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Michael McLoughlin Obituary

McLoughlin, Michael MENANDS Michael Kevin McLoughlin, 60, died peacefully Friday morning, January 8, 2010 at the Community Hospice Inn at St. Peter's Hospital with his loving family at his side. Born in Troy on St. Patrick's Day, March 17, 1949, he was the beloved son of the late John J. and Lillian H. Connolly McLough-lin. Mike was raised in Troy and was a graduate of Sacred Heart School, LaSalle Institute, class of '67, Hudson Valley Community College and New Hampshire College in Manchester, N.H. Mike was employed by Pressman's Army & Navy Store in Troy while growing up in Troy. In March of 1974, Mike began his career with the New York State Department of Motor Vehicles as an inspector and and finished as the director of the Hazmat Driver Certification Program. He was instrumental in writing DMV regulations and law. He loved his job and his co-workers, and the feeling was mutual. Mike loved golf and was a 35 year member of the Troy AOH Golf League and a longtime member of the Western Turnpike Golf Course in Guilderland. He looked forward to going to Fla. every year with his brother, John, to play two weeks of golf. Mike loved his family and enjoyed coaching his son, when he was younger, in the Hoosick Falls Little League. He was a communicant of St. Mary's Church in Albany. He is survived by his loving son, Matthew S. (Michelle) McLoughlin of Loudonville; the love of his life; Christine M. Tanchak of Albany; two devoted brothers, John J. (Anne Marie) McLoughlin of Menands and James P. (Sheryn) McLoughlin of Rotterdam; two loving sisters, Nancy E. (Dr. Fred) McKenna of Gulf Shores, Ala. and Colleen (Tom) Hems of Troy. He is the proud uncle of J. Patrick McLoughlin of Birmingham, Ala., Maura Lang of Mobile, Ala., Michaela and Cara Hems, both of Troy and Gabriel Dahl of Rotterdam; great-uncle of Shane McLoughlin and Ellena C. Lang. The funeral will be Monday at 8:30 a.m. from the Parker Bros. Memorial, 2013 Broadway, Watervliet and at 9:30 a.m. at Historic St. Mary's Church, Lodge & Pine Streets in downtown Albany. Interment will follow in St. Joseph's Cemetery, South Troy. Relatives and friends are invited and may call at the funeral home on Sunday, 2-7 p.m. At Michael's request, in lieu of flowers, contributions would be appreciated to Equinox, Inc., 95 Central Avenue, Albany, NY 12206 (www.equinoxinc.org) or to the Capital City Rescue Mission, P.O. Box 1999, Albany, NY 12201 (www.capitalcityrescue-mission.com) Condolence book and directions at www. ParkerBrosMemorial.com

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Published by Albany Times Union from Jan. 9 to Jan. 10, 2010.

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January 25, 2010

Mr. M...
so sorry about your loss. He will be missed.. i pray for you...

Jenna L. 8A

Anonymous

January 25, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Maureen "Rene" Lundberg

January 19, 2010

Dear John, Chris and the McLoughlin family--"A joy shared is a joy multiplied. A sorrow shared is a sorrow divided." Mike shared his joy with all of us, and now we share in his loss. RIP, buddy. I know you are sharing your great stories with St. Peter et al! Peace.

Sharon Bucci

January 17, 2010

Dear John,
My most sincere condolences on the loss of your brother Michael. I hope you will remember the wonderful life and friendship the two of you shared thoughout your lives together. You are in my thoughts and prayers now and always. Be well my friend.

Kathy Campbell

January 17, 2010

Dear John,

Sorry to hear about Mike. We were out of town at the time. Tim will be waiting for him for sure with a joke and a story. You guys had alot of fun together. May those and many other memories sustain you at this time.

Kathy and Tom Campbell

Nancy Iannacone

January 14, 2010

To the McLoughlin Family and Chris and her family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. As other people have stated in this guest book, Mike was a wonderful, caring and funny man. He always had a smile on his face and a story to tell you. DMV will not be the same without him, but we know he will be watching over all of us. He will truly be missed by all of us. May God Bless you all and may Mike rest in peace.

