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Doris Tomajer Obituary

Tomajer, Doris C. GUILDERLAND Doris C. "Mickey" Tomajer passed away on Saturday, September 10, 2011 at St. Peter's Hospice Inn after a long and courageous battle with cancer. Born in Frankfort, N.Y., she was the daughter of the late John and Helen Callahan. Mickey graduated from SUNY Plattsburgh in 1954 with a bachelor's degree in home economics. She taught for Mayfield School District until becoming a stay-at-home mother for her children. Mickey would periodically substitute teach for the Guilderland School District as well. In her free time, she enjoyed sewing, gardening, reading, doing puzzles, playing Scrabble, and traveling to Ireland. Mickey was also an active communicant of the Parish of Christ the King Church in Westmere. Along with her parents, Mickey was predeceased by her sister, Jean Adams. She is survived by her loving husband of 55 years, Charles R. Tomajer; children Colleen Abbate, Tim Tomajer, and Tracey Tomajer; cherished grandchildren, Meghan and Michael Abbate; and brothers, Larry (Dolores) and Jim (Betty) Callahan; 16 nieces and nephews also survive. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday at 11 a.m. at Christ the King Church, 20 Sumter Ave., Westmere. Calling hours will be held on Wednesday from 4 to 7 p.m. at the church. The parish family of Christ the King Church will gather at 4:30 p.m. at the church for a service of prayer and remembrance. All are welcome. Interment will be in St. Mary's Cemetery, Amsterdam. Memorial contributions may be made to Community Hospice of Albany, 445 New Karner Rd., Albany, NY 12205 or to Christ the King Church, 20 Sumter Avenue, Westmere, NY 12203 in Mickey's name. To leave a special message online, please visit www.newcomeralbany.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Sep. 13, 2011.

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Laurene Arsenault

September 15, 2011

Tracey,
So sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is to lose your mom and want you to know that there are people out there who love you and care.
May the memories and love of your mom sustain you in this time of grief. And someday may her love and those memories of her bring you joy and laughter.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Laurie Arsenault

Cindy Dahlem

September 14, 2011

What I remember most about Mrs. T is that she was alot of fun in home ec class. She also helped me with arranging my flowers for my wedding bouquet. She absolutely was a wonderful person. She really touched my life. Thank you Mrs. T for being you. Cindy (Catalfamo) Dahlem

Mo Tzovaras

September 13, 2011

she was a great lady and im glad to have spent the time with her that i did. she helped raise an amazing family that i love

September 13, 2011

Many years ago I was an oncolgy nurse when Mickey was first diagnosed with cancer. I remember her so well, she was one of my favorite patients. We had a lot of great conversations, and she talked about her family often. It was clear that her family meant everything to her. She was a lovely woman. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Micki Basal

Anne Parente

September 13, 2011

Tracey - So sorry to hear of your mom's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Elaine Johnsen

September 13, 2011

To All:
I am so sorry to hear of Mickey's passing. You can never be prepared for this. I often think of all of you and the great times we have had at your house or down in Poughkeepsie at our house. She is probably enjoying a good drink and a game of cards with Em & Herb!! She is at peace now and no longer suffering, may that be a comfort to you.

Love you all!
Elaine

Susan Lounello

September 13, 2011

Chuck I am so sorry. She was absolutely a wonderful women and I adored her. Please know she is out of pain and with her lord. all my love to you and your family at this very difficult time. Susan Lounello

Peg & Terry VanDelinder

September 13, 2011

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

Julia Richards

September 13, 2011

Tracey.... I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She is at peace now and not suffering. I hope your fond memories of her comfort you and your family. Hang in there and hugs to you.

Julie Richards

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