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Keller, Kevin E. NISKAYUNA Kevin E. Keller, Ph.D., 57, passed away on November 18, 2009 at home, in the loving arms of his family after an 18-month battle with brain cancer. Kevin was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle, friend, and psychol-ogist who dedicated his life to helping others. Kevin was born on November 11, 1952 in New York City. He was the son of Dolores Keller and the late Martin Keller. Kevin is survived by his wife of 35 years, Laurel Burns and their loving children, Bryan, Brendan, Patrick, and Emily. He is also survived by his mother; his sister, Wendy Epstein-Lynn; his brother, Steven Keller; his father-in-law, Raymond Burns; his daughter-in-law, Kate Keller; his grandchildren, Keegan and Kevin Keller and a large and loving extended family. Kevin received a B.S. in anthropology from Rutgers in 1974, an M.S. in counseling from St. Bonaventure in 1976, and a Ph.D. in counseling psychology from the University of Missouri at Columbia in 1980. During Kevin's tenure at the University of Missouri, he and Laurel were live-in program directors in a group home for developmentally disabled women. In 1980, Kevin and Laurel relocated to the Capital Region where Kevin began work as an assistant professor of psychology at SUNY Albany. In 1981, he and Laurel founded, and have since co-directed, the Schenectady Center for Psychotherapy and Eating Disorders, the first clinic of its kind in our region. Kevin remained active in his practice through the summer of 2009, and deeply cared for his work and his patients. In addition to his 29 years of continuous private practice in the Capital Region, from 1980 to 1983 Kevin was a much loved and respected graduate student advisor and professor in the department of psychology at SUNY Albany; from 1983 to 1987 he was the director of psychological services at Conifer Park Hospital; and from 1993 to 1997 he developed and directed the chemical dependency program at Russell Sage College. Kevin will be remembered for his compassion, kindness and integrity. He was an anchor and a source of strength to so many in his family and community. Kevin was the first president of the Capital Region Association for Eating Disorders, he was a soccer coach, a parishioner at St. John the Baptist Church in Schenectady, N.Y. and volunteered in many capacities including Boy Scouts and Indian Guides. Of all his roles, the most important to Kevin were those of husband and father. His wisdom and love will be dearly missed by his family. An interfaith memorial service is planned for December 12, 2009 at 1:00 p.m. at the Church of St. Vincent De Paul, 900 Madison Ave., Albany, NY 12208. The family will receive guests at the church from 12 noon to 1 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to The Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center, Duke University, DUMC, PO Box 3624, Durham, NC 27710, or at http://cancer.duke.edu/btc/. Online condolences may be made at www.-simplechoicescremation.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Nov. 29 to Dec. 10, 2009.

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Emily

October 27, 2021

Hi Dad, it´s me. I miss you so much. I can´t believe in just a few short weeks it´ll be 12 years since I last saw you. I love you and hope you´re proud of me

chris nicoll

October 19, 2010

Kevin was my friend in grade school in Woodcliff Lake. I am so saddened to hear of his passing. He was a kind and wonderful child and I know he turned into a kind and wonderful man.

Rest in peace, Kevin.

Chris Nicoll

Stefanie Manchester

January 13, 2010

Dr. Keller, I will never meet another man like you, another Doctor like you. You helped me through so much when nobody else could. It broke my heart when I just heard the news yesterday.
Stefanie M.

mollie dpc

December 26, 2009

the New Year is so scary to me without your kind words telling me it will be okay. I'm scared this web site ends Tuesday 12/29/09 and then it will be a final goodbye. It's so hard on for Laurel amd thier children to lose Kevin so early in life. Take Care My Best Friend and stay close to your Higher Power on your way to heaven thru the pearly gate....you even in your death will still be there in our thoughts

d c

December 24, 2009

Kevin you will be missed this Christmas and the New Year wouldn't be the same without you in it....I wish you much love and hope your family can handle this Christmas and New Year without you....

LOVE YOU dear Kevin...

D.

December 12, 2009

I asked him "what should I do?" and he answered me. No one else would actually tell me what I needed to hear. I will remember Dr. Keller always.

Lorell Ferreira

December 12, 2009

Brenden and Family,
we are so sorry for your loss, if you need anything please let us know.

December 10, 2009

Laurel -

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Laurie Bishop
[email protected]

deb c

December 8, 2009

I call your answering machine just to hear your voice again so strong..I leave messages to you...I am lost without you..Laurel says you never left us you were taken...How can you be gone..I don't want to believe it..I think of you often....may you be the angel on my shoulder guideing me thru life and it's good and the bad.

Adam

December 8, 2009

Keller family,

Dr. Keller helped me find light at the end of the tunnel during a very dark period in my life. While he may be gone, take comfort in the fact that his spirit is alive in every life he touched with his kindness, empathy, and intellect.

