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Quinn Coffey Obituary

Coffey, Quinn Ennis SLINGERLANDS Quinn Ennis Coffey, 23, died Monday, June 4, 2007, ultimately losing his lifelong battle with muscular dystrophy. He was an unusual young man, not only kind and generous without qualification, but blessed with a deep awareness of his own intrinsic goodness. Gifted with a far above average intelligence, Quinn resolved that his physical limitations would not impede his ability to learn and enjoy those activities, such as reading, drawing and painting, which gave him such great satisfaction. Exceeding at every level of academic challenge, he graduated Magna Cum Laude in his master's program from SUNY Albany in 2006. Quinn's legacy endures. Always kind and gentle, he looked for the best in others, and never surrendered the vision that the future held hope for a better life. And even though his disease robbed him of his ability to perform physical tasks, he never became bitter about his condition. Quinn understood the important things in life. He was indifferent to material possessions but rather developed a lifelong passion for learning in his field of history. He was dedicated fan of the Boston Red Sox and the Pittsburgh Steelers and enjoyed going to Fenway Park, spending a week every June at the Gettysburg Civil War Institute held at Gettysburg College, poker games and summer bonfires with his friends. As a young boy, Quinn vacationed with is family to Kennebunkport, Maine, a place he loved so much because it brought so much joy and happiness to him. He held always to the dream of some day sharing a summer home in Kennebunkport with his brother Ian. Quinn held strong feelings about matters of his personal life. He was extremely organized, and never left matters uncompleted. He abhorred chaos, and was always prompt with his assignments and appointments. He was never absent minded, and constantly advised his father to stay focused, and his brother Ian to slow down when driving. His father, Steve, adored him as did his remarkable mother Joan, whose unconditional love and unwavering support helped him to become the man he was. Throughout his life, Quinn was extremely proud of his brother Ian, who respected and revered Quinn in return. He also is survived by his grandmother, Dorothy Ennis and many aunts, uncles and cousins. Quinn never wanted to be considered special. In fact, the sentiments expressed here would have embarrassed him. He simply tried to live with integrity, and to treat others with respect and kindness. Those who knew and admired him (and there were many) appreciated his warmth, marvelously whimsical sense of humor, unconquerable spirit, and his ever present warm smile. Quinn never complained, ever. While his body has now come to rest, his character and dignity will serve as an inspiration to all who knew him. To the end of time, his memory will serve as a light, forever glowing, to those who loved and held Quinn in such high esteem. Relatives and friends are invited to call on Thursday from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Applebee Funeral Home, 403 Kenwood Ave., Delmar. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 9:30 a.m. Friday at St. Thomas the Apostle Church, 35 Adams Pl., Delmar. Burial will be in Bethlehem Cemetery. Contributions may be made to the Muscular Dystrophy Association, 1 Marcus Blvd., Albany, NY 12205.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Jun. 6 to Jun. 7, 2007.

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Theresa Balfe

May 31, 2008

Steve, Joan and Ian: I know that it has been almost a year since Quinn's passing and the pain is still with you, but I am sure Quinn is at peace as he is watching over you. He is with you in everything you do daily, as well. My thoughts are with you every year, as my brother passed away on the same day, but in 2005. God bless your family.

Sincerely,

Kathleen Kelleher

October 26, 2007

Steve, Joan, and Ian,

There are no words to comfort those of us who endure the unspeakable pain of losing our children, so all I can do is express my sorrow for your loss. And to Ian, I am so sorry that you have lost a beloved brother. When I heard about Quinn, I shed many a tear remembering Quinn and Brendan as little boys playing together. The first memory that came back was taking them sledding at Normanside, and how independent and determined Quinn was.

Memories are everything and they will give you strength. That and the love you have for one another. My thoughts are with you.

