Pafundi, Patricia (Malone)
GRAFTON - Patricia (Malone) Pafundi, 73, entered peacefully into eternal life surrounded by the love of her family on January 23, 2023, after a courageous battle with cancer.
She was born in Troy on July 20, 1949, to her late parents, Vincent P. Malone and Mary E. (Shay) Malone. Patricia was raised in Troy and was a longtime resident of Grafton. She was a graduate of C.C.H.S. and Albany College of Pharmacy Health Sciences. She worked in various pharmacies throughout the Capital Region and for many years at the State of New York as a pharmacist.
Patricia is survived by her husband, Nicholas "Skip" Pafundi; four children, Jesse Pafundi, Jeremy Pafundi, Danielle (Brad) Kent, and Michelle (Colin) Mason; and six grandchildren, Maggie, Addison, Brennan, Griffin, Nolan and Miles. She was the loving sister of Peggy Minarski, Susan (David) Kile, and Michael (Marcia) Malone. She was predeceased by her sister, Mary Shemels, and brother-in-law, Joseph Minarski. She was a beloved aunt to many nieces and nephews who she cherished.
Patricia was a lifelong learner and avid reader. She was passionate about politics, her local public library and science. She enjoyed sitting on the deck of her Cranberry Pond home, working in the garden, and watching the moon rise in the evening. Patricia looked forward to spending summers at SPAC listening to the symphony and orchestra. The beaches of Cape May, N.J. where she spent time in the summer with her extended family held a special place in her heart. Above all, she loved spending time with her family on any occasion.
Patricia had a very strong faith and a generous soul. She was abundantly kind and made deep connections with many people throughout her life.
Relatives and friends are invited to celebrate her life at a funeral Mass on Tuesday, January 31, 2023, at 11 a.m. in St. Augustine's Church, 25 115th St., Troy.
In lieu of flowers, those wishing to remember Patricia in a special way may send donations to the Grafton Public Library or Dana Farber Cancer Institute.
For online condolences please visit www.mcdonaldandsonfunerhome.com.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Jan. 28, 2023.

Memories and Condolences
for Patricia Pafundi

41 Entries

Harvey Brody

February 15, 2023

The best characterization I may offer about Patty is simple. She aspired and was close to being the best human being, wife, and mother, I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. She offered her knowledge and skills for only The Good. Without hesitation, she leaves a gap that can never be filled. Harvey Brody

Frank Piacente

February 12, 2023

Those college years(1967-1972) were wonderful years. Patty always had a smile - she was "good people". Rest in peace dear patricia. Frank piacente. ACP class of 1972

Dan Varalli

February 11, 2023

May God continue to bless Patricia. As a classmate at Albany College of Pharmacy, she always made any class or gathering more enjoyable. She had that special personality that you don´t forget.

Jack Dickey

February 10, 2023

To the Pafundi family. Sorry to hear of the passing of Patricia. A very caring individual. We were classmates at ACPHS. May she rest in peace.

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Jeanne Sausville and family

February 2, 2023

My heart goes out to the entire Pafundi family. Patti no longer has pain and is safe in heaven now. I knew Patti many years ago. Someone had the idea to have "Wednesday play" which was Mothers bringing their kids to learn to share and have lunch together at alternate homes. Then everyone would go home at nap time (especially the mothers needed a nap!) Patti Pafundi, Cathie Allain, Chris Beckstein, Marie Carroll and I joined together as much for the mothers as for the children. As our families grew we had, 4 Pafundi's, 4 Sausville's, 3 Allain's, 2 Beckstein's, and 2 Carroll's. Those were some of the best days of my life!
Later after the kids were older Patti wanted to make bread and butter pickles that I made from my mother in laws recipe. Patti, Betty Jones and I made pickles using up all her propane and had to finish them on their gas grill laughing all day long. It was so much fun we decided to make Christmas cookies together to give as gifts for friends.
Regretfully I didn't see Patti for many years because I now live in Amsterdam but those memories will always be with me. I am making a donation in Patti's name to the Grafton Public Library where our children enjoyed many library story hours.

Vevette M Lahut

January 31, 2023

Those we hold most dear never truly leave us. They live on in the kindnesses they showed, the comfort they shared, and the love they brought into our lives.
My sincere condolences.
Vevette

Tom and Sue O'Connell

January 30, 2023

To the Pafundi Family,
Our deepest condolences to you Skip and your family. We know that Patti will be watching over all of you each day.
Tom and Sue O'Connell

Kim Collen

January 30, 2023

To Skip and family,
I just met Patti last summer, and although we only had a few visits, I thoroughly enjoyed our talks. She was very smart, funny and loved to talk about her family, who she was so proud of. I wish I had the chance to know her better. May your memories live on in your hearts and help you through this difficult time.

Kim, John, Jake & Kyle Collen

Jen Bonhomme & David Rimmer

January 30, 2023

Sending lots of loving support to Jeremy, Jesse and the Pafundi family. Peace to all of you, especially Patricia. We´ve made a donation to the cancer institute to honor her beautiful life. Lots of love, Jen Bonhomme & David Rimmer

Mike and Mia Calabrese

January 30, 2023

Skip and the Pafundi family
So sorry for your loss our prayers are with you.

Deborah Sousa

January 29, 2023

One of the many bonuses of Danielle marrying Brad was that we all had the privilege of getting to know the Pafundi family and the gift of their friendship. Patti was a wonderful woman, always ready with a kind word, interesting story or simply an ear to listen. She always asked after your family or concerns from conversations in the past. She loved to laugh and LOVED her family, especially her grandchildren. Thank you Skip and the Pufundi family for sharing Patti with us... I am grateful I had the opportunity to share a few precious memories with you all. Patti, you are already missed..

Corey Remington

January 29, 2023

Pafundi Family,

The last time is spoke with Pat was at my mom's funeral. I will always cherish that moment as she made sure I was ok, that my family was doing ok. I wish I could be there to return the favor. So many memories as she was one of the town mom's we all grew up to love. God bless you all.

Lolly, Joe and family

January 29, 2023

Skip, Jesse, Jeremy, Danielle and Michelle so sorry for your loss and we extend our sincere condolences. I remember how hard it is to lose a Mom and the ones you love "Unc and Annie" . Remember the good times and memories you have built; it takes a while but it helps. We also wish to express our sincere condolences to the Malone family.
Lolly, Joe and family

Gary and Greg Morgan

January 28, 2023

We wish to express our sincere condolences to Patti's Family. Also to Peggy, Susan, and Michael. Patti, along with the rest of the Malone Family, made our old neighborhood a wonderful place to grow up. She will be missed by all. Gary and Greg Morgan

Dan Legacy

January 28, 2023

Peggy, Susan, & Michael. I was saddened to hear of your loss, and that of many others both family & friends. I have so many wonderful memories of each member of your family. May God bless you with comfort and minister to you in your loss. Patty was always so beautiful and had such a lovely spirit. I am so very sorry that I am far away and cannot join you personally.
With Love to each of you, Danny Legacy

thomas regan

January 28, 2023

To the entire Pafundi Family.We are so sorry to hear the news about Patty.May God Bless You all during this difficult time.But she is home safe in the arms of Our Lord pain free.Barb and l can´t make the Mass but please know You are in our thoughts.

Theresa Mullaugh

January 28, 2023

Skip, my heart aches for you and your family. What a tremendous loss of such a beautiful, brave, funny woman. I have such fond memories of Patti and I can´t stop thinking of the two of you. Much love to you my friend.
Theresa and Al Mullaugh

Mary Jo Consuelo Johnson

January 28, 2023

Dear Skip, I am so sorry for your loss, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers, Mary Jo

Laurie Brady

January 27, 2023

Danielle, Brad, kids and the Pafundi family, I'm so sorry to hear of Patti's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Auntie Laurie

Billy and Gail Jones

January 26, 2023

If you're lucky enough to have known Patti, you know what a wonderful woman she was in so many ways. She was the most loving and giving human being I have ever been around. Family was everything to her; and her love sustained us all through the many highs and lows of all our lives. She was always there whenever you needed her and stayed strong throughout her life demonstrating what true love and friendship is all about. Patti was so committed to making this world a better place through her life-long activism, even when she was privately suffering from her illnesses. Skip has been my friend for almost 60 years, and has been at her side throughout everything. They raised amazing and loving children together, all of whom inherited the compassion and goodness they got from their parents. Gail and I and our sons were honored to have had the opportunity to share a
large part of our lives with this family, and I know her legacy is now being passed down to her beloved grandchildren who she adored. My memories of Patti will sustain me as I hope they will for the family also. I've come to realize that a person is not really "gone" if you continue to keep them in your heart and mind. To Skip, Jesse, Jeremy, Danielle, Michelle and all the grandchildren I hope this offers some solace at this difficult time. We will always love Patti and know she was a force for good all her life. She was one of a kind and made this world a little better by the way she lived her life. What better memories can anyone have. All our love forever.

Billy and Gail Jones

Mary Spinelli

January 21, 2023

Laura,
I´m so sorry for the loss of your wonderful Grandmother.
I would mention your name to her and she would say "you know Laura? I love her.
It was a pleasure taking care of Pat, I shared many smiles with her and know she will be missed but will leave many happy memories.

John Brunelle

January 20, 2023

Whenever I remember Pat, it will be with much laughter. Many years ago when she lived above the bar in Albany we spent a lot of time together and I can´t remember anyone I laughed with as much. To her children and Sue, Mickie and Katherine I´m sorry for your loss! Much love!

Barbara Hennessy

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Barbara Hennesy

January 20, 2023

My Heart Is Simply Broken-Rest in Peace Sweet Patsy

Caroline

January 20, 2023

Pat was truly one of my absolute favorite residents in my almost 10 year career at the Manor. I will miss our mornings singing along to Sinatra, her sweet smile, her laugh, her sassy attitude, her humor, and those outstretched arms always ready to give me a hug at the start of a shift and before she went to bed at night.
Every nurse has at least one patient in their career who they bond so closely with that they view them as family. Pat was and forever will be one of "MY babies." I am grateful to have had the privilege to care for such an amazing woman and I am going to miss her SOOO much.

Jen, Jackie, and family...... my deepest sympathy and hearfelt condolences to all of you during this difficult time.

~ Caroline LPN B1