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John Frechette Obituary

Frechette,
John H. Jr.
RENSSELAER - John H. Frechette Jr., 67, of Rensselaer, N.Y., passed away at home on Wednesday, October 22, 2025. Born in Albany, N.Y. in 1958, John was the beloved son of the late Martha (Durkee) Frechette and John H. Frechette Sr. He retired from New York State after working as a mail and supply clerk with the SUNY Administration.
John was a talented bass player and found joy in playing songs by KISS and Iron Maiden; spending many hours strumming along to his favorite bands. He enjoyed building intricate LEGO models and spending quiet days fishing. John was a gifted artist.
For many years, John proudly played shortstop at the Arbor Hill Softball Field, where he made happy memories. He was a lifelong fan of the L.A. Rams and never missed a chance to cheer them on.
John was predeceased by his parents and his sister, Donna Schraa (Mike).
He is survived by his loving wife of 46 years, Laura; his brothers, Marc and Ronald; his sisters, Sandra Tolbert and Francene (Vosco) Hicks; his brother-in-law, Mike Schraa; his special sister-in-law, Maria Toteno; and many beloved nieces and nephews, all of whom brought him great joy.
John's kindness, humor, and creativity will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
The family will celebrate John's memory privately, and no public service will be held. To honor John's memory, the family asks that you do an act of kindness for someone; as John would like that. Cards of sympathy and support for Laura would be deeply appreciated.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Albany Times Union on Oct. 26, 2025.

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David Schillinger

October 23, 2025

I am saddened by John's passing. I met John at SUNY and we had so many laughs at work and on the golf course. You will certainly be missed, my thoughts go out to John's wife Laura and his entire family.

Lil SIS

October 23, 2025

Rest in paradise my heart -I have gained another angel -watch over us Big Bro -I love you to my soul

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