Loraine Wilson

January 12, 2010

Mike had a wonderful sense of humor and so much enthusiasm! I will always be glad to have worked with him.
May wonderful memories he gave us bring comfort to his family.
Sincerely,
Loraine Wilson

Lois Frank

January 12, 2010

To The McLoughlin and Tanchak Families –

It was an honor and a pleasure to know Michael. I knew of him, long before I met him, from my aunt and uncle. His kindness and caring nature were legendary in my family. And oh – the fun they had too!

Mike touched so many people’s lives. We will miss him dearly.

January 12, 2010

The Alumni Association of La Salle Institute Troy conveys its deep sympathy to the family and friends of LSI alum Michael Mc Loughlin. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Tim Whitelaw '82
President
La Salle Institute Alumni Association

Pete Martin

January 11, 2010

To the McLoughlin Family I had the pleasure of Playing golf with Mike for over 30 years in the AOH league. Neverdid I ever enjoyed aMan as much as I enjoyed Mike, I remember I played golf withMike, John,Larsen and myself and the fun we had. I was often teamed with Mike, because he asked for me.Mike was a better golfer than I but we often would win becuase of Mikes coaching. We will miss this MAN becuse of his great frindlyness andhis tremendous sense of humor.
So long my friend, and when you arrive at the pearly gates The Lord will let you play thru.you have earned it. Pete Martin

Lisa, "The Doug Man" and Lori

January 11, 2010

Words can not express the love that we all feel for Mike. He came into our lives 22 years ago when he met and fell in love with our mother, Christine. He blended into our family just as if he were with us all along. He was the man that we depended on, the man that my mother turned to and the one that taught us the true meaning of what life is about. He loved our children as if they were his own grandchildren and they affectionately call him "Grandpa Mike". Now that the Lord has called him home we all have a new angel watching over us in heaven. He will take care of us from above just as he had on earth. We will miss you tremendously and love you always.

Mariah Macary

January 11, 2010

Dear Mr. M

I heard about your father
I am so sorry that you have to go through this pain :(
He must have been very special to you as a father
I will keep you in my prayers

Remember, he is still with you even in heaven urging you on to continue what you are doing and will never leave your side

Sorry again for your loss

Kindly, Mariah Macary (7-W)

Donovan Howell

January 11, 2010

Matt
Mike was a lovely person and was very affectionate. I still cannot believe that he’s gone. I will continue to be inspired by his memories.

Linda Stowell

January 11, 2010

Dear Matt and family: How Mike loved you all. He spoke so much about all of you, but I most remember:
1. How proud he was of Matt
2. How everyone had to watch his brother, John on the news.
3. How he loved to tell stories about Michaela when she was just learning to talk.
4. How he was a true Irishman
5. How he loved to play golf and cards.
6. How compassionate he was.
7. How loyal he was.
8. How much he did for school bus transportation.
I am so glad to have known him.

Janet & Ira Chudd

January 11, 2010

Dear Matt and family,
I knew Mike professionally and personally for more than twenty years. Through Mike's tireless efforts, the children who ride school buses each day in New York State can do so with confidence. Mike constantly took on the goliaths of the world, and would never take "no" for an answer. He will be sorely missed by the members of the pupil transportation industry, and all of his friends who loved him.

January 11, 2010

Dear Matt and family,

We were all so saddened to read about the loss of your father. He was loving, compassionate, and funny, and so proud to be your dad. We spent a long time yesterday reminiscing about how kind he was to us all. We are all keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Barbara Grant Graber
Georgia Grant
Ed Grant
Helen Nelson
Barbara Robinson

Lenny Bernstein

January 11, 2010

Dear McLoughlin family
I had the honor of working professionally with Mike beginning with my time as President of the New York Association for Pupil Transportation. He truly made me a better person through his mentoring and friendship. Mike and I shared so many great times together away from work as well, and enjoyed many hours on the golf course or when we were able to travel to conferences, our most famous one being in Nashville, Tennesee at the NAPT conference.
I smile when I think of Mike's friendship, and will always be inspired by his ability to light up a room with his strong personality.
I will remember you forever my friend. You will always be the "commissoner"!
Lenny Bernstein

Pat Bailey

January 11, 2010

Matt,
I was blessed in knowing your father. He always spoke of you and was very proud of his son.
I worked with your dad as a School Transportation Director and his true caring for what we did was deeper than anyone else I know. He had a gentle but stern way of getting his point across about doing the right thing.
I will miss him tremendously.
God bless you and your family.

