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Denise M. Slovak

Denise Slovak Obituary

NISKAYUNA Denise M. Slovak (nee Falvo), 39, of Lexington Parkway, Niskayuna, from complications arising out of childbirth, in the early morning of July 4, 2006. Baby Jessica Grace Slovak was born at St. Clare's Hospital on the 4th of July 2006. Denise was born on April 15, 1967 in Schenectady, the daughter of Frank L. Falvo and the late Grace M. Romano Falvo (2002). She was a 1985 graduate of the former Linton High School and had attended Herkimer Valley Community College. Several years later, she joined the family business as an insurance broker and served as vice president of the F.L. Falvo Agency in Schenectady. Denise was a member of (P.I.A.) Professional Insurance Agents of America and volunteered her time with several organizations. She worked as a volunteer for breast cancer research, contributed to the success of St. Clare's Follies and coached Special Olympics. Denise played organized mixed softball for the City Justice League at Central Park and was an enthusiastic New York Yankees fan. She married Michael S. Slovak on October 13, 2001 at St. Mary's Church in Schenectady. She was predeceased by her mother in January 2002 as well as her maternal grandparents, Joseph and Carmella Romano. She leaves her loving husband, Michael; son, Joseph P. Slovak and newborn daughter, Jessica Grace; her father, Frank L. Falvo; her brothers, Frank J. Falvo and his wife Noelle, Daniel L. Falvo and his wife Tammy of Rexford and David N. Falvo of Natick, Mass. She is survived by her father-in-law and mother-in-law, Peter and Bonnie Slovak of Rotterdam and sister-in-law, Christine S. Primiano and her husband Anthony of Schenectady. Denise was the special niece to the Reverend Joseph Romano of Ft. Lauderdale, Fla. Several aunts, uncles and cousins also survive. Relatives and friends will be received Friday, July 7, at the Glenville Funeral Home, 9 Glenridge Rd., East Glenville from 4-8 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday 9 a.m. at St. John the Evangelist Roman Catholic Church, Union St., Schenectady. Entombment will follow in Most Holy Redeemer Cemetery, Niskayuna. Memorials may be made to the Slovak Children's Trust Fund that will be established at Trustco Bank or to Susan B. Komen Foundation, Breast Cancer Research. On-line family condolences to www.glenvillefuneralhome.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Jul. 6 to Jul. 7, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Denise Slovak

60 Entries

Demi Bouck

July 3, 2007

I can't believe it's already been a year Denise, I love and miss you so much.

Demi Bouck

July 3, 2007

I can't believe it's already been a year Denise, I miss and love you so much.

Lou Carol Valentino Comley

July 1, 2007

As we approach this very difficult day of July 4 th, we are filled with many emotions. Most of questions of Why? While, I know in this life, I will never know the answer, I think I know what you would have wanted. We will celebrate Jessica's 1 st Birthday. We will believe, that you are with your Mom in a better place. I'm sure you are looking down. Wecan hear you telling all of us, "Be strong." "We will all be together someday for eternity, and that eternity is FOREVER." "Our life here is just a short visit." We will always love you, Denise!

Lou Carol Comley

April 16, 2007

Denise - Yesturday should have been a "Happy 40 th Birthday", but instead we stand and pray for the strength and answers to why?? Why were you taken from us? Why were you taken from Micheal? Why were you taken from Joseph and Jessica? I don't think we'll ever understand. As the seasons pass, we hope that life without you might get a little easier, but that is a very tall hope, as you were an angel on earth. We can only hope that you knew then, what we know more than ever now. How much you meant to all of us!

Patty Bouck

April 15, 2007

Happy 40th Birthday Denise...love and miss you so much, Love Patty

Lou Carol Valentino Comley

December 6, 2006

Missing You, is an understatement! As the hours turn into days, the days into weeks and weeks into months, we are all faced with the reality, that this is not just a bad dream. It is taking everything we all have, to try to do, what you did so loving and naturally. As a Mother, Daughter, Sister, cousin and friend, we all knew you were here for us. I believe you still are. I thank you for the many gifts you gave all of us. Joseph and Jessica being the most precious. We count on you to give us the strength we need to provide a Happy Holiday Season for them, because we know you would not want it any other way. You were only in our lives for a short time, but you are in our hearts forever.