Andrew Kalish

September 1, 2007

Mr and Mrs. Coffey,

I went to Muhlenberg with Quinn, and lived in Prosser with him, I was on the third floor. I was just told of Quinn's passing by another classmate. Quinn and I were friends, albeit for his short time at the school. He was probably the most inspiring person I have ever met in my life. I don't know many people that could have accomplished what he did and it was an honor to be his classmate but more importantly his friend. I hope this message reaches you well.

Philip Bocketti

June 21, 2007

Steve,I was so sorry about the loss of your son .Even after all these years as a funeral director it is hard to find the words.I assure you that my families prayers are with you your wife and son .Again with thoughts of you Philip Bocketti

Barb & Art Brannigan

June 14, 2007

Joan and Steve,
We were so saddened to learn that Quinn had to leave you. Words just can't explain how we feel, but please know you are in our prayers. God Bless You.
Love,

Mark Baginski

June 11, 2007

Dear Joan and family,
I unfortunately did not get to know Quinn very well, as I only met him briefly at my brother in laws funeral, but it is terribly obvious to me that he was loved, and loved, more than the vast majority of human beings, and you and your family were right in the thick of it. How blessed you were, and are, and will be. You can rest assured that Quinn is now where he is supposed to be, in HIS EVERLASTING ARMS. May GOD bless all of you and heal your pain quickly.......Mark Baginski(Nancy Schachinger's brother)

Kathryn Leonard

June 11, 2007

Dear Coffey Family:

I had the privilege of babysitting for Quinn and Ian one summer when they were youngsters. I have always remembered Quinn's wit, intelligence and spirit and Cindy Asmus and my uncle John McEneny have kept me appraised of all of his successes through the years. Please know that his strength has touched so many lives that are now being lived far away from Delmar. I never knew him as a grown man and so for me, he will always be that wonderfully funny and sweet eight year old boy splashing his brother in the town park swimming pool. My heart goes out to you all.

Lisa Green

June 10, 2007

Steve & family-
Although I never met Quinn, I got to know him and what he meant to you through our conversations. When you spoke of Quinn it was with such pride and love, I am so sad to hear of his passing. I know how dedicated you were to your son, and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lisa Green (Capital Bauer)

Christine Schade

June 10, 2007

Dear Steve, Joan & Ian,

The love and support from all of you gave the world a great gift--Quinn. He was truly inspirational in his role of teacher--one which he had filled throughout his life. He taught all of many lessons by his example and strength of character. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mallory Larkin

June 9, 2007

Quinn brought happiness into the lives of all those who he met. I am saddened that his time was so brief, but am thankful that I had the opportunity to have him touch my life.

Alline Torrey

June 9, 2007

Quinn was an inspiration to me. I was very upset when I heard he is no longer with us. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. It is never easy to loose someone especially not someone as special as Quinn.

Jay Handron

June 9, 2007

Dearest Steve, Joan, and Ian
Quinn will without a doubt be missed by everyone, myself included, but I know he is smiling down from Heaven and will always watch over us. I am always here for the three of you. God Bless.

Nora Winstead

June 8, 2007

Steve,

I am Nora Poland, older sister of Tim & Kate. A few years ago I had dinner with Susan Halton and Tracy on the Cape and Tracy shared Quinn's remarkable life and accomplishments and your outstanding role as his Dad.

My deepest condolences to the Coffey family. You are in all my prayers.

Nora Poland Winstead

Alexis Hansen

June 8, 2007

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family. Although I never knew Quinn, my mother spoke of him often. Please let me know if you need anything

Ruth Smith

June 8, 2007

Dear Joan, Steve and Ian,
As his Nursery School teacher at Beth Emeth, I remember Quinn with great fondness> My heart aches for all of you at this time of loss. I pray for peace and comfort for all of you and am glad that you had the privilege of sharing this life with your precious son Quinn.

Ben Early

June 8, 2007

As a classmate of Quinn's at SUNY Albany, I can say that his courage, passion for teaching, and wonderful sense of humor will keep him in the hearts of all those who knew him. I'm terribly sorry for your loss and pray that you find comfort during this time.