Lana

December 5, 2009

My condolences to Kevin's family... I didn't know Kevin very well, however, from the few times we spoke, I felt the kindness and gentleness in his spirit. Kevin's beautiful smile was a reflection of his soul. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

December 3, 2009

To the Keller family
I will always remember the wisdoms that Dr Keller taught me about life. He helped me immensely. My prayers go out to all of you. God bless.

Pam B

Mary Beth Nolan

December 2, 2009

Laurel,
I am very sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. He was a remarkable man and I can't imagine the grief you must all feel. If there is ever anything I can do to help, please do not hesitate to call.
fondly, Mary Beth Nolan

JoAnna DiSanto-Baldwin

December 2, 2009

Laurel and family, I am truly sorry for your lose from what Johnna and the kids have told me over the years Kevin was a very kind and caring person, my prayers are with you all.

December 1, 2009

My family and I are so sad to say goodbye. We will always remember Dr. Keller with gratitude for his wisdom, strength and kindness. He has helped so many people,perhaps only the One who made him truly knows it all. "well done, my friend."

Kerri Labelle

December 1, 2009

Laurel,
I am so sorry to hear about Kevin. Even though it has been years, it seems like yesterday that I was baby sitting all 4 kids. My thoughts are with you all.

Kerri Labelle (Kendall)

Deborah Macfarlane

December 1, 2009

Dear Laurel,
May the love and support of others comfort you at this time
and may Kevin's exceptional gifts of compassion
and guidance remain forever a part of the magnificent family
that you built together.
Faith, Hope, and Love,
Deb

Sheri Trzaskos-Roberts

December 1, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I was deeply saddened when I heard about the loss of Kevin. He helped me through a difficult time and I will always remember him. He was wonderful at what he did. I will miss him dearly.

John Sgarlata

December 1, 2009

To the Keller family, I am deeply shocked and saddened by Kevin's passing. Not only did I have the privilege of having him as professor in graduate school but we later worked together at Conifer Park. I learned more from Kevin than any book or teacher and I carry his lessons with me today. Kevin can now rest free of the physical challenges and enjoy the splendor with GOD he richly deserves. He will always be watching over and caring for his family, GOD bless you all and GOD bless Kevin.

November 30, 2009

Dear Laurel and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Jen C.- New Jersey

November 30, 2009

TY to Laurel and Kevin's family for holding a memorial which even patients can attend. He means a lot to some of us. Thank for allowing us to participate in memorializing the man who helped us so much. ski

November 30, 2009

I am just another person that was touched by Dr. Keller and his counsel. My life is better today due to my interaction with him and I let that be known to others that could benefit from his knowlege. I live out of town now; however, was told about Dr. Keller's passing from a colleague that knew how important my experience with Dr. Keller was. It has been years since I interacted with Dr. Keller, but his impression on me is life long. I'm so sad that the world has lost his presence, please accept my deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!!!!

Joe Macbeth

November 30, 2009

Please accept my deepest condolences. I took a few classes with Dr. Keller at Sage in the late 90's. He was a terrific teacher and mentor, with a great sense of humour. He taught me so much, thank you, Dr. Keller.

Ed Murphy

November 30, 2009

I know Kevin more through reflection of his friends, colleagues, meeting family and reputation. I celebrate Kevin as father, husband and friend. Your presence in all these lives made our community stronger and inspired us all. May you rest knowing your life was well lived and your gifts/service continues.

Kelly M

November 30, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies in your loss. Kevin helped me with many life struggles and I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing.

debbie c

November 29, 2009

Kevin, I will miss you so very much.You saved me so many times even when I felt unworthy you always saw me as loving person. I feel in shock and soon I will wake up and you won't be gone..You were my best friend...
my love goes out to Laural and your family. Kevin please watch over us and guide us with your soul from up in heaven you have earned your wings so fly into the arms of God. You are with your loving pets (Bonnie, Petey, Sam and Shadow) they will come to your side. I don't how to say good-bye to my best friend...I miss you so very much..

November 29, 2009

I am truly grateful to Dr. Keller for his wisdom and guidance. My deepest sympathies to Laurel and family.
Sharon Emerson

Paula Brinkman

November 29, 2009

Dear Laurel and family,
I am deeply saddened to read of Kevin's passing in today's paper. I know this has been a tumultous time for the entire family, but one thing I am sure of.... Kevin always knew how deeply he was loved and admired as a husband and father by all of you. I send you my love and prayers at this time.

Bob Mac

November 29, 2009

Kevin was such a caring man and he was steady as she goes even when tested by the irrational behavior of others, I respect the man and my prayers are with his family.

November 29, 2009

A truly gifted and caring human being. Kevin you changed my life. Thank you

The Addisons

November 29, 2009

He will live on in our hearts and in the hearts of all those whose lives he touched. Such a privilege to have known him, we were blessed.

November 29, 2009

Dr. Keller was an incredble person whose guidance and support helped me through a very difficult time in my life. I am grateful to have known him.

Sharon

November 29, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

David Freedgood

November 29, 2009

A kind heart, an incisive analyst and a humble soul.

Thank you, Kevin.

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