Demi Bouck

November 8, 2006

Only Heaven Knows by Demi Bouck

July 4, 2006
A miracle and tragedy appeared to exist,

A young beautiful mother who couldn't wait for this day
Brought shock and confusion and a time to pray,

"It's a girl!" shouted the doctor as he passed her to a nurse
"Why Denise?" we all questioned as we gathered around her hearse,

A birthday and death in a matter of seconds
A torn family and husband now alone with two kids,

"Mommy's lost?" questioned Joseph her two and a half year old son
Right then and there we knew the pain had just begun,

Four months have now passed us by
Not a day in between without tears in our eyes,

Baby Jessica is growing happy and healthy,
A smile like her mothers, NO! this can't be,

Flashing back, it seemed like just yesterday she was holding her belly,
Anticipating the day she would be holding her baby,

Reality sets in, looking at her name on the grave,
Crying and screaming, "God why couldn't this wait?",

So many questions with the answers unheard of,
As we sit reminiscing about the Denise we all knew and loved,

The pain and suffering from her loved ones will continue to show,
Having to accept she's an angel now, "Why?" only Heaven knows....

Lou Carol Valentino Comley

September 7, 2006

On

September 3 rd, Jessica Grace was Christened. The invitations that you

made, were sent to everyone you wanted to wittness this Event. She was

Christened, just as you, Denise would have wanted her to be. She was

dressed in the very same Christening Gown that you wore, the day Aunt

Dot and Uncle Jack brought you to God's House. Pictures of Jessica were

given, just as you did for Joseph. The cake was that of your Mom's

favorite (all of ours too) recipe. The Goodie Bags were passed out to

all the children. Joseph had fun. His smile, is your smile! Frankie and

Tammy made a committment

to help Micheal raise Jessica in the Christen Faith, while your Uncle Joey performed the ceromony. Danny took

pictures, so no one would ever forget the love that was shared that

day. David has risen to the occassion of helping in whatever way he can

with the children. While we all grieve, I know your Dad is hurting very

badly. It is very hard to watch a him grieve for both his

Wife and his daughter in such a short period of time. One more thing, I

could not help but notice the constant drizzle of rain that feel

Sunday. I

believe it was you looking down. Sad that we were all holding your

children, but proud of the love that was shown that day and every day

since you left us. Denise, you are gone, but will never be forgotten.

Love, your cousin, Lou Carol

Patricia Burns

July 28, 2006

Our deepest sympathy to all of Denise's family. She was a ray of sunshine. Through and through, a beautiful spirit. Her smile and sense of humor were amazing. Truly, Denise was an exceptional example of a great mother and a wonderful woman. The Burns family of Cutting Edge Tree, Niskayuna

Laurie Jenkins

July 21, 2006

Dear Frank,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I will pray that God keeps you all close to His heart. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and keep you.

Chris Farley/Farley Insurance

July 17, 2006

MIKE & FRANK, MY PRAYERS FOR YOU OVER THE LOSS OF YOUR WIFE. I ATTENDED CE COURSES WITH DENISE AND KNEW MIKE FROM SOFTBALL. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

Christopher Jung

July 15, 2006

Frank Jr and Family,

Frank I recently heard the news of the untimely passing of Denise. I am so sorry for your loss. What a great woman. I remember her during the high school years and she always greeted you with a warm and caring smile. My sympathies go out to you and your family during this very difficult time.

Christopher Jung

DePaulo Insurance Agency

July 14, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this tragic time.

Lou Carol Valentino Comley

July 10, 2006

We can not measure a life time in the number of years someone has walked the Earth, but we should measure a life by the number of lives someone has touched. There is no one who will ever replace Denise. The love of her family, the care and the compassion for everyone she knew, even those she did not, can never be replaced. When I think of someone other than Denise rocking those two babies to sleep, I have to believe that maybe they are there physically, but Denise is rocking them through the Heavens. Micheal she was blessed to have found you, at a time in her life where she might have questioned what was good in this world. Thank you for being her Prince and the Father of her children. Please remember you are not alone. If there is anything this family has done well, we have learned to support each other when life seems so unfair.

Your Friends at Activehost Corp.

July 10, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jackie Huber

July 9, 2006

To the Falvo & Slovak Family,

Words can not express how deeply sorry & saddened I am on the passing of Denise. I have been a client of the agency for the last 10 yrs. or so & whenever I had a question or concern about something it was always Denise that took care of everything. I will miss her. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this very difficult time. May God give you courage & strength to carry on. May God Bless You all.

Philip & Mary Febo

July 8, 2006

To Frank L. and the Falvo/Slovak Family,

We are deeply saddened by the news of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathy. You and your family are in our prayers. God Bless.

Eva Rivers (Spiller)

July 8, 2006

Dear Falvo, Slovack Families,

I was so saddened to hear the news of Denise's passing. She always had a smile, and was a pleasure to know. Please accept my sincere condolences.

Kellie Romano

July 8, 2006

I was shocked to hear of this news. I feel this tragedy especially touches those of us who are mothers. I will not soon forget this and the sorrow her family is feeling. The one thing I do remember about Denise was that thousand watt smile of hers, she could light up any room! I graduated with Danny ( my maiden name was Hansen) and my son went to preschool with Noelle's son.