January 11, 2010

To Mike's family:
Mike was a man who brought both humor and insight to any situation. We worked together on several projects in the DMV and it was a pleasure to know he would be at a meeting to make sure no one thought the problem was greater than it really was. Mike will be missed.
lars allanson

Nassau Chapter NYAPT

January 11, 2010

To the McLoughlin Family,
Michael will truely be missed. He was always filled with laughter and knowledge.
Deepest Sympathy to you.

January 10, 2010

Dear Matt and family,
Just read about your Dad and wish to send you our sympathy and prayers at this sad time. In reading comments from friends and family, it's obvious that his life made a huge & positive impact on the lives of others. A true lesson he has taught us all as we conduct ourselves day to day. God bless you and keep you strong in the days ahead. With our prayers & friendship- The Gadani Family

Rob Lopez

January 10, 2010

My sincere sympathy to the McLoughlin family for your loss. I was privileged to have known and worked with Mike for a number of years. I'm sure I'm just one of many who had great admiration and respect for him. He will be greatly missed.

Gary Graham

January 10, 2010

Mike will be missed. All of the comments from his DMV friends and colleagues are true...he was a classy, witty, really smart guy who made this humble retiree feel important, even though I wasn't. That's rare in a person.

We spoke about golf on those too few occasions we sat down to chat and I wish I had gotten the chance to swing clubs with him. He's probably buying the Almighty a hot dog at the turn in that great golf course in the sky right now.

Frank & Grace DelSignore

January 10, 2010

To the McLoughlin Family,
My wife, Grace and I worked with Mike at DMV for a number of years he was a great guy to be around. Mike and I also went to LaSalle around the same time as I graduated in 1966 and Mike was a real character even then. Mike's brother, Jimmy, even dated my sister Lousie for a while. Mike was a fun loving guy and it was a pleaeure to have known him. He certainly had a rough few years and I wish he could have enjoyed his retirement. We will always have found memories of Mike and will keep him in our prayers.

Pino, Mary, Joe and Marissa Picerno

January 10, 2010

Matt - we learned that your dad passed away by attending the 10am mass at St. Pius this morning. We didnt know your dad, but based on his obituary notice, he sounded like a very special man. We wanted to let you know we were thinking of you and that you and your family are in our prayes. Please take care of yourself.

January 10, 2010

Matt,
I am sorry I could not be there with you. I know this has been a long road for you. Know theat our family will continue to pray for you. Your father was a wonderful man, and one who was very proud of you. He will continue to live in the hearts of many.
Love, Katie, Doug, Jack, and Erin Fouracre

Kathy Furneaux

January 10, 2010

McLoughlin Family,
I and all of us your family shared him with, have lost an incredible friend, and undaunting professional who cared so much about children on yellow school buses. As the Executive Director for the Pupil Transportation Safety Institute, I had the honor of working with Mike toward that common goal. But I also had the higher honor of laughing with Mike, listening to his stories and feeling his incredibly warming hug each time our paths crossed.
He made us all want to be better. Better at what we did, better friends and better human beings - partly because we wanted to give back to him, but more importantly because he had taught us all, by example, what a difference one good human being can make. Mike made a difference in my life and the life of many. I will not anytime soon forget the lessons Mike McLoughlin taught us all...he wore shoes no one will ever fill. God Bless you Michael with your devilish grin and hearty chuckle. Rest well my friend. My deepest sympathies to your family.

Kathy McHale

January 10, 2010

Mike gave us all a model of grace, dignity and courage to live and die by.

Condolences to Chris, Matt, and the entire McLoughlin family.

Tina & Ed Jewett

January 10, 2010

I came to work for DMV in 1981. Mike was one of my first friends. And a friend he did prove to be. His loyalty, compassion, and understanding was so appreciated, both personally and professionally..
He fought the battle of this ugly decease with his head held high and never one complaint. I was in awe of his courage and determination.
I love and respect you Michael. Until we meet again, Rest in peace and enjoy all that God has to offer you.