Kate Poland Downes

June 8, 2007

Stevie,
My sincerest sympathy to you and your family. Old friendships and memories resurrect during these difficult times. According to what I read, Quinn would have loved Schilling tonight. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kate Poland Downes

Charles Pinckney

June 8, 2007

Steve, Joan, Ian,
It is not often you meet an individual in life who truly makes you want to be a better a person. Your son and brother was unquestionably that kind of man. Like the many who have written before me I consider having known Quinn a privilege and an honor.

Life is not always fair, however there are certain people who have a remarkable ability to show the rest of us what a beautiful thing life can be and Quinn is one of them. I am so thankful for having known him and having been able to be a small part of the life of an individual who had so much to offer to so many.
With Love,

Fabian Soto

June 7, 2007

Dear Steve, Joan, and Ian,

Am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. i do still remember spending time with him and Ian and how nice and self-sufficient he was. He will live on in the hearts of everyone who loved him.

Sarah Hulme

June 7, 2007

I am very sorry for your loss and would like you to know that Quinn was an inspiration. I went to SUNY with him and can attest to the fact that he looks for the best in others and has had a positive impact on the lives of so many.

Michael Burns

June 7, 2007

Steve, Joan, Ian and family,

I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts. I will always think of Quinn fondly and remember the good times we had. Take care of yourselves.

June 7, 2007

Steve and Family
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kevin and Irene Griffith

Carol Rodgers

June 7, 2007

To Quinn's Family--

I was one of Quinn's professors in the MSSE program at UAlbany and had the very great pleasure of Quinn's company for a semester. I watched him grow into a teacher who was not only passionate about history, but truly interested in his students, their learning, and their lives. He was a learner, too, always open to feedback from me and his peers, always curious and probing. I also loved his sense of humor, and, as a resident of Massachusetts, shared his loyalty to the Red Sox--we were a small group in a sea of black and white stripes!

As the mother of a son just slightly younger than Quinn, I cannot imagine your loss. But he leaves behind so much respect, affection, and, from the students he taught, gratitude.

With profound sympathy,

Debbie Brown

June 7, 2007

Joan, Steve and Ian -
Although we didn't get to visit with you very often, our prayers and love are with you. Quinn was an outstanding young man who accomplished more in his young life than most of us.
Love, Aunt Betty, Debbie and Barbie

Christine

June 7, 2007

Some lives, though all-too-brief, shine as a bright light for others that they may see their way more clearly. Quinn Coffey's light will shine on in the hearts of all those who knew and loved him. With prayers and in remembrance of those who will miss him.

Amy Mundweiler

June 7, 2007

May God bless all of you in this time of loss. I wish I had the privilege to meet your son. I truly feel God picks very special people to teach us the true meaning of life.

Jeanne & Gary Meal

June 7, 2007

To the Coffey Family - We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family at this very sad time.

Matt Pinckney

June 7, 2007

Joan, Steve & Ian,

Quinn was a blessing to all of us who knew him, and I feel especially privileged to have known him as I did. He never complained and never spoke ill of anyone (except of course, for the Yankees).

His wit and charm were unparalleled. His smile, contagious. His perservering spirit and enthusiasm not only made a profound impression on all of us, but will live on in the lives of those he touched.

God Bless,

Gerry and Kathy Decker

June 7, 2007

Dear Joan, Steve and Ian,

A child and a brother is a most precious gift from God. May Quinn live happily now in heaven and in your memories forever.

Our son, Geoff, was a year ahead of Quinn in high school. He always spoke so highly of him and said he was an inspiration to all who came in touch with him.

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.

Ann (Cerone) Keeler

June 7, 2007

Joan and Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Caitlin Daly

June 7, 2007

There is not a student that attended SUNY with Quinn that is not feeling this loss. A great man with an even more impressive outlook on life. He will be missed.