My prayers are with all of you.

Sandra Slingerland

July 8, 2006

The support and saddness in the room last night was a sign of how many people's hearts Denise touched. No one will ever replace that beautiful smile that could warm your heart.

I hope the family will see that same smile on Jessica Grace's face someday.

I know Denise is watching and has lit up a bit of heaven with her kindness, caring and most of all her love for you Mike, and her children,The tradgedies this family has had to endure seem so unfair. Denise, please know that you will be forever in our prayers and thoughts

Love, Cousin Sandra

Philip Febo

July 8, 2006

To The Falvo / Slovak Family's,

I had not seen Denise since high school. The news of her death brought back memories of that "beautiful smile" she possessed and those kind words that she often spoke with that soft voice of hers. After reading some of the other testimony's, I realize a true Angel was among us while her time here on earth. She has left her spirit within her children and family. She will be remembered. My deepest condolences to each and every one of you. May God Bless you.

Valerie Hollenback

July 7, 2006

Mike, Joseph , and Jessica--

My prayers are with you during this time. Denise was a Beautiful Wonderful Caring person and she will be greatly missed. I'm here for you if you need anything don't be scared to call.

God Bless

Barbara Morbidelli

July 7, 2006

Dear Frank and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. God bless all of you. I pray that you will find peace.

Charlotte & Stan Hablutzel

July 7, 2006

We felt compelled to write. Please know that we are praying that God will give you the grace to go through this tragedy of losing a wife, a daughter, a Mom,and a sister. What was suppose to be a blessed event in all your lives in having a new baby turned out to end in tragedy. There is no answer why this would happen but God in his infinate wisdom chose Denise to be with Him. Our hearts are hurting with you. Always remember the memories of Denise and she will live with you in each of your heart.

Paul DeLorenzo

July 7, 2006

Denise-

Your sweet and loving heart touched everyone you knew. Your caring ways will always inspire us.

Judi DeMarco

July 7, 2006

To the family of Denise-I knew her through the Insurance circle and we

volunteered with Special Olympics together. I just saw her a month or so ago, with her son. I am devastated, she was a beautiful person inside and out. my prayers go with you.Love, Judi DeMarco

Deborah Davis

July 7, 2006

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

david huffman

July 7, 2006

to the falvo/slovak family

may god bless you and your family in this time grief on the loss of your daughter/mother

Dave Matteo

July 7, 2006

My deepest sympathy for you and your family at this sad time.

May you endure these days of loss and arrive at a place of peace and understanding.

Lisa Hughes

July 7, 2006

Mr. Falvo, I'm sooo sorry for your loss! As you know I never met Denise but yet felt like I had known her for years! She was that precious voice on the phone and always said, Hi! "Hi Denise, is your dad there?" Sure Lis hold on..

I'm speechless! Please please know you are in my prayers!

To Denise's husband and children, I can't even come up with the words to express how sorry I am for your loss! I pray you can find the strength to go on! Denise would want you to!!

My thoughts and prayer go out to Denise's entire family and her friends!

July 7, 2006

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006

Frank/DeDe Hausner

July 7, 2006

Dear Michael, Frank, & families,

Our deepest, deepest sympathy. We were tenents of Frank & Grace in 1969 on Lenox Road.

Dave Matteo

July 6, 2006

My deepest sympathy for you and your family at this sad time.

May you endure these days of loss and arrive at a place of peace and understanding.

Lisa Miner

July 6, 2006

Mike and Family

I am so very sad for you all. There just aren't any words to be said. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

John and Wanda Cadieux

July 6, 2006

Dear Frank Sr. and Family

Our heartfelt and deepes sympathy to the whole family. We are so sorry and saddned in the loss of our beautiful girl DENISE. Our prayers are with her and her family. May she rest in peace.

John and Wanda Cadiuex

July 6, 2006

ericka mcghee

July 6, 2006

My deepest sympathies to the family. May God be with you during this most difficult time.

Dean Tessitore

July 6, 2006

To the Family of Denise Falvo Slovak; My Sincerest and deepest condolences in this difficult time. My name is Dean Tessitore and I knew Denise and the Falvo Family, (especially Grace) for many years. I used to work at the Co-op and Denise would come in before the wedding, and I would ask her how the wedding plans were going and she would say with her wonderful dry sense of humor and a short grin, I can't wait to get married, there are too many of us Denise Falvo's around. In truth, there is only one Denise M. Falvo Slovak. She is a GREAT person, who will always be remembered with great respect and admiration.

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and May God Bless You, Jessica Grace, May your Mom's Spirit and Smile remain with You Forever!

Thank you for this opportunity.