January 10, 2010

Dear Mr.M,

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts. We will all miss you in class.

Sincerely, Camara Azubuike 7E

Nora Poland Winstead

January 10, 2010

John and Family,

I'm very sorry for the loss of your brother Mike. I did not know him probably because I am quite older than he. But, I, too graduated from Sacred Heart.

Sounds like he was a great guy and a true Irishman with all his stories.

Beth Archambault

January 10, 2010

To Chris and the McLoughlin Family;
Mike was my supervisor in the Hazmat Unit and he was a wonderful man with the best stories to tell during our "office/birthday meetings". He had the most infectious laugh and he will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Dave Harris

January 10, 2010

To the entire Family:

Mike was Mr. DMV. He always knew the right answer or knew where to find it. I always enjoyed my many conversations with him regarding both DMV business as well as golf stories he would tell me of John and himself. He was one of the few, that would always give the right advise, even if it meant management was wrong. He was one of many honest and dedicated workers that DMV had. He always gave more than needed. He will be missed as a worker and friend. Rest in Peace Mike. You got an early tee time in heaven.

Francesca Halayko

January 10, 2010

Matt,
Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Walt Kolakowski

January 10, 2010

My condolenses to Mike's family.

Everythng that has been expressed in the guest book about Mike is so true. I went to LaSalle with Mike and was fortunate to work with him at DMV as well.

Mike always had the time for you, a story and a smile - you will be missed.

Fran Csontos

January 10, 2010

My friend, I will miss you. DMV isn't the same. Come St. Patrick's Day, I will look to the skies, give a wink and wish you a Happy Birthday. Rest in peace, Mike. I will never forget you.

Peggy Archambault

January 10, 2010

To the Mcloughlin Family and Chris, My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. Mike was a great man and told the best stories, he would make my cheeks hurt from laughing so hard. He could always brighten an otherwise gloomy day. He will be missed dearly.LOVE ya Mike.

Joan Houser

January 10, 2010

Mike was truly an exceptional person. I worked with Mike for many years. He always had a kind smile for everyone and was a pleasure to work with. His sense of humor was hard to ignore. Mike will be truly missed - but our loss is heaven's gain.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

January 10, 2010

I read with great sadness about Mike's passing. I remember as youngsters playing hundreds of sandlot baseball and football games in the "Heights" back in the late '50s and early '60s, and later running into him on occasion in downtown Troy and having a laugh. My condolences to his wonderful family.
Harry Haggerty (Little River, SC)

January 10, 2010

Dear Mr. M,

I'm very sorry that your dad has passed away. I know it must be hard for you. Just know that I'm thinking of you.

- Joe Vita 7W

Barbara Olsen

January 10, 2010

To Mike's Family And Chris's Family,
Words can't express the sorrow I feel please know in your hearts he is no longer suffering. I have known Mike since I first started with the State back in 1984. He was my first director I loved him then and never once did I ever see him in a bad mood. Everybody has bad moods and bad days but he kept DMV alive! I never knew of ANYBODY stronger than him. He did his chemo's and was back to work he always had a smile even though he was going through hell. He never gave up he had a wonderful spirit and heart and I am going to consider him my guardian angel because nobody could find a better one than him. DMV and I will truly miss him and his jokes he was a GREAT person to be around. I love you mike!

Peter Mannella

January 10, 2010

Mike McLoughlin was just one of those people. Everyone liked Mike. There really was no choice. What was not to like? He made people feel welcome in the room, in his life, in all he did. His work in the school bus industry earned him respect, official "Friend of NYAPT" status....but mostly affection and friendships. He thrived on meeting and knowing people and helping them make a difference in the lives of the children we transport on yellow school buses. But I never knew Mike not smiling...not having a story to share...even in the later stages of his illness when a few of us visited with him, he was in such a mood to talk and regale with a story of one kind or another. It made us realize how special and great a man he was. In my own role as director of our Association for Pupil Transportation, I came to know and appreciate his knowledge and his willingness to help do the right things. As a person, I came to know Mike as unflagging, as a friend, as a solid and good man. I will miss knowing he is a phone call away. God bless you Mike...

