

Our most HEARTFELT sympathy, to Mr. Van Houter, an loving family. We were at your side, an Prayed with you, while medical team, tryed to keep Connie with us. We are deeply sadden, for your loss. May GOD bring you comfort an PEACE... RIP Dear Connie.

Victoria Grimes

September 22, 2011

To The Family,

So Sorry for your loss, much heartfelt
sympathy may God give you comfort in a time such as this.

God Bless,
Vickie Grimes&Family

COCO ANDERSON

September 22, 2011

TO THE FAMILY,
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME. YOUR MOM IS GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN!

September 22, 2011

To the Houter and Traynham families: I am very sorry for your lose, may the Lord bless Connie's soul. And may God watch over the rest of the families. God Bless.
Stan Everett & the Everett Family Albany N.Y.

Jeannette DeBonis

September 21, 2011

To Billy,Nicki,Sharon,JR,& Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. The memories we have will be with us forever. The good times and the sad times and the laughs and fun we had. Connie was a great friend and co-worker. She loved my artichokes and I loved her. Will miss you Connie, always,
Jeannette DeBonis

September 21, 2011

bill and family sorry to hear about connie she will be missed by family and friends connie was all about family and friends.Dan and sue sullivan.

Renee Faulkner

September 21, 2011

To Connie's Family & Friends..Please accept my most heartfelt condolences on her passing.

Patricia Rizzi

September 20, 2011

To the Van Houter Family,
I would like to extend my heartfelt sympathy and prayers at this difficult time. Connie was an amazing lady who was a great friend to many. Her smile and positivity could light up any room she was in. May all of the wonderful memories we have of her help ease our sorrow and keep her spirit alive in each one of us. Heaven has truly gained an angel. You will be missed my friend...love ya.

September 20, 2011

To Connie's Family: I was so sorry to hear about Connie's passing. I met her many years ago through my niece, Jeannette DeBonis. I can remember what a happy person she was - so full of life. My condolences to all of you. May she RIP.

Yolanda Sorrento Caola, Troy, NY

Karyn Provost Marinucci

September 20, 2011

Sharon,
I'm so sorry about your mother. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Karyn Provost Marinucci (St. Peter's Home Care)

Velma Miller & Family

September 20, 2011

To Billy, Sharon and Family. Sorry for your loss. Connie was a good person and she will be missed. You have our deepest sympathy and may God watch over your family during this difficult time.

Brenda Parson

September 20, 2011

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Dina Alexander

September 20, 2011

Billy and Family,

Sorry to hear about Connie. You have my deepest sympathy and prayers for strength. Look to the Hills from whench cometh your help, your help comes from the Lord.

Joe & Barbara Roberts

September 20, 2011

Dear Billy and Family

You have our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are for you and your family. Connie was a great friend.
We will miss her. God Bless you and Family...

Deborah Bedard

September 20, 2011

Sharon and family,

Sorry to hear about you mom, my thoughts and prayer are with you all.

Deborah Clark

September 20, 2011

To Billy
You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your wife. Connie will surely be missed.

September 20, 2011

To Billy and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all at this very difficult time. Connie was a great friend she will be missed. God Bless. ~Tony, Isabel & Family.

Joyce D Williams

September 20, 2011

I watched you being formed in your mother's womb...you knew me.
I watched as you took your first step...you knew me
I watched through those terrible teenage years...you knew me
I watched you blossom into adulthood...you knew me
I watched you tell the story of the virgin birth...you knew me
I watched you fight for the right to praise My name...you knew me
I watched you suffer in silence and heard you whisper My name...you knew me
I watched you in your pain give honor and glory to My name...you knew me
Now my child I am bringing you home, it is time for you to rest...I know you.
Well done my good and faithful servant, well done.

Family stay focused on Christ and He will bring you through this difficult time. My prayers are with you all.
Your Sister in Christ,

Donna Lepik

September 20, 2011

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

September 20, 2011

My prayers are with the family at this very difficult time. My love to Maudine and family. Love Heidi

Barbara Hood

September 20, 2011

I just want to share my deepest sorrow for your loss. Connie was a great lady and will be missed. Billy, Maude, David and family may God comfort you during this difficult time.

Marlene Poulopoulos

September 20, 2011

Dear Billy,
Connie was a lovely lady. God Be with you and your Family. And remember you have your own special Angel up there,making everything special for you. Marlene

Dawn Ibrahim

September 20, 2011

To Billy and family, We're so sorry to hear of your loss. Connie was such funny to be around and will truly be missed. May keep God keep and comfort you during this difficult time. Love, Vella, Betty, Dawn, and Nadia.

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