Dean J. Tessitore

Angela Bromley-Natale

July 6, 2006

Dear Frank and Family,

I was shocked and saddened to hear about your sister Denise. Whenever I have run into her over the past several years, she always had that bright, beautiful smile on her face. I remember her as a little girl when you and I were in high school together. I am so very sorry for your loss and we extend our sympathies to your entire family.

Our prayers are with you,

Angela Bromley-Natale

Linda Knightes

July 6, 2006

Dear Dave and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I remember hanging out with you and Denise...oh what a wounderful person. I am truly sorry to hear of you lossway.

God Bless,

Linda Knightes

Bob and Liz Patterson

July 6, 2006

May the Lord carry you through this very difficult time. Our prayers are with you always!!!!!!

July 6, 2006

May God bless your family and help you through this time of need

Tina Mazzucco

July 6, 2006

There are no words that could ever comfort you. Denise was a very beautiful, special and fun-loving person all through school until her untimely death. The last time I saw her she was beaming that beautiful smile of hers. May the love of family, friends and God and sharing memories of Denise help you through this tragic time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Janet Lappies

July 6, 2006

Denise although I did not know you well the time we shared was always fun and pleasant. You were a warm and very caring individual and will be greatly missed by everyone that knew you.

Pam Griswold (Mavente)

July 6, 2006

Frank L,

It is so hard to imagine losing a child. Remember that she is now with Mom who is helping her now, and they are now both just waiting for the day that you will all be back together once again. It was years ago, but I still remember the bouncy little girl with her beautiful mom, helping us working in the kitchen at Northside Little League. God Bless you and you are in my prayers.

Christine (Doedema) Raimo

July 6, 2006

I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Denise,I knew her and her family through the Osterlitz family back in high school, she was ALWAYS smiling and so happy,words can not express how sorry i am. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Mary Ann Canyons

July 6, 2006

I met Denise through the Follies...her light now shines with the biggest spotlight of them all. Your mother was a very special lady with a heart of gold and although there's nothing to comfort you now- please know she will be your guardian angel now & forever...

My thoughts & prayers are with you now & always....

DeAnna Tope

July 6, 2006

I'm so incredibly sorry to hear about your loss during what should be such a joyous time. I met Denise at Broadway Dance Company quite a few years back. She was so beautiful and so funny. I remember her smile being contagious. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family during this very sad time. God Bless

lucy febo/bress

July 6, 2006

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Falvo and Slovak family.

My twin brother and I went to high school with Denise. She was always in high spirits and always had a smile on her face. She will be greatly missed by all that knew here.

Joseph and Lisa DiMatteo

July 6, 2006

Frank, Michael and Family:

Words cannot express how deeply saddened we were to hear of your loss. We knew Denise from the office and she was always very outgoing and personable. Our prayers will be with all of you that God may bless you with strength and guidance. Joseph and Jessica Grace will forever have a beautiful angel looking down upon them.

Sheri/Zongrone Agency

July 6, 2006

Please accept my deepest sympathy to the family.May the love and strength of loved ones carry you throught this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dawn Lemire

July 6, 2006

Mike, I am soo so sorry. No words can express my deepest sympathy to you and your family. You will be in my prayers.

Dawn-Capital Cardiology

Evy & Pete Erb

July 6, 2006

Dearest Denise, your warmth, beauty, and sparkle, your love of family, your wonderful laugh - we remember and love you always. Mike, Joseph, Jessica and all family and friends, you are on our minds and in our hearts and prayers.

Karla Skultety

July 6, 2006

Mike ,

My heart is just breaking with sadness for you , your children and family . Let Our LORD wrap his arms around you and carry you through this , and every day forward . We are here for you , Joseph and Jessica .

Love , Karla

Tina Galofaro-Roberts

July 6, 2006

I am so sorry and sad about Denise's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. I went to school with Frank, and in the 80's, Denise, my sister Angela and I took a Modern Dance class together. We laughed so much in that class. I'll always remember Denise as the beautiful, fun-loving person she was. God bless you all.

TJ LENHARDT(CANAPE)

July 6, 2006

MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HER FAMILY. PLEASE FORWARD INFO ON WHERE TO SEND DONATIONS FOR THE CHILDRENS FUND.

nancy leap

July 6, 2006

I would like to extend my sympathy to you all. I met Denise through her best friend Kelly Light and she always had a beautiful smile on her face, and this is how I will remember her.

Love and Prayers

Nancy Leap

Mark & Kathryn McClosky

July 6, 2006

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Denise could always light up a room with her smile and genuine kindness. She will we missed deeply.

Tara

July 6, 2006

The shock of what has happend to your family, I could not imagine. I will most certainly make a donation to your fund. May God Bless you all at this unthinkable time.

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