January 10, 2010

Matt
So sorry about your dad. He always had a story for everything. We had alot of good times and I think the best was him chasing my car down the street with gulf club when it was stolen !! He was full of life and a genuine good hearted person. He will be truly missed. He was such a great person. May he have found peace. He will be deeply missed.
Mickie

nick jones

January 10, 2010

I will miss Mike.He was a true gentleman and a verry funny guy to be around.I golfed with Mike for a number of years in the AOH league.He would often tell me about his years of golfing at Frear Park.He always made a round of golf enjoyable.

Go tee it up Mike at the rainbow golf course.I will always remember you my good friend.I shall see you at the 19th hole.

Kate Poland-Downes

January 10, 2010

John and Jim,

My sincerest sympathy during this time. I remeber Mike as a "little kid" growing up. Sounds like he turned into a great man.

Kate Poland Downes

Bob and Cathy Suspanic

January 10, 2010

We wish to express our sincere condolences to the McLoughlin family and to Chris. Michael was so very courageous in his battle, never complaining, never giving up.
We both worked at DMV with Michael and he always had a story and a smile. He will never be forgotten.

Rest in Peace Michael. You so deserve it.
Sincerely,
Bob and Cathy Suspanic

Dennis Lindhurst

January 9, 2010

Mike was my supervisor for a short time in 1999 at DMV, and I looked forward to any and all times we spoke.

The planet is a better place because of his time on earth.

georgie hall

January 9, 2010

to mike's family & chris:
i am so sorry for your loss. mike was a great guy that i met almost 25 yrs ago when i started in driver improvement in dmv. i am glad that i got to know him. he was a great guy who will be dearly missed. my he rest in peace.

Kerry Giardino

January 9, 2010

To Michael's family and Chris,
I am so sorry for your loss. I only worked with Mike for a short time but he was a great guy. I am glad I got to know him. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Bev Feltt

January 9, 2010

I've worked with Mike at DMV for many years and I can honestly say I never saw him in a bad mood. He always had a smile on his face and was quick to give a compliment. He was a lot of fun to be around and I know he'll be sorely missed. Remember all the wonderful times you shared and keep them close in your heart. It's those memories that will help you through this difficult time. Think of him as your very own guardian angel watching over you.

I am sorry that I will be unable to attend Mike's services. Unfortunately, they are the same time as my father-in-law's. Please know that you'll all be in my thoughts and prayers and I will be with you in spirit.

Kate Jones

January 9, 2010

My Dearest Cousin, Although my heart is breaking, I know you are on high...with your Mom and Dad and surely with mine. Everyone adored you, so full of love and compassion and wit. I will be there for your sendoff, though you will surely be long gone.
Love Katie

Nick Positano

January 9, 2010

Mike and I attended LaSalle and graduated in 1967. I considered him a friend. He made us all laugh and enjoy our time together in HS. I was fortunate to reconnect with Mike when I joined the NYSDMV in 1976. As has been said in previous notes Mike was bigger then life and felt it was his duty to express a kind word to all those who crossed his path at the DMV. The world is a better place because Mike was part of it. Now he will join our creator and be rewarded for all the good he has done.

Rest in peace and we will hopefully cross paths again.

January 9, 2010

Our hearts go out to all of you. Mike was a wonderful friend and welcomed us into your wonderful family over twenty years ago. We will miss him and cherish all the great memories made over the years. We won't be able to pass a Dunkin DoNuts without remembering Mike and his coffee stops. May God wrap you in His love and comfort each of you. Rest in peace Mike, you fought the good fight. Marshall and Sue Hurst - Maryville,Tennessee

Doreen Beachler

January 9, 2010

To the McLoughlin and Tanchak Families:
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Mike was a warm, compassionate man who had a heart of gold, a great sense of humor, and was much loved by his friends, employees and coworkers. I will miss him, and DMV will never be the same without him.

Kathy Starnes

January 9, 2010

My deep condolences to all Mike's family, friends and co-workers. I know that Mike will be greatly missed. As a former co-worker, I always found Mike to be both entertaining and helpful on any subject.

