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Jennifer Menagias
January 22, 2026
I am so deeply sorry for your family´s loss.
Michael Diederich, Jr.
January 14, 2026
I am so saddened to learn of Pam's death. I met her long ago when she was a JAG lieutenant. I got to know her much better through the Bar Association, where I was always so impressed by her work ethic and managerial skills. But most of all by her personal warmth and compassion. She has a place in my heart. She will be greatly missed.
Elaine (Carnicelli) Amory
January 14, 2026
I am beyond sad to see the news of Pam's passing. We were law school roommates (with little Kevin, too), and I was so lucky to have her friendship. She was an incredible person. My heart goes out to her family. Such a loss.
Daniel Johnson
January 12, 2026
Pam was a very warm, kind, and generous person who I enjoyed spending many unforgettable moments with. I felt very blessed to have known her
as her brother in law and very sad to be informed of her passing.
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David Alexander
January 9, 2026
Pam. You are missed. A selfless and kind person, and a consummate professional and leader. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Rest in Peace.
Marty Kerins Jr
January 8, 2026
To live in the hearts that we leave behind is to never die.
Cheryl Niro
January 8, 2026
Pam was simply wonderful. Her bright, compassionate spirit and her unwavering dedication to helping those who struggle made her a once-in-a-lifetime friend. I will cherish our times together and carry her memory as a guiding inspiration. My heart is with her daughters and all who loved her. The world is dimmer without her, and would be a better place with more people like her. I will love and miss her always.
A friend forever, Cheryl Niro
K Mills
January 8, 2026
Megan & Samantha, my heart is filled with sorrow. I have many memories of your mom when we lived in Niskayuna. I hope you find comfort in your memories. K. Mills xoxoxo
Georgiann Leahy
January 7, 2026
I will forever cherish my friendship with Pam. So many memories...the late night phone calls that always started off with the long "Seinfeld" hellooo and we would both laugh and the spur of the moment car rides to nowhere in particular. I am so sorry that you had to endure any suffering, but now you are with God, the angels, Kevin and your Dad. I hope your family finds comfort in knowing how many people loved Pam. All that knew Pam are blessed.
GWEN J WRIGHT
January 7, 2026
As outgoing chairperson of Upper Hudson Planned Parenthood I extend condolences to the family on behalf of the board and staff. Pam was a beacon of light and I enjoyed serving with her. The sky will be brighter as her star continues to shine on us all.
Lexi Bickler
January 7, 2026
Sending my warmest condolences to the family. Pam´s legacy of kindness, compassion, and humor will live on in all that had the pleasure of knowing her. Sending my deepest sympathies and thoughts of peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Francesca Mills
January 7, 2026
I grew up with Megan and Pam was a second mom to me. I will never forget the love and support I felt from here even when Megan and I were causing trouble or laughing for hours on end at their house. I have no words to describe the lasting impact she has left on my life. She was always there to support me no questions asked. I love you Pam
Sherry Levin Wallach
January 6, 2026
Pam was an amazing woman and woman in the law. She lead the New York State Bar Association with dedication, pride and talent. I met Pam in her role as Executive Director of NYSBA and was lucky enough to serve my term of President with her by my side. She was a compassionate and supportive friend and dear friend and colleague. She was an incredible support and provided sage advice and guidance. We shared our challenges and successes over the years. I cherished our many talks and time together. She was brilliant, kind, caring and a true leader. Her calm and gentle way was a gift. She loved the law and making this world a better place. The New York State Bar Association was so lucky to have her leadership and vision. She leaves behind a wonderful legacy. She will be missed deeply.
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