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Geraldine D. Cristo-DePaul
February 14, 2025
I´m lucky to have had such a wonderful brother in law for 24 years. It was an honor to know him and laugh with him, whenever they flew in from Chicago, to be with their families. RIP Gentle Steve, you´ll never be forgotten. Always, your sister in law. De
Geraldine(De) Jimmy & Karen
September 21, 2024
In memory of my former brother in law, loyal uncle and advisor, to my children.
We´ll never forget your kind ways and assistance when we needed it most.
We all send our love to you in Heaven. Geraldine (De) Jimmy and Karen.
Regina Valente Lombardi
September 20, 2024
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Patrick and Deborah Ielapi
September 18, 2024
Diana,
We are So Sorry to hear of Your Loss. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with the Family During this Time of Grief. May All Your Memories bring You Comfort. Please accept Our Deepest Sympathies.
Love Pat and Deb
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Nichols Family
September 17, 2024
The Nichols family remembers Steve with great fondness. His class, style and wry wit made him an endearing figure. We always looked forward to his visits to Rochester. We loved seeing him - and also Diana. A visit from Steve and Di inevitably meant an "event" at Sharon's and Tony's home where we'd laugh and eat until our tummies - and our hearts - were way past full. Sharon was the "Contessa". Diana was (and remains) "Lady Di". Somewhere along the way, Tony and Steve were tagged with "Primo and Secundo", inspired by the two brothers in the movie "Big Night". It was always very special when Steve and Di were with us. Our hearts go out to his families - including our own - for the loss of his presence. But he will remain in our hearts forever.
Margaret DeZee and John Capano
September 17, 2024
Diane and Family:
We were deeply saddened to hear of Steve´s passing. Please know that our thoughts are with you during this incredibly difficult time. Steve was a remarkable person, and we are so glad we were able to get together for dinner. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.
Wishing you strength and comfort in the days ahead.
Margaret DeZee and John Capano
Gina Fabrizio
September 17, 2024
I had the pleasure of meeting Stephen and Diana. Such wonderful people. My thoughts and prayers go out to Diana and their family. My deepest sympathy.
Byron Knight
September 16, 2024
Diana and family. Steve was an elite member of a great group of law students which I was lucky to be part of at John Marshall. All with a great sense of humor and Steve was one of the best. He went on to be a highly accomplished attorney for over 40 years. We were all proud of him. Byron Knight
Richard R. Cristo & Joseph A. Botticelli
September 15, 2024
We were profoundly sorry to learn of Stephen's passing. He was a true gentleman to everyone in our extended families and a consummate professional.
Stephen's legal acumen was so well respected he even argued major,
precedent setting cases before the Illinois Supreme Court.
Our love and prayers to wife Diana and his entire family. We're certain Almighty God will welcome him in Heaven and provide solace to his heartbroken family.
All the best. Always.
Amen.
Richard R. Cristo &
Joseph A. Botticelli,
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Cathy Bosko
September 15, 2024
To Diana and your loving family, I wish you my sincere condolences. I have many happy and special memories of years gone by. My deepest sympathy.
Cathy Bosko
James DePaul
September 15, 2024
Not only was Steve my brother-in-law and friend, he was like a brother to me. The times we spent working on his honey do list were some of my favorite. You will be missed. Good bless you.
Love Jim
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