January 9, 2010

Words cannot express how much Mike will be missed. The love he had for his family was beyond measure. The care and compassion he had for others was unmatched to the end.

Mike lived a selfless life; his desire was to serve and help others, and he certainly proved that during his many, many years in DMV. He loved his job and he thought the world of his staff and his co-workers. The feeling was certainly mutual.

The last few years of Mike's life were truly exemplary of the ultimate human spirit. Mike never complained, he was committed to keeping a positive attitude no matter how bad his circumstances got. He was "thumbs up" to the very end.

Our loss is heaven's gain, and I expect that right about now Mike's doing an Irish jig on those streets of gold!

May God comfort and always bless Mike's family and Chrissy.

Nancy Holmes

January 9, 2010

Mike was a most compassionate and caring person. Anyone that knew him, thought highly of him. Sorry for your loss of such a great person. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jan Swartwout Retired DMVr -

Betty Carpenter

January 9, 2010

My sincere condolences to Chris and the McLoughlin family.

Rest in peace Mike.

Marcia Aronowitz

January 9, 2010

Dear John and family,
I was so sorry to read of your brother's passing. I know how close you were and I am sure the loss is great. I know you will be comforted by your many friends and wonderful memories.
Yours in friendship,
Marcia Aronowitz

Paul Pasqua

January 9, 2010

The last time I saw Mike was at my mom's funeral, who was Mike's Godmother, 18 months ago in Troy. Mike was not in good health but came non-the-less to say goodbye to his Aunt Peg. Now he is with her in Heaven.

tom pemrick

January 9, 2010

to the family of mike i wish to convey my deepest sympathies . he was a classmate of mine at LaSalle from 63 to 67. he brought alot of laughs to our classes and was a very good person. may you rest in peace and a final salute to you from your fellow classmate . may the light of heaven shine on your grave.

John McGowan

January 9, 2010

Mike was a wonderful guy. Many laughs over the years I had with him. He was always helpful when I worked at DMV too. My condolences to the family and to those who loved him. Mike is a fellow many of us will want to see someday when we each get to the other side. Rest in peace, Mike!

Patty (D'Aurizio) Hagin

January 9, 2010

To the McLoughlin & Tanchak Families:
I was so sorry to hear of the recent passing of Mike. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time and may each day that passes bring you comfort through memories.
In sympathy and friendship,

Michael Chellis

January 9, 2010

Having gotten to know Mike over several years of the Truck Safety Conference, I found him to be a great source regarding Hazmat and CDL licenses. I also found a great friend. We shared many conversations on many different topics. We shared a love of Irish music. Over the last months, we sadly watched his disease take its inexorable toll - but I never heard Mike complain. I will miss you, my friend. Every time I sing an Irish tune, I'll think of you. For you, the pain is gone - and for that I thank God.

January 9, 2010

Matt, Shelly and family,

In the short time I knew Mike I will remember him as a very kind and considerate man. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Scott Andrews

Ted Finlayson-Schueler

January 9, 2010

Mike's integrity and commitment to doing the right thing are rare traits in the halls of bureaucracies. I met people all over the country that Mike had pissed off by his determination to do the right thing instead of the convenient thing. Never one to take the company line, Mike’s force of personality simply persuaded the bureaucracy that Mike’s way was the right way. He single-handedly moved Article 19-A from a paper compliance shuffle to a real tool for protecting New York State’s public passengers. If this was all there was to say about Mike, he still would have been a great guy, and while my relationship with Mike was centered professionally, I am proud to have counted him as a friend. I think the reason for Mike’s success, both personally and professionally, was that for him, everything was personal – whether it was protecting passengers he would never meet or meeting with colleagues to improve standards, practices and procedures. It was a great joy to have known him. To his family and close personal friends, my deepest condolences. I find it hard to think about Mike without cracking a smile, even as I write. I hope that you will be able to draw on the reservoir of generosity, laughter and wisecracks that he has left with all of us in this time of terrible missing. God bless.

January 9, 2010

Mike was a true gentleman. He treated everyone with courtesy and compassion, and set a high standard in DMV for professionalism and graciousness.

He also knew how to giggle, which balanced things out nicely.