Clare Carroll

June 7, 2007

Coffey Family, my daughter Meaghan was a classmate of Quinn's in the SUNY Albany Master's program. She told us of your wonderful son and how much fun he was in class, that the class was very close, she told us the time she and another class mate had a project with Quinn and they visited your home to work with him on the project and how they enjoyed that time and all the cookies you gave to the starving college students..she is grateful. Your son is an inspiration for all and especially the future teachers that class produced. I know that class all take of piece of your son with them as they step into a classroom. Oh yes, the rivalry between the Yankee fans (Meaghan a Yankee fan) and Red Sox fans in the class were heated. Meaghan remembers him with laughter.

Tim & Sandy Rarick

June 7, 2007

To the Coffey Family - We were so sorry to hear of your loss. I remember seeing Quinn at Football games and school functions. He was an inspiration to all. You should be very proud. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family at this very sad time.

A Neighbor
Slingerlands, NY

Deidre Bayly Cody

June 7, 2007

My heart goes out to all of you.You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Michele

June 7, 2007

Dear Cofey Family -
Quinn sounds like a remarkable young man. How blessed you were to have had him in your lives for 23 years. I can only imagine how very much he taught everyone he came into contact with during his time on earth.
May God continue to bless you.

Laura Windom

June 7, 2007

I did not know this young man, but from what I just read, I wish I had. My prayers and heart go out to his family and friends. What a beautiful tribute.

Alan Swanson

June 6, 2007

Steve & Family,
I'm so sorry to learn of the loss of Quinn. Unfortunately I will not be able to express my condolences to you in person as I am out of town until the end of the weekend. Please know you are in my thoughts & prayers.

Jim Gillespie

June 6, 2007

I met Quinn at the Civil War Institute where I admired the courage which he displayed. John Kennedy defined courage as "Grace under pressure." That was Quinn. The Civil War scholars at Gettysburg will miss him.

A Grateful Neighbor

June 6, 2007

What you have written about your loved one, Quinn is wonderful. It's moving to read how his attitute has inspired his circle of family and friends. Thank you for your inspirational sharing. i am sorry for your loss.

Julie Stuart ( Irving)

June 6, 2007

To The Coffey Family, So sorry to hear of Quinn's passing.He was such a great person.
Both of my boys went to school with both of yours at BCHS. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.

Julie Stuart ( Irving)
Jeremy and Justin Irving

Jennifer Emmeluth

June 6, 2007

Dear The Coffey Family,

I had the privilege of being in the same Master's program as Quinn, and while I was only in a few classes with him, he truly seemed to be genuine, intelligent and a nice young man. I am very sorry to hear of your loss, and my thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Robert Shaye

June 6, 2007

Dear Steve, Joan, and Ian,
My thoughts are prayers are with you. It was an honor to know Quinn and I remember the beautiful graduation party you threw for him at your house. I am so glad I was able to enjoy that afternoon with your family. Quinn's attitude and perseverance serves as an inspiration for all of us. He was such an incredible young man.

Kara Gallo

June 6, 2007

Dear Joan, Steve and Ian,
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to each of you. Please know you are in my prayers.

June 6, 2007

Dear Steve and family,

We are sorry for your loss.

"There will come a day
when the tears of sorrow
will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
and your heart will begin to heal itself...
and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
and you will hear the whisper of hope.
There will come a day
when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
as a sunshower of the soul...
a turning of the tide...
a promise of peace.
There will come a day when you will...
risk loving...
go on believing...
and treasure the tears of remembering

Bill & Donna Gorman & family

Tracey Asmus Lombardi

June 6, 2007

Steve, Joan and Ian,
While it has been years since I have seen Quinn (I still remember him as five years old), I have been kept up on his many accomplishments through my family. I wish you great strength and love through this time. He was truly an inspiration.