I hope that Mike's loved ones find comfort in having known this exceptional human being.

Sherrey Goldstein Manheim

Stephanie Kolonkowski (DMV - HazMat Unit)

January 9, 2010

Strength, courage, compassion and knowledge are words that come to mind when I think of Mike. His sense of humor was unique, but he did have a serious side. If you had a concern, ask Mike. He would have the answer. Mike was truly one of a kind and will be missed by myself and so many people within our Department as well as those who didn't. Deepest sympathy to the McLoughlin family and to Chrissy.

January 9, 2010

Colleen and family,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Sharon Myers (CDPHP)

Kevin O'Brien

January 9, 2010

Mike was a highly respected colleague at the Department of Motor Vehicles. His outstanding work over the years on behalf of the public, especially when it came to school bus safety, is immeasureable. Every parent in NYS who has had a child ride a school bus since the 1980's has benefited by his hard work.

Personally, Mike was so much more than a work colleague, he was a loyal friend, a mentor, a larger than life character who will always be lovingly remembered and missed.

May God now grant him the love, care and understanding that he bestowed on so many others during his lifetime.

January 9, 2010

Michael was a great son, brother, Father and cousin. He was one of the warmest and caring people I know.
Mike always thought of others first; always putting others before himself.
He bravely fought his cancer and he set the bar for all of us on how to live our lives. I will never forget you Mike. I love you. Your cousin, Karen

Mark Sager

January 9, 2010

Being an employes of the NYSDMV I have known Mike for many years. He was the director of the Central Registration/Central Dealers unit when I worked there many years ago. Mike was always very funny and outgoing and would talk to anyone. He never forgot anybody and always had a story to tell. DMV will certainly be a lonelier place without him around. I will miss seeing him in the hallway or on an elevator....just to say hello. He will be sadly missed but I am glad his suffering has now come to an end and he is in a better place. My condolences to his many many friends and to his family.

Bob, Jack and Dick Weaver

January 9, 2010

John, sorry about the lost of your brother Mike. I recall your concern when we spoke at the court house in December. Our prayers are with you.

Janice Meyer

January 9, 2010

To All:
With heartfelt condolences and our warmest thoughts, they are with you today and always.
With Sympathy,
Dan, Janice, Rachel and Natalie Meyer

Cathy VanDuzer-Houser

January 9, 2010

Matt & Family

I am very sorry to hear your father went to his resting place. I will always cherrish our times we spent together. He was a wonderful man and was so proud of you. My prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Karen Dee

January 9, 2010

Mike, my old friend, you were a person who left an indelible mark on the hearts and memories of everyone who met you. Im sorry we werent able to have that "DMV reunion lunch" here in Florida in February but I am confident that you are now in a better place and at peace.

My sympathies to Matt and Christine and the entire McLoughlin family.

Dave Larkin

January 9, 2010

Mike,

You were my best friend all though our days at LaSalle Institute 1963-1967. Our lives carried us along different paths, but you are and will always be my friend. May God bless you and keep you in his loving arms.

We will meet again!

Love, Dave Larkin

sharon butler

January 9, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Mike's passing. I knew Mike back when I was involved with training school bus drivers and he was a great help to me.
He will be missed

Patricia Derocher

January 9, 2010

Our thought's & prayer's are with you & your family. Know that Michael is up in Heaven with the Angel's. He wont be suffering no more. May he Rest In Peace.

January 9, 2010

To the family of Michael- I am so very sorry for your loss, but heaven just got a GREAT MAN! He was truely a genuine caring person -my son who he called "the Jay Man" worked in his office as a summer kid in DMV over 13 years ago and until he passed on 5/14/09 Mike asked about him every single time he saw me. His friendship was an honor! Mike you are so loved by so many people-you will be missed but you will never be forgotten- Love, Annie Pylypiec (DMV)

Helen Carll

January 9, 2010

I met Mike while working at Motor Vehicles. He was a good friend of my boss, the late Bob Hogan. He was a sweet and caring friend and although I have not seen him since I retired in1995, I always remembered him. He is one of the last nice guys. Love you Mike. Sincerely, Helen

The Staff of Parker Bros. Memorial Funeral Home

January 9, 2010

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