Theresa Balfe-Gallager

June 6, 2007

Steve, Joan and Ian: Please except my condolences in the loss of Quinn. I only had the privilege to meet him a few times, but was so impressed by both he and Ian. Your family will be in my prayers.

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John Hubbard

June 6, 2007

In thinking of Quinn, I remember the John Donne quote "no man is an island unto himself." Quinn was and will continue to be an inspiration to many who knew him for his courage and the many accomplishments he achieved despite many obstacles. He could not have done this without the loving, committed support and dedication of you - Steve, Joan and Ian - and his many friends and you all have much of which to be proud. I share in your sadness at this time and hope that you will all be blessed by the memories of a wonderful and inspirational young man who accomplished so much in what was too brief a time.
Sincerely, John Hubbard

Sarah Moore

June 6, 2007

Joan, Steve and Ian,
We are all so saddened by Quinn's passing. He was an incredible gift to all of us. Watching him grow from a joyful loving preschooler to the young man he became was inspiring. He will be so missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you..Sarah, (Moore), Michael and Lauren (DiGiulio)

Glen, Julie, & Renata Reynolds

June 6, 2007

We, like everyone else who knew Quinn, enjoyed every moment we were privileged to spend with him. Steve, Joan & Ian ~ our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sam Minassian

June 6, 2007

Mr. and Mrs. Coffey and Ian,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and my friend Quinn, who was always just one of the boys, I'm going to miss the late poker nights, bonfires, and Yankees v. Redsox debates...

Donna and Richard Heichel

June 6, 2007

To the Coffey Family,
Our prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. May the promise of our Lord bring you comfort in knowing that He has gone to prepare a place for those who believe. May God Bless you.

Andrea Wilson

June 6, 2007

I went to middle & High School with Quinn and I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with your family.

Tracy

June 6, 2007

I consider it precious gift to have had Quinn as part of our fomily and I cherish the times we spent together. I will always be in awe of the great love and special parenting that Steve and Joan gave Quinn. And the closeness and support of his brother Ian.

Kathryn Campion

June 6, 2007

Dear Joan, Steve and Ian,

I was so saddened to hear about Quinn. I admired him so much. When he was a student at BCMS I saw him much more. I was able to re-connect with him on a professional level when he substituted at BCMS this past semester. We chatted during my break about his college degrees and his desire to teach. The students really enjoyed him. I fondly remember what a dedicated Russian student he was. Dr.Dumont (my former colleague) was very proud of his skills. I think when he was at BCHS he also worked as a Russian tutor. Quinn will continue to inspire the students and staff at Bethlehem Central.

My heartfelt sympathy,

Kathy Campion BCMS

Andrew & Gia Sciocchetti

June 6, 2007

We are so sorry for the loss of your wonderful child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Garrett Toften

June 6, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Cindy Asmus

June 6, 2007

My deepest condolences to Joan, Steve, Ian and family. I cherish the time spent with Quinn for so many years as his babysitter and friend. He never failed to make me laugh or point something out to me that I never noticed. He was super smart and genuinely kind - demonstrating a wisdom beyond his years, even from a young age. Watching him grow into such a remarkable person was a gift. He suceeded in making me better for knowing him. I will miss him.

Ryan, Janine, William & Andrew Asmus

June 6, 2007

Quinn was an inspirational young man whose thoughts, words and deeds deserve our praise and emulation. His spirit and courage will live on. You can be proud of all his wonderful qualities and accomplishments. Our hearts are saddened by Quinn’s passing and we wish you strength during this difficult time.

Pamela King

June 6, 2007

To the Coffey Family,
My deepest condolensces to you and your family. Reflect on the your memories of Quinn and all the happiness and joy he brought into your lives. Stay strong and blessed.
Pamela K.

Ray Doring

June 6, 2007

Steve and Joan
Great parenting produced a wonderful human being. I certainly could learn much from how he lived his 23 years. You all are in my prayers.
Ray

Michelle Van Kampen

June